On Love & Hypnosis & Love

In erotic hypnosis there is much talk
around the idea of falling in love
with the hypnotist.

Not everyone desires it, but there
are several who want it, and I can't
help but wonder is it the hypnotist
herself the person wants to love or
if it is just an innate desire to
love, or if the feeling of loving
someone leaves a person feeling loved.

Many times people will shoot for
an outcome and ask questions later,
if at all. However, it would be good
to know what is at the core of your
desires because there may be other
ways to achieve a desired outcome
without compromising yourself or
perhaps even those you love in your
day-to-day life.

The more I talk about Love, the more
I find that those who follow me can
relate - or it has an opposite effect
and scares people off.

We all want Love, to love and to be
loved, and yet there needs to be a
willingness to be vulnerable for Love
to be able to get in. Maybe that is
what hypnosis does for a person?
Maybe it helps them get past their
defenses and guards?

If so, that can be an awesome thing,
but it depends on what the results
are and what the person on the
receiving end does with that openness
and vulnerability.

As always, I do believe that different
things can work for different people,
so I don't believe there are any
standard "one sized fits all" answers.

However, if in the absence of the one
you love there is pain....If in the
presence of the one you love there is
abuse (that you don't appreciate, but
are told to)...If you feel dependent
on the one you love...If you are
demanded to do things that would hurt
or compromise you - and you do them...
odds are what you have is something
that is filling a void, and is something
else going by the name of Love. If it
is truly Love, it won't be seamless and
easy, but it will empower you in its wake
and aftermath, instead of weakening
or demoralizing you.

While it may sometimes be scary to
take it in and you may at times feel
like you aren't worthy of the real
thing, please know that the very
fact that you here and living and
breathing tells me, and should tell
you, that you are worthy of the REAL
thing. Just because you feel inferior
or deficient in some way doesn't mean
that you are unworthy...if anything,
it likely just means you need it even
more.

No one is perfect. If we waited for
perfection for things to happen -
nothing would ever get done. Perfection
is a nice - yet improbable - standard.
The best we can hope for is to do the
best we can with what we've got, and
at times we might just be lucky enough
to find ourselves at perfect.

If these words speak to you and your
heart, then please never accept any
saccharine form of Love. It's never
as good as the real thing, and can
also have some harmful side effects.

I realize this is an usual topic of
discussion, however, I am seeing more
and more how necessary it is. When
I speak with someone from my heart,
it often allows me to have a conversation
that comes from their heart.

Just because it isn't spoken of,
doesn't mean it shouldn't be
addressed, and also doesn't mean
that it will diminish your erotic
experience. If anything, a person
who is aware of himself and his
motivations and his escapes is
more likely to find what he was
looking for than someone who
unconsciously signed on to what
another told him he should want
to fulfill his quest.

And...even better still...that
same person may just find LOVE
in the REAL world, instead of
having to settle for some
version of it in the virtual one.

If you want to explore the idea
of love more in the context of
hypnosis, I have a few recordings
that you can do it with, just ask
me about them.

Have a great day! And may Love
be with You. :D

Isis