Flashing Yellow: Proceed with Caution

So many times I take to my blog and talk about
being careful.  I am sure that there are some who
would wish that I wasn't always talking about
the things I do.

Quite frankly, I am one of them.

The problem is, I believe that there are way too
many people who have no idea what is possible
with hypnosis.  Some of the things are probably
not such "big" deals, but there are many that
can easily become one...especially when the
person affected has no clue that he is affected.

Recently someone casually called me and
wanted to experience my hypnosis.  It turns
out that there was someone else who had been
hypnotizing him.  That much he knew, but what
he didn't know was what was affecting him,
what the content of the recordings he was
listening to was, just how deeply affected by
this person he was...even to the point of
publicly embarrassing and humiliating him
in front of those he knew.

Of particular note is the fact that this person
never once told the hypnotist that he had
certain interests/desires, and yet he was
instructed to buy what could amount to life
changing MP3s.

I know for some they may wonder how this
could happen, and this person could join their
ranks.  There were things he did not know
about hypnosis when he ventured into the
waters, and likely thought it would be "fun."

Sadly, the hypnotist had other ideas.  I know
there are hypnotists that believe the adage that
a person will never do anything against their
will, but in this case, he did at some point try
to fight what was happening.

I am not clear on all of the details, but what I
am clear about is that the hypnotists you let
into your mind will potentially have their own
agenda, and if you get to the point that you
OBEY that person, then that, among other
things, is your WILL, and whatever you are
told to do, you likely will.

I am a little hesitant to suggest that if a hypnotist
is into something you aren't into, you may want
to stay away, as I do have a feminization listing,
and I know most would not be interested.

At the same time, I do not promote it, and will
ONLY do it on that line, and by request.

The particular hypnotist in question doesn't
come out and say that those who follow her
will be taken down the path this guy was, but
I somehow suspect many are.  I also know of
someone I spoke to at one point who was
hypnotized by this particular hypnotist, and
was quite troubled.

I never got to the core of the other situation,
but if he was or is going through anything
like this other person just did, I could see
why there would be such great distress.

I also know there are those who have been in
this situation and wind up being mad at
themselves.  How could it have happened?

If you never knew you had a food allergy,
but then ate something that gave you an
allergic reaction, would you be mad at
yourself?  If this is you, be kind to yourself,
and take the knowledge you now have and
use it to your benefit, and better still,  perhaps
to someone else's benefit.

And if you happen to be one of those most
skeptical, use this as a warning sign of things
that could possibly be ahead and proceed
with caution.
 

Maybe you didn't realize...

In recent conversations with those who call me,
I have been told that they are listening to my
recordings at times that truly aren't suited for
listening.

These times aren't suitable because of reasons
that apparently weren't obvious.  For that
reason, I wanted to talk about it more publicly.

At Work
So you want to listen to my recording in the
background as you work?

If the recording was designed for that, it would
be one thing.  However, if it was not (and none
of mine currently are) then a couple of things
can happen.

1.  Your mind doesn't relax as much as it can,
because it can't.  The next time you listen to
it you may not go as deeply because while
listening at work, you told it it was OK to
stay awake while listening.

2.  You might go into a trance.  Perhaps not a
deep one, but one none-the-less.  When your
mind is more open, it is more open to anything.
You could walk around in a more suggestible
state if a recording puts you there, and you do
not realize it.  (The same, by the way, holds
true if you are in mid-session and hang up the
phone.  If you do not fully come out of trance
you may be putting yourself in a less than
ideal situation).

3.  If a MP3 isn't designed to help you focus
on work, it might make you less effective.
Perhaps it is something to consider if you are
wanting to do a good job, at the job that
allows you to pay for my recordings/sessions.

In the Hot Tub
Ah....the hot tub.  It sounds like the perfect,
soothing combination, doesn't it?  Well, it's
not, not really.

Think about it.  You want to relax.  You listen
to a wonderful recording that makes you relax.
A part of your mind is probably going to be
on guard.  After all, you are in a hot tub.  What
if you were to get submerged?  How much could
you truly and completely relaxed with a part of
you being hypervigilant that way?

And...if by some chance, you were able to
completely relax, it might be a dangerous
situation to put yourself into.  Some deeply
hypnotized people can't feel changes in
temperature, and not to mention being
submerged in water is not necessarily going
to be a good thing.  Yes; you would likely
wake up if that was to happen, but why
take the chance?

While Driving
I know someone once who was so high strung
he could listen to me on a CD to bring him within
the "normal" range of someone else.  While I
didn't recommend he listen while driving, he
apparently thought otherwise.

Driving is something that is best done fully
aware.  Listening to a recording while driving
is possibly going to make you less than fully
aware.  In addition, you run the same risk as
#1 under the Work heading above.

Listening in the car at any time while in the
driver's seat is also not particularly advisable.
You never want to have your mind associate
the hypnotic state with driving.  When you
sit in the driver's seat, you want to associate
it with all of the things that have to do with
a safe driving experience.  (Interestingly,
pulling over and going to sleep in that seat
also is not necessarily the best option for
these reasons).

So these are less than ideal situations for
trancing.  One thing you might want to
consider is always trancing in an IDEAL
environment, especially if you are wanting
to enhance your trancing experience.

What ideal is might vary from person to
person, but some of the things you may
want to consider for your ideal environment
are:

consistency
comfortable temperature and/or cover
safe surface
preferred lighting
preferred environmental sounds
unlikely to be interrupted

Please consider these things when considering
your trancing habits.  The more consistent you
are, the more likely the things you do will even
set the stage for hypnosis, and even become
hypnotic themselves.

I want my good boys to stay safe, and even if
you aren't my good boy
(yet? LOL sorry couldn't resist :P)
I would like
for you to remain safe, too.

As discussed before,
ignorance is not
always bliss.

Please feel free to add your few cents,  and
have an awesome day!
 

Me, Scary?

From time to time I find out that people are scared
to call/make contact with me for various reasons.

Sometimes they think I will be mad about something.

Sometimes they think they have disappointed me.

Sometimes they think I am a certain way or will
react a certain way that is NOT me.

I do the best I can to put myself "out there" in a
way that will ring true.  Not as an act or facade,
but in a way that is genuine.

I don't always know where these ideas come from,
but they do not align with who and how I am.  Rest
assured that with me what you see is what you get.

Of course, for some that will mean good bye, as
there are those who want me to be more like "the
others."  The thing is, though, I am more than likely
very little like the others who do this kind of work.

I am not dominant in nature, however I can enjoy
playing that "role."  I respect those I speak with, and
tend to stay away from things that would purposely
intend to humilate or embarrass you.

I want you to have a good experience, one without
issues that certain other types of experiences might
create.  While I realize that some want to feel gullt
and shame, and even sometimes thrive on it, it
would never be my desire nor my intention to create
that kind of dynamic between us.

As far as I am concerned, our dynamic is only as
good and strong as your desire to be in it, and if
how I am doesn't work for you, you will always
have my respect and my support in terms of you
making other choices.  While it might be within
my "power" to try to coerce you otherwise, it is
not ever something I would do - unless it was
something a person wanted.  Even then, it would
most likely occur in a way that had nothing to do
with being forced.

I want those I affect to talk to me.  I want you to
tell me what you feel and what you think.  In
return we will take that information together and
create something that works for both of us, or
you will be on your way. 

Having said this...I also want to address the
recording that I released that suggests that you
do something for me every day.  I suggest that
as a way for you to get pleasure, as well as thank
me for the pleasure that you do get when we are
apart.  

In no way are you obligated to do anything, and
I even give you an out, if it is not something that
you would think in your best interest.  At the
same time, perhaps if you got to know me, and
were clearer about me and my intentions, you
would find that it could be a wonderful thing to
make a part of your day.  I also talk about us
being a "team" and I mean it.  I want you to get
something from everything that you do for me,
and want our interactions to only bring the best
for you.

If you ever do something, and it is something you
want to stop, and can't seem to, I am more than
happy to turn the suggestions off.  As a matter of
fact, I even have a recording that will do that...
but because it has been designed for those who
have been hypnotized "live" by me, it probably
wouldn't be as effective for someone who has
only listened to recordings.

However, I would still do whatever I could to
help you be however you wanted to be.  It is
important to me that you be taken care of. 
 
I have never appreciated the culture within erotic
hypnosis that seems to leave people hanging
out there, sinking or swimming on their own.

I have always valued the dynamic of interaction.
It is one of the reasons many of my recordings
have been designed to work primarily for those
previously in contact with me.

I invite you to get to know me better.  I invite
you to get to know me as more than "just" a
hypnotist.  There is much more to me, and for
those I really click with, that often only solidifies
the dynamic between us.

If I am not for you, I understand.  I am not for
everyone.  However, you may not yet even know
how much I can be for you...if you do not know
me that well, and think you know me by any
preconceived notions from labels I may seem to
wear.

If you haven't yet spent time here on my blog,
I invite you to.  There is a lot here, and you
will find all kinds of things to whet your appetite. 
I also invite you to check with me about the things
that prevent you from being in contact.  If it
relates to me, odds are pretty good you might
just be wrong.  

And there is nothing worse than acting on
something with wrong information, is there?


Have a great weekend!
 

More Life Changing Than I Thought

A while ago I posted about how I was beginning to
pay more attention to the foods I ate. I was just
beginning to discover the train wreck of ingredients
we put in food.

Part of my reasoning behind it was to get healthier.
If I lost a few pounds, it would be a great thing, but
I just wanted to do what was best for my body. I
didn't say it at the time, but I suspected I was at the
very least "gluten sensitive," given how my body
was reacting to things that were "bready" and
delicious.

I thought I would do what I could to begin to look
at gluten-free options. The "funny" thing was that
just because something was gluten-free did not
mean it was healthy. Many gluten-free products
had ingredients in them that I have come discover
are not healthy ones.

In addition, to compensate for the fact that there
is no gluten there is an ingredient that is used that
is a chemical, which it appears is also not so great
for you. Apparently there are a few, but all pretty
much with the same "review." In addition, it turns
out that it often creates the same reaction in a
person's body as gluten.

This was determined, by the way, after I plunged
into getting a whole bunch of things to try my hand
at gluten-free baking. It was also after I had a
whole bunch of things in my cabinet I determined
I was no longer going to eat.

In my discovery I decided to start eating gluten again.
I figured it was at least "natural" and not a chemical.
Interestingly, the weight I was losing leveled off. In
addition, it would now seem that if I was "sensitive"
before, I am REALLY sensitive now.

I did not realize that by stopping eating it I would
make matters worse. Apparently that is exactly what
can happen. So now I am really in a pickle.

Why?

Because for as much as I was so excited about making
changes, I tried to level off, but couldn't. It seems to me
I might have been smarter to do some deeper research
before being so enthusiastic.

At the same time, it seems that those who have the
sensitivity can also be/become lactose intolerant, and
can have much bigger health issues down the line. It
also seems that if the gluten issue gets resolved, so
does the dairy one. At least that is what one person
described, as a part of her journey.

Since this all started out as a way to get healthier, it
would seem that this is a good thing in the long run.
In the short run I am REALLY bummed. I really wasn't
wanting/ready to give up everything bread. It seems
my choices may have sped that up.

I share this for a number of reasons:

One, those of you who have issues like this might
find it helpful/of interest.

Two, when I think about all of the foods that will
now affect me and make me miserable and/or sick
I think about how society is really good at creating
itself around what we do around food.

I think about how we "reward" ourselves with things
that really aren't so great for us. I think about the
"hypnosis" that exists around these things, and I find
myself wondering how I will rewire myself in ways
that will likely seem odd and unusual to others, as
we often use food to "fit in."

Three, I find that my experience with this is similar
to how some approach hypnosis. They do a minimal
amount of research (if any) and proceed to act. As
they experience and research things, they may alter
their path, perhaps going from one perceived negative
thing to another, not realizing that it is "negative" at
the time though.

If they are lucky, they will come out of everything
just fine, and unscathed. If they aren't so lucky, their
"diet" may get fixed in ways they weren't prepared for,
and aren't so happy about. 

Often our choices in life have a way of changing us -
without, or without, our permission.  Please feel free
to comment if you have any of your own thoughts/
experiences to share.

Have a great night.
 

Please Read | An Important Word

It would seem that some are feeling affected by me,
and my recent emails.

While, for some, that could be a good thing, the only
way it truly is, is if YOU feel that way.

If you are uncomfortable in any way with what you
feel as a result of me or my work, please talk to me.

While some hypnotists wouldn't regard your dilemma
or concerns as issues, I am different. I only enjoy
what I do, when you enjoy what I do.

I mean this in all seriousness, which is why I have
recommended you get to know me via my blog. I
have a reputation for being too nice and caring.

I do what I do with a great fondness and responsibility,
and care about you, what you think, and your your
ultimate experience with me and hypnosis.

Isis
 

"Trippy Website"

Recently Guest721 wrote:

"This is a very trippy website.
I'm both enjoying it and a
little freaked out by it."

Guess, Guest721, my last blog
entry isn't going to help you
too much to be less freaked.

I am sorry to freak you out a
bit. However I would rather
freak you out a enough to have
you thoughtful about your
choices than to act like nothing
awry ever happens and have you
playing with a "gun" that you
didn't know was loaded.

I want you to have the BEST
possible experience if you
choose to indulge in hypnosis,
and having knowledge will
hopefully help the odds of that
happening.

Be safe...and STAY that way.
 

Really Sad Tonight

For as many times as I warn people about what can
happen when one indulges in hypnosis, people do
not always listen.

There was someone who I was erotically hypnotizing
who had been hypnotized, it turns out, by many more
than he realized. One day, after me warning him
to be careful on more than one occasion he decides
to go browsing the internet.

He finds an online hypnotist who ultimately does
some very heavy duty hypnosis on him, and has him
masturbating on cam, naked. However, he doesn't
remember any of it, and fights me when I tell him
things are off/not right.

I spent countless hours trying to help him sort
things out, only to have him turn around and tell
me that he doesn't want to take advantage of me,
since he isn't paying me. He says he wants to go
to a professional hypnotist, and once he sorts
things out he will be back, and make things right.

Out of respect for him, I agree. I am a little
bit reluctant, as there was another instance of
someone who needed help in which I suggested a
professional hypnotist in which the hypnotist
tried to have him believe that I was the one who
had given him the problems he had.

It probably does not come as a surprise I wasn't
terribly happy about that, either. I had spent
my time and energy trying to help someone, and
the "professional" tries to lay the blame on the
person looking to help. Eventually that situation
was rectified, but it was troubling to me then.

And even more troubling to me in light of the
recent events in regard to another "professional"
hypnotist. These are not the only times I have
heard of the "professionals" being less than
ethical with what their choices are. Actually
the first one may have been seeking to be ethical,
however there seemed to be a bias that they were
working toward in terms of how they interacted
in regard to me. Perhaps not a question of ethics,
but rather a question of bias that may not be
appropriate in a setting like that.

I really would like to be objective here. I
would really like to give people the benefit of
the doubt. There are erotic hypnotists who do
things that haven't been good for someone, and
I would like to give them the benefit of the
doubt that it was not intentional.

I would like to do all of these things. But
sometimes my humanity and anger kick in. I wish
I was as naive about things as the day I began
this journey. It would be so much easier.

Instead, I feel like I am fighting the tide.
Many of the stories I could tell you would sound
like an erotic tale that would be a turn on for
many. The problem is that I think it is more
the IDEA of the situation that is the turn on,
and that if those turned on by the "tale" were
to have lived the events, they would be just as
mortified by the results of what happened.

In this particular, and most recent, case the
hypnotist was highly recommended and credentialed.
She is even LICENSED. Now you can not be
licensed for hypnosis, there is no such thing.
However she is a licensed mental health professional
who went waaaaayyyy out of her ethics and scope
in regard to this person.

Of course there will be some that will question
the validity of anything I say, and I of course
was not there. But where I was in relation to
the individual I was trying to help was as a
witness to how he felt about what had transpired.
He was really upset and confused and hurt.

Whether or not she has done what I think she did,
she has most certainly done something inappropriate,
and now I am not even able to speak to this person,
even though he was very anxious to speak with me,
but unable to because of work, before he went
silent.

Given how he has said he felt about me, and how
he has interacted with me, I have every reason
to believe that he is in big trouble. And this
time I don't think there is anything more I can do.

I can only hope that something will happen one
day in which he will be able to become aware and
do something before it really is too late for him.

Believe what you will about what I have written,
but also believe me when I tell you that when
you get yourself into the hypnotic rabbit hole
you really don't know what is going to happen.

Sadly, while there would have been a time I
would have recommended a "professional" hypnotist
for someone's more local/immediate needs, the
fact is now I am even more hesitant. I was
hesitant before because of any perceived bias
of me (which I overlooked for the sake of the
individual), but now I see first hand how
despicable anyone can be. Not that I didn't
know that before, after all, you hear the
stories, but now I have first hand confirmation
of atrocious behavior.

The fact is this person became more than "just"
a caller. In a weird way we had in some way
become a type of friend. So not only has she
robbed me of a "customer" (who barely even was
paying me anything as it was) she has robbed me
of contact with someone I came to care about.

So listen, or don't listen. Do, or don't do.
It is up to you. However, perhaps my words
will give you something to consider before you
do anything that might take you down a path
undesired.

I hate talking like this. Hypnosis is a
wonderful tool for issues and for lots of
pleasure. I don't like to scare people off.
But the irony is for as much as I do say these
things people still go forward. I think it is
the "it will never happen to me" syndrome. For
as much as this recent guy had been through,
for as many warnings as I gave him, for as
suggestible as he was...he didn't listen, and
now sadly he is going to have to live with the
consequences.

It may never happen to you. But how will you
know until perhaps it is too late? And then,
whattcha gonna do?

If you're going to indulge, please indulge
wisely. You may not be in the same category
as this guy - in fact, we may never have even
spoken yet - but I guarantee you that if I knew
someone was f*cking with you I would be just as
pissed.

Ok. I am done now.