Two Skiers were on their way out
and one said,
"Where did you get your new skis?"
The second skier replied,
"Well, I was skiing alone yesterday
minding my own business when a
beautiful woman came up on these skis.
She unclipped them from her bindings
and threw them to the ground,
took off all her clothes and said,
'Take what you want.'"
The second skier nodded approvingly,
"Good choice; the clothes probably
wouldn't have fit."
---
It's all about perspective, baby!
LOL.
Monday, May 31, 2010
Thoughts on Oil | Audio Message
This might get you thinking.
From
The Four Insights
by Alberto Villoldo, PH.D.
Your thoughts?
Some Memorial Day Perspective
I remember a time after the events of 2001
I was listening to the radio, and there
were people calling in, upset that the
troops weren't being supported.
I remember thinking at the time that I
didn't think that was the case, that it
was more that the ACTS of the troops
that were being questioned, and it was
translating for some into "the troops
aren't being supported."
BIG difference.
One can support a person but not their
actions. One can love another, but not
love what they do. One can consider
an action a failure without needing to
attribute the adjective to the person
involved.
Here is another example of a "collapsed"
way of thinking. Our lives are filled
with examples, and when thinking gets
collapsed in this way, it is often without
a positive outcome as it can set up
disappointment, expectations,
misunderstandings, among other things.
Given that it is Memorial Day, and there
are some who might take issue with what
our military as a whole does, one can
use today as a reminder to remember and
respect other fellows of mankind.
I'd like to believe that we could have
a world without the military and guns
and violence however, I am not sure how
we get there. In the meantime, though
we can honor those in the military
without necessarily honoring the parts
of the profession we may take issue with.
Some would say that we learn from the
things that happen to us. We can
appreciate day more because we have
night. When we take day and night
for granted, though, it is difficult
to see that we should have that
appreciation because it is just what
"is."
We can accept things as "is," or we
can use them to have us question things.
We can use them to have us see what
is important, to help us make the
choices that can make a difference.
And we can do it with a healthy
respect for others, and their choices.
Lots of love and respect to those
veterans who may be reading this, as
well as to those who currently serve.
I was listening to the radio, and there
were people calling in, upset that the
troops weren't being supported.
I remember thinking at the time that I
didn't think that was the case, that it
was more that the ACTS of the troops
that were being questioned, and it was
translating for some into "the troops
aren't being supported."
BIG difference.
One can support a person but not their
actions. One can love another, but not
love what they do. One can consider
an action a failure without needing to
attribute the adjective to the person
involved.
Here is another example of a "collapsed"
way of thinking. Our lives are filled
with examples, and when thinking gets
collapsed in this way, it is often without
a positive outcome as it can set up
disappointment, expectations,
misunderstandings, among other things.
Given that it is Memorial Day, and there
are some who might take issue with what
our military as a whole does, one can
use today as a reminder to remember and
respect other fellows of mankind.
I'd like to believe that we could have
a world without the military and guns
and violence however, I am not sure how
we get there. In the meantime, though
we can honor those in the military
without necessarily honoring the parts
of the profession we may take issue with.
Some would say that we learn from the
things that happen to us. We can
appreciate day more because we have
night. When we take day and night
for granted, though, it is difficult
to see that we should have that
appreciation because it is just what
"is."
We can accept things as "is," or we
can use them to have us question things.
We can use them to have us see what
is important, to help us make the
choices that can make a difference.
And we can do it with a healthy
respect for others, and their choices.
Lots of love and respect to those
veterans who may be reading this, as
well as to those who currently serve.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
What You Don't Know Can't Hurt You? | Video
There's an expression, "What you don't know
can't hurt you." Perhaps that could be true
in some circumstances. However, in the world
of Hypnosis, and in other parts of the world
that statement could potentially be incorrect
in a BIG way.
This video says 60% of Americans don't know
that digital copiers have hard drives. Well...
I am hoping to decrease that percentage, even
if just a tiny bit, by sharing this info.
The video addresses a potentially huge problem
in terms of privacy leaks. In a way, I don't
like sharing the info, as it can cut more than
one way. It could help to get people to take
actions to protect private information, and it
could also be used by those who want to take
advantage. However, that pretty much goes for
almost anything, really.
When are we as neighbors on this planet going
to start paying more attention to the things
that can matter to others, even if they don't
seem to matter to us?
Sitting here shaking my head, and wondering
what more can be done and hoping that the
"little" things can make a difference. I
know several of my callers work in management
and in offices, so perhaps if you become
aware of this you can take steps to make a
difference.
Watch CBS News Videos Online
can't hurt you." Perhaps that could be true
in some circumstances. However, in the world
of Hypnosis, and in other parts of the world
that statement could potentially be incorrect
in a BIG way.
This video says 60% of Americans don't know
that digital copiers have hard drives. Well...
I am hoping to decrease that percentage, even
if just a tiny bit, by sharing this info.
The video addresses a potentially huge problem
in terms of privacy leaks. In a way, I don't
like sharing the info, as it can cut more than
one way. It could help to get people to take
actions to protect private information, and it
could also be used by those who want to take
advantage. However, that pretty much goes for
almost anything, really.
When are we as neighbors on this planet going
to start paying more attention to the things
that can matter to others, even if they don't
seem to matter to us?
Sitting here shaking my head, and wondering
what more can be done and hoping that the
"little" things can make a difference. I
know several of my callers work in management
and in offices, so perhaps if you become
aware of this you can take steps to make a
difference.
Watch CBS News Videos Online
Conforming Perspective
I recently saw an article about a church being
moved from the north to the south. Some are
thrilled about it others, not so much.
The reason I mention it here is because of the
last couple of paragraphs that talk about the
statue of St. Gerard being "beheaded" while
being moved.
It is the perfect example of perspective
conforming to whatever one wishes it to be.
We do it all the time. Often, though, we just
don't notice it enough to realize what it is.
And we wonder why we can't get along sometimes!?
moved from the north to the south. Some are
thrilled about it others, not so much.
The reason I mention it here is because of the
last couple of paragraphs that talk about the
statue of St. Gerard being "beheaded" while
being moved.
It is the perfect example of perspective
conforming to whatever one wishes it to be.
We do it all the time. Often, though, we just
don't notice it enough to realize what it is.
And we wonder why we can't get along sometimes!?
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Just Another Day at the Office?
Today I had someone who was VERY unhappy with our call.
That happens from time to time, but this one took me a
little by surprise. We had a good first call recently,
and I thought things went relatively well. They seemed
to go well enough that he apparently spent some time
here, and bought a few files.
Today he called me, and apparently we didn't understand
each other. He said that I didn't do hypnosis with him,
and that was in an email after he abruptly ended our call.
I replied with my perspective which included the idea that
he could have told me during the call that things weren't
going the way he wanted them to. In part he replied,
"Taking time during a call to tell you its not going well is
ridiculous. It stops the action, eliminates the trance, and
typically offends one party or the other. That's why parameters
are set at the beginning of a call. Either you have the skills
or you don't."
First of all, he is making assumptions about taking the
time to provide feedback. Perhaps that is his experience,
however, I have said many times that feedback is an
important part of the process. Secondly, feedback has
nothing to do with parameters, which has nothing to
do with perceived skills, or lack thereof.
He was unhappy, and so many other things were brought
into the equation. How many times do we collapse things
in the way that this guy did?
It is very difficult to have a satisfying conversation of
any type when so many things are collapsed together.
The knots can be endless. He was unhappy with the
outcome. I got it. That's all he had to say. Instead he
went on the attack.
I am truly sorry when things like this happen. I never
want people to be dissatisfied by the work I do. However,
misunderstandings and miscommunications can happen,
and the only way to resolve them is to communicate and
give feedback. I consider feedback a necessary part of
the process, and oftentimes it is the one thing that can
make the difference between someone who is super
satisfied, and someone who leaves unhappy.
Do yourself a favor and speak up whenever it comes to
hypnosis, or anything that is important to you. Often
communication can leave something to be desired which
is why I think so many just avoid it all together. However
it is an incredibly effective tool for getting things done
when we know how to do it, and it is especially helpful
in times when we might feel disenchanted.
Ironically, the next email I got was from another caller
that I have spoken with many times. He was thanking
me for a couple of very short (less than 5 minute)
personal recordings that seemed to be very powerful
and helpful to the purpose they were created for.
I may have a goddess name, but I am human. I am not
perfect. I try my best, and sometimes you just gotta
work with me.
Thanks for reading/listening, and have a great night.
That happens from time to time, but this one took me a
little by surprise. We had a good first call recently,
and I thought things went relatively well. They seemed
to go well enough that he apparently spent some time
here, and bought a few files.
Today he called me, and apparently we didn't understand
each other. He said that I didn't do hypnosis with him,
and that was in an email after he abruptly ended our call.
I replied with my perspective which included the idea that
he could have told me during the call that things weren't
going the way he wanted them to. In part he replied,
"Taking time during a call to tell you its not going well is
ridiculous. It stops the action, eliminates the trance, and
typically offends one party or the other. That's why parameters
are set at the beginning of a call. Either you have the skills
or you don't."
First of all, he is making assumptions about taking the
time to provide feedback. Perhaps that is his experience,
however, I have said many times that feedback is an
important part of the process. Secondly, feedback has
nothing to do with parameters, which has nothing to
do with perceived skills, or lack thereof.
He was unhappy, and so many other things were brought
into the equation. How many times do we collapse things
in the way that this guy did?
It is very difficult to have a satisfying conversation of
any type when so many things are collapsed together.
The knots can be endless. He was unhappy with the
outcome. I got it. That's all he had to say. Instead he
went on the attack.
I am truly sorry when things like this happen. I never
want people to be dissatisfied by the work I do. However,
misunderstandings and miscommunications can happen,
and the only way to resolve them is to communicate and
give feedback. I consider feedback a necessary part of
the process, and oftentimes it is the one thing that can
make the difference between someone who is super
satisfied, and someone who leaves unhappy.
Do yourself a favor and speak up whenever it comes to
hypnosis, or anything that is important to you. Often
communication can leave something to be desired which
is why I think so many just avoid it all together. However
it is an incredibly effective tool for getting things done
when we know how to do it, and it is especially helpful
in times when we might feel disenchanted.
Ironically, the next email I got was from another caller
that I have spoken with many times. He was thanking
me for a couple of very short (less than 5 minute)
personal recordings that seemed to be very powerful
and helpful to the purpose they were created for.
I may have a goddess name, but I am human. I am not
perfect. I try my best, and sometimes you just gotta
work with me.
Thanks for reading/listening, and have a great night.
When things aren't going well...
I often warn those I speak with of the possible
perils of hypnosis. One of the warnings has to
do with being careful when in a vulnerable state.
I speak with guys at many vulnerable points in
their lives: after death of a loved one, after
a relationship crumbles, while in a bad
relationship, while stressed out from their work...
What can happen in cases like this (even if not
in an erotic, hypnotic context) is that the pain
of the moment can get buried, covered over by
whatever interaction is being had at the moment.
The interaction can be as simple as a diversion,
but it can also masquerade as attention and love
in a time when either or both are desperately
needed and/or desired.
Is there anything wrong with how it occurs?
Not necessarily. However without a mindfulness
of the possibilities, a person can go down a
path that can be more painful than the one
avoided.
Sometimes pain is hard to face. However, having
a willingness to allow it to process and heal
will be a lot less painful than covering it over
only to have to address it at some future point
after it has festered and grown. And, not only
that, there may be additional pains and
repercussions from what was done in the covering
over process.
And that doesn't include the often ensuing guilt
and kick in the butt that many give themselves
at that point because somehow they should have
known better, or somehow prevented it from
happening. Most times it happens so subtly that
the person doesn't even realize what has occurred.
Two things to consider going forward:
1. If this happens to you, be kind to yourself.
You were in pain, and dealing with it the best
way you knew how at the time.
2. Prevention is the best option. Now that you
know of the possibilities, if you suspect that
you could be vulnerable, allow yourself to find
options that can help you heal, rather than mask
your pain.
If you are in a place that isn't so great right
now, and you would like some hypnosis, consider
giving me a call. You would be amazed at how
some TLC could fit exactly what you need, and
can help you heal and move forward in a positive
and affirming way.
In addition, I have 3 recordings that you may
want to consider that could also be of some
assistance in a tough time, perhaps consider one
or all of them to help support you during your
rough patch.
Metamorphosis
Pure Love: The Gift
Release
Any questions? Just ask.
perils of hypnosis. One of the warnings has to
do with being careful when in a vulnerable state.
I speak with guys at many vulnerable points in
their lives: after death of a loved one, after
a relationship crumbles, while in a bad
relationship, while stressed out from their work...
What can happen in cases like this (even if not
in an erotic, hypnotic context) is that the pain
of the moment can get buried, covered over by
whatever interaction is being had at the moment.
The interaction can be as simple as a diversion,
but it can also masquerade as attention and love
in a time when either or both are desperately
needed and/or desired.
Is there anything wrong with how it occurs?
Not necessarily. However without a mindfulness
of the possibilities, a person can go down a
path that can be more painful than the one
avoided.
Sometimes pain is hard to face. However, having
a willingness to allow it to process and heal
will be a lot less painful than covering it over
only to have to address it at some future point
after it has festered and grown. And, not only
that, there may be additional pains and
repercussions from what was done in the covering
over process.
And that doesn't include the often ensuing guilt
and kick in the butt that many give themselves
at that point because somehow they should have
known better, or somehow prevented it from
happening. Most times it happens so subtly that
the person doesn't even realize what has occurred.
Two things to consider going forward:
1. If this happens to you, be kind to yourself.
You were in pain, and dealing with it the best
way you knew how at the time.
2. Prevention is the best option. Now that you
know of the possibilities, if you suspect that
you could be vulnerable, allow yourself to find
options that can help you heal, rather than mask
your pain.
If you are in a place that isn't so great right
now, and you would like some hypnosis, consider
giving me a call. You would be amazed at how
some TLC could fit exactly what you need, and
can help you heal and move forward in a positive
and affirming way.
In addition, I have 3 recordings that you may
want to consider that could also be of some
assistance in a tough time, perhaps consider one
or all of them to help support you during your
rough patch.
Metamorphosis
Pure Love: The Gift
Release
Any questions? Just ask.
Friday, May 28, 2010
Sounds like someone who could use some erotic hypnosis | Video
This guy sounds resigned. Poor guy that he is.
He needs to discover erotic hypnosis with a
hypnotist who knows what she is doing.
He could find himself hard on command (his or hers).
He could find himself confident.
He could last longer.
He could come more than once.
He could have more pleasure than the max 7 minutes
he currently allows himself.
He could be amazed at what is possible
for him and his partner, and stretch his limits
into unknown, pleasurable territory.
He could learn to appreciate a slow, sensual burn
and the possibilities that go along with it.
He could learn how fantasy can often become reality.
MMMMM...don't the possibilities sound delicious?
Thanks Again BuffaloFire | Feedback
"I'm hopelessly in lust with Isis.
She is simply the best and
most caring person
I've ever talked to.
WOW what an experience!!!"
YUMMY. Thanks.
Have a great weekend!
She is simply the best and
most caring person
I've ever talked to.
WOW what an experience!!!"
YUMMY. Thanks.
Have a great weekend!
Drones and Clones
It seems to me that many Dommes and erotic hypnotists
seek to have those who serve them endlessly and
mindlessly, and they expect all that serve to serve
in a specific, identical manner.
I realize that it isn't universal, and that it doesn't
pertain to all, however, there are enough that the
approach stands out enough for me to want to comment
on it.
Personally, I like personality. I like the
individuality that is brought to me by each person
that I interact with. Quite frankly I'd be bored
by everyone I interact with yes-sing me all of the
time, or acting the same exact way as everyone
else does when I affect him.
In addition, I am unable to take any pleasure in the
idea that when someone does something for me that
they are in some way hurting or compromising themselves.
Some would say they must want it to do it, however if
you know me at all, you know that I would say that
isn't necessarily true. And, even if it turned out
to be "true," I don't feel comfortable personally
contributing to the minimalization of another human
being. Just because someone wants to wreak havoc on
their life doesn't mean I need to play a part in it.
There are many that aren't a good match for me,
my style, my approach, and I will never try to be
something that I am not...and it doesn't matter how
much someone is willing to pay me (yes, on occasion
I have been offered a "bribe," of sorts).
I am a person who believes in the idea of "to each
his own," however it doesn't mean that I have to
agree with it, or in some way reinforce it.
I am always looking out for those I speak with, and
sometimes it isn't always appreciated. When someone
wants to be my good boy it means that he takes care
of himself FIRST and then does something for me.
I never want someone to do something that could put
them in a bind (unless it is a pleasurable one, and
even then, it must never embarrass or compromise him).
I get zero pleasure from that. Being a good boy for
me means being the best that he can be in every regard.
When I am questioned about this approach, I respond
with the idea that I deserve the best a person has
to offer. Why would I want anything less?
seek to have those who serve them endlessly and
mindlessly, and they expect all that serve to serve
in a specific, identical manner.
I realize that it isn't universal, and that it doesn't
pertain to all, however, there are enough that the
approach stands out enough for me to want to comment
on it.
Personally, I like personality. I like the
individuality that is brought to me by each person
that I interact with. Quite frankly I'd be bored
by everyone I interact with yes-sing me all of the
time, or acting the same exact way as everyone
else does when I affect him.
In addition, I am unable to take any pleasure in the
idea that when someone does something for me that
they are in some way hurting or compromising themselves.
Some would say they must want it to do it, however if
you know me at all, you know that I would say that
isn't necessarily true. And, even if it turned out
to be "true," I don't feel comfortable personally
contributing to the minimalization of another human
being. Just because someone wants to wreak havoc on
their life doesn't mean I need to play a part in it.
There are many that aren't a good match for me,
my style, my approach, and I will never try to be
something that I am not...and it doesn't matter how
much someone is willing to pay me (yes, on occasion
I have been offered a "bribe," of sorts).
I am a person who believes in the idea of "to each
his own," however it doesn't mean that I have to
agree with it, or in some way reinforce it.
I am always looking out for those I speak with, and
sometimes it isn't always appreciated. When someone
wants to be my good boy it means that he takes care
of himself FIRST and then does something for me.
I never want someone to do something that could put
them in a bind (unless it is a pleasurable one, and
even then, it must never embarrass or compromise him).
I get zero pleasure from that. Being a good boy for
me means being the best that he can be in every regard.
When I am questioned about this approach, I respond
with the idea that I deserve the best a person has
to offer. Why would I want anything less?
Ready for July 4th? | Free MP3
I know...it's not even Memorial Day yet,
and I'm asking about July.
You may wonder why.
Well...I created a MP3 a few years ago
called Isis Fireworks, and it is designed
to make the night of your 4th erotically
delicious.
It is designed only for those hypnotized
by me. If we've never spoken, and you're
interested, you still have time to plan.
The more you listen to this recording
between now and then, the better (and
more powerful) its effects.
If interested, email me on Niteflirt, and
I will send it to you via a Payment Request
(which means it's free, if you want it to be).
If not on NF, but I have hypnotized you,
contact me to get your copy.
Enjoy, and have a great day!
and I'm asking about July.
You may wonder why.
Well...I created a MP3 a few years ago
called Isis Fireworks, and it is designed
to make the night of your 4th erotically
delicious.
It is designed only for those hypnotized
by me. If we've never spoken, and you're
interested, you still have time to plan.
The more you listen to this recording
between now and then, the better (and
more powerful) its effects.
If interested, email me on Niteflirt, and
I will send it to you via a Payment Request
(which means it's free, if you want it to be).
If not on NF, but I have hypnotized you,
contact me to get your copy.
Enjoy, and have a great day!
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Feedback | Thanks Watwick!
"Isis is truly excellent, more than
living up to her stellar reputation.
Sensual, yet caring and makes sure
you're comfortable before taking you
all the way. You'll be surprised at
just how good being her good boy feels."
- Watwick
living up to her stellar reputation.
Sensual, yet caring and makes sure
you're comfortable before taking you
all the way. You'll be surprised at
just how good being her good boy feels."
- Watwick
Release | New MP3
15 minute MP3 helps you be the best good boy you can be for me.
It does use the word "Obey."
It also has the added benefit of
releasing anything you might want to let go of.
While most of my recordings are
best for those previously
hypnotized by me,
this one is designed to work
even if we've never spoken
(but soooo much better if
we have had the pleasure).
MP3 | $19.98
To hear sample click here
Saturday, May 22, 2010
What's Your Communication Equation?
We all have equations: If X, then Y.
If you love me, then you'd call me every day.
If you love me, then you'd give me some space.
If you're in a relationship, it is
important to know what the other
person's equations are, and to share
yours, and both parties need to
determine if the other person's
equation is something that they
can work with.
Nothing says equations can't change,
but the only equation you can change
is your own.
If you love me, then you'd call me every day.
If you love me, then you'd give me some space.
If you're in a relationship, it is
important to know what the other
person's equations are, and to share
yours, and both parties need to
determine if the other person's
equation is something that they
can work with.
Nothing says equations can't change,
but the only equation you can change
is your own.
Going with the flow | Video
The following video is about a human
and her interaction with a dog. From
the minute the dog was born, it was
trained for a certain type of service.
However, it became clear that
that wasn't going to work out.
It is interesting to consider this
story in a human context. How often
do we try to force ourselves or others
to be something they're not because of
some expectation or some "should?"
It isn't often to such a great result.
Perhaps if we went with the "flow"
more often, we'd have more peace
within, and within the world.
and her interaction with a dog. From
the minute the dog was born, it was
trained for a certain type of service.
However, it became clear that
that wasn't going to work out.
It is interesting to consider this
story in a human context. How often
do we try to force ourselves or others
to be something they're not because of
some expectation or some "should?"
It isn't often to such a great result.
Perhaps if we went with the "flow"
more often, we'd have more peace
within, and within the world.
Friday, May 21, 2010
Addicted to M&Ms?
I just saw this story about Ben Stiller.
Apparently he has been addicted to M&Ms,
and even (if the story is true) saw a
hypnotist to break the addiction.
According to the story, he went back to
them within 6 months.
One thing that should always be considered
when looking to alter a behavior is what
is behind it. Focusing only on behavior
modification can possibly only offer minimal,
or temporary, success.
Sounds like he can eat them and still be
healthy. If that is the case in regard to
a perceived "issue," then it might also be
considered to be a non-issue.
I am of the mind that there are many cases
when something is only best altered if deep
down we feel a need to alter it. If we do
something because someone else thinks we
should, it truly may not be the best thing
for us.
With more and more things coming at us these
days, it also seems to me that we are less
and less in touch with ourselves. As a
result, we let outside forces sway our
internal beliefs, often with unsatisfying
results.
Want to change a behavior?
Find out what motivates it.
Decide how you feel about the motivation.
Decide how you feel about the effects of the behavior.
Decide if YOU want/need to change it.
Approach change both behaviorally and from the source.
Questions?
Just ask!
Apparently he has been addicted to M&Ms,
and even (if the story is true) saw a
hypnotist to break the addiction.
According to the story, he went back to
them within 6 months.
One thing that should always be considered
when looking to alter a behavior is what
is behind it. Focusing only on behavior
modification can possibly only offer minimal,
or temporary, success.
Sounds like he can eat them and still be
healthy. If that is the case in regard to
a perceived "issue," then it might also be
considered to be a non-issue.
I am of the mind that there are many cases
when something is only best altered if deep
down we feel a need to alter it. If we do
something because someone else thinks we
should, it truly may not be the best thing
for us.
With more and more things coming at us these
days, it also seems to me that we are less
and less in touch with ourselves. As a
result, we let outside forces sway our
internal beliefs, often with unsatisfying
results.
Want to change a behavior?
Find out what motivates it.
Decide how you feel about the motivation.
Decide how you feel about the effects of the behavior.
Decide if YOU want/need to change it.
Approach change both behaviorally and from the source.
Questions?
Just ask!
I'm Yours | Video
I like messages that are multi-level
(bet ya never noticed, lol).
Here is one such case.
I love this song, and its many
possibilities for interpretation.
Enjoy!
(bet ya never noticed, lol).
Here is one such case.
I love this song, and its many
possibilities for interpretation.
Enjoy!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
The Walls Move | Video
Besides being very cool in concept, this
could be a metaphor for our mind. What
may not appear to be there, could just
be hidden behind a "wall."
This is amazing! He certainly has
something to teach the rest of us.
could be a metaphor for our mind. What
may not appear to be there, could just
be hidden behind a "wall."
This is amazing! He certainly has
something to teach the rest of us.
I am Curious...
I am wondering how hypnosis has affected your life.
More specifically, I am wondering how erotic
hypnosis has affected your life.
Even more specifically, I am wondering how erotic
hypnosis with me has affected your life.
I sometimes hear things from those I have worked
with, and there is much I don't think I know
(a la It's a Wonderful Life - ever see that movie?
If you haven't, it is sooo worth checking out).
So I am asking.
If you feel comfortable publicly addressing it,
please comment below (think about how cool it
would be if everyone who read this responded
below). If not, I would love to hear from you
personally, as I think feedback is important
to have.
You can address this question on any level you
like. In general, regarding erotic hypnosis with
anyone, or hypnosis with me specifically. The
more input, the better, I'd say.
I want to hear the "negative" as well as the
"positive." Is it distracting to you? Are you
more confident? Are you more submissive? Are
you how you'd like to be? Did you get what you
came to hypnosis for? I am looking for a deeper
cut than "it feels good," or "I love being a
sub/robot/slave." Would you say your interest
has enhanced your life or minimized it? Or
perhaps something somewhere in between? Is it
all about the erotic, or has it been helpful in
other "real life" ways? Does the hypnosis
compromise you in any way? Do you use hypnosis
as a compromise for the things you feel you
don't (or can't) have in your life?
I am asking for some reflection. I realize that
it isn't something that some want to do at any
time, in regard to anything...LOL...however, I
think it would be a worthy addition to the
subject hearing from those affected by it.
If it hurts too much to think about it, then I
understand :P
If however, it would give you some form of pleasure
to be able to help out another, or get some
perspective for yourself by sharing, I am all ears!
Have a good night, and Thanks!
More specifically, I am wondering how erotic
hypnosis has affected your life.
Even more specifically, I am wondering how erotic
hypnosis with me has affected your life.
I sometimes hear things from those I have worked
with, and there is much I don't think I know
(a la It's a Wonderful Life - ever see that movie?
If you haven't, it is sooo worth checking out).
So I am asking.
If you feel comfortable publicly addressing it,
please comment below (think about how cool it
would be if everyone who read this responded
below). If not, I would love to hear from you
personally, as I think feedback is important
to have.
You can address this question on any level you
like. In general, regarding erotic hypnosis with
anyone, or hypnosis with me specifically. The
more input, the better, I'd say.
I want to hear the "negative" as well as the
"positive." Is it distracting to you? Are you
more confident? Are you more submissive? Are
you how you'd like to be? Did you get what you
came to hypnosis for? I am looking for a deeper
cut than "it feels good," or "I love being a
sub/robot/slave." Would you say your interest
has enhanced your life or minimized it? Or
perhaps something somewhere in between? Is it
all about the erotic, or has it been helpful in
other "real life" ways? Does the hypnosis
compromise you in any way? Do you use hypnosis
as a compromise for the things you feel you
don't (or can't) have in your life?
I am asking for some reflection. I realize that
it isn't something that some want to do at any
time, in regard to anything...LOL...however, I
think it would be a worthy addition to the
subject hearing from those affected by it.
If it hurts too much to think about it, then I
understand :P
If however, it would give you some form of pleasure
to be able to help out another, or get some
perspective for yourself by sharing, I am all ears!
Have a good night, and Thanks!
A Return to Love | Audio Message
(short and sweet):
Would you like the full paragraph?
Click here
Do you think you'd like more of these?
Let me know!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Sharing Some Feedback
Always nice to share some positive feedback:
"WOW, just had to call back!!!
ISIS is simply the best on NF.
What a caring, affectionate,
orgasmic hypnoteuse. She
actually cares about her callers
and instills multiple safety
triggers and makes sure that
you are safe at all times.
What a total class act!!!
Her voice is to die for!!!"
Thanks BuffaloFire for your
enthusiasm, even if slightly(?)
biased by the pleasure of our
sessions :P (but isn't that
the point of it all, any way?).
"WOW, just had to call back!!!
ISIS is simply the best on NF.
What a caring, affectionate,
orgasmic hypnoteuse. She
actually cares about her callers
and instills multiple safety
triggers and makes sure that
you are safe at all times.
What a total class act!!!
Her voice is to die for!!!"
Thanks BuffaloFire for your
enthusiasm, even if slightly(?)
biased by the pleasure of our
sessions :P (but isn't that
the point of it all, any way?).
Monday, May 17, 2010
Power of Pleasure | PoP
Do you wish I was more present for you?
How would you like me to
PoP up on your computer screen?
Well as nice as that would be, the closest
I can come are messages from me.
Newly created .exe files (sorry Mac Users)
can allow me to do just that.
Worried someone might see?
They're mostly discreet.
There is nothing about
Isis The Enchantress on either one,
although the Chocolate version does
have messages about being my good boy,
and even though my name
is not on the program,
you may not want everyone to see
what I have to say to you.
The Vanilla version is totally discreet.
There is nothing about me at all,
just quotes about Power and Pleasure.
Anyone could view, and they'd never
know what the program meant to you,
unless of course you told them.
Both programs are downloadable from a site
that is non-Isis or erotic sounding.
Both programs also give you the ability
to add custom messages
(imagine how much fun we could have with that!)
and to some degree,
customize your experience.
You can use one, or both concurrently.
As a special, limited time, introductory
offer, I am selling Chocolate at $9.98,
and you get Vanilla for free.
You will also receive my This is So Intense
MP3 ($19.95 Value) which is a recording that
is designed to work for most anyone.
If you already have the recording, I will
offer you free minutes, or find some other
option so that you are able to benefit, as well.
Even though Chocolate is geared to those
familiar with me, this is a great way for
you to introduce yourself to me,
if you are new.
At this price, and with this offer, you
really have nothing to lose, as the vanilla
program can work for you, separate from
any interaction with me.
Why wait a second more than you have to?
Click Below and Enjoy!
2 .exe PoP Programs + Free MP3 | $9.98
PS Feel free to tell me what you think,
or let me know if you find any bugs.
Also, if you would like to see anything
in particular in the content, I'd love
to know what it is. Thanks!
Miss USA, Words, Meaning, and Reality
Tara Conner says that lingerie and a bathing suit
are the same thing, just different material,
and I couldn't agree more.
The above link is a response to the Miss USA
Waking Up in Vegas pictures.
When I started out in the erotic world,
I had to decide for myself what I thought
would be acceptable to show. I came to
the same conclusion that Tara did.
I figured if someone could see me in
person in a bathing suit, they would
likely see the same thing, as if I
was in my bra. I also considered all
of the ads that I would see on TV and
in print, and realized that what I was
offering was comparable.
Some bathing suits will even cover less
than what my bra does. It is interesting
how people respond to things like this,
and it reminds me of another point that
Leo Buscaglia brought up.
He mentions Dr. Timothy Leary who was at
Harvard in his book, Love. He quotes
him as saying, "'Words are a freezing
of reality.'"
The idea behind it is that when you learn
words you learn them intellectually and
emotionally, and you're pretty much "stuck"
there, as your world gets built upon the
meanings with the use of labels.
So while some people might be OK with the
idea of bathing suits, as skimpy as they
may be, they may take issue with something
that seems to be more taboo, and considered
more emotionally private, like lingerie.
As a child these associations are early
hypnosis, and the people who react to this
kind of thing, are doing just that - reacting.
The problem (if there is one) is that a person
needs to be aware of what associations s/he is
making (or has made) to be able to alter them,
and often that isn't possible, as the thought
and the person feel and act like one.
Whenever someone reacts, it's a good sign some
form of hypnosis has taken place, and some
association is unconsciously being acted upon.
Interesting to consider how this relates to how
we communicate and live with each other in the
world, isn't it?
are the same thing, just different material,
and I couldn't agree more.
The above link is a response to the Miss USA
Waking Up in Vegas pictures.
When I started out in the erotic world,
I had to decide for myself what I thought
would be acceptable to show. I came to
the same conclusion that Tara did.
I figured if someone could see me in
person in a bathing suit, they would
likely see the same thing, as if I
was in my bra. I also considered all
of the ads that I would see on TV and
in print, and realized that what I was
offering was comparable.
Some bathing suits will even cover less
than what my bra does. It is interesting
how people respond to things like this,
and it reminds me of another point that
Leo Buscaglia brought up.
He mentions Dr. Timothy Leary who was at
Harvard in his book, Love. He quotes
him as saying, "'Words are a freezing
of reality.'"
The idea behind it is that when you learn
words you learn them intellectually and
emotionally, and you're pretty much "stuck"
there, as your world gets built upon the
meanings with the use of labels.
So while some people might be OK with the
idea of bathing suits, as skimpy as they
may be, they may take issue with something
that seems to be more taboo, and considered
more emotionally private, like lingerie.
As a child these associations are early
hypnosis, and the people who react to this
kind of thing, are doing just that - reacting.
The problem (if there is one) is that a person
needs to be aware of what associations s/he is
making (or has made) to be able to alter them,
and often that isn't possible, as the thought
and the person feel and act like one.
Whenever someone reacts, it's a good sign some
form of hypnosis has taken place, and some
association is unconsciously being acted upon.
Interesting to consider how this relates to how
we communicate and live with each other in the
world, isn't it?
Deceptive Practices | On Relationships
Have you ever noticed that sometimes a person
who you begin to have a relationship with
isn't the person you are in a relationship
with after some time has passed?
Articles like this one from Cosmo How to
Reach Soul-Mate Status With any Man
can, in my opinion, be a contributor to that
type of dynamic.
What really sucks is that something artificially
created that way can have two potential outcomes
(at least) that aren't necessarily positive.
One is that the guy will feel misled when the
woman gets comfortable, and stops doing the
things she needed to to "get him."
The other is that the woman might feel compelled
to continue to be a way that isn't in her nature,
and as a result resent the fact that she can't
be herself in the relationship.
Our training as human beings leaves something to
be desired at times. Why would we want to be
with someone who couldn't appreciate us for who
we are? A few answers that spring to mind are
ones that build a false foundation, and false
foundations create shaky relationships.
Communication comes in many ways, and I would
think it difficult to communicate effectively
if one is communicating from an insincere place.
Songs and literature are full of relationships
gone wrong, and the sadness of the split. I
have to wonder if people were more genuine
and were more willing to be alone if the
relationships that were created would be
less turbulent and longer lasting.
Something to consider. Perhaps.
who you begin to have a relationship with
isn't the person you are in a relationship
with after some time has passed?
Articles like this one from Cosmo How to
Reach Soul-Mate Status With any Man
can, in my opinion, be a contributor to that
type of dynamic.
What really sucks is that something artificially
created that way can have two potential outcomes
(at least) that aren't necessarily positive.
One is that the guy will feel misled when the
woman gets comfortable, and stops doing the
things she needed to to "get him."
The other is that the woman might feel compelled
to continue to be a way that isn't in her nature,
and as a result resent the fact that she can't
be herself in the relationship.
Our training as human beings leaves something to
be desired at times. Why would we want to be
with someone who couldn't appreciate us for who
we are? A few answers that spring to mind are
ones that build a false foundation, and false
foundations create shaky relationships.
Communication comes in many ways, and I would
think it difficult to communicate effectively
if one is communicating from an insincere place.
Songs and literature are full of relationships
gone wrong, and the sadness of the split. I
have to wonder if people were more genuine
and were more willing to be alone if the
relationships that were created would be
less turbulent and longer lasting.
Something to consider. Perhaps.
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Sunday, May 16, 2010
The New Male Sex Need?
In Cosmo (May 2010) there is an article called
"The New Male Sex Need." In it, it suggests
that men who are stressed are less enthusiastic
in the bedroom, and that they need to have their
confidence built up, and their ego stroked. It
also goes as far as to say, "positions that put
him in physical control...help him feel superhuman."
Sex therapist Ian Kerner, author of She Comes
First is quoted as saying, "'Your man may be too
embarrassed to admit it, but he craves that sense
of power in bed, especially if he's struggling
with money or work issues in real life.'"
I won't necessarily disagree with these statements,
however, I think I might disagree to the fact that
they are used in what seems to be an "absolute"
kind of way.
In my experience, there are men who find the need to
be in control in most aspects of their life, and
like the idea that sometimes someone else can be in
control. I suspect it has a lot to do with wanting
to find balance in their lives.
The "need," though, isn't always something that
happens from within. The "need" comes from the
expectations and perceptions of others, and that
is where a problem can potentially be.
I say "potentially" because some men believe that
their significant other would never understand that
they want to sometimes be submissive (or at the
very least want the other person to make the
decisions occasionally in the bedroom and elsewhere),
however there may be cases where that isn't true.
I once dated a guy, and I "hinted" at certain things
with him because I was afraid of what he might think
if I came out with what I was thinking. Flash forward
several years, and I find out he was a bigger freak
than I was, and he was afraid to tell me about his
interests.
I also had a wife of a past caller email me once.
Not a situation I would like repeated, for sure.
What was interesting, though, was in her pissed off
state, she said she would have played with him in
regard to hypnosis, if he had only let her know his
interest.
Of course, who knows if that is really "true," as
hindsight is always 20/20, and who knows what the
guy was truly looking for, and if playing with his
wife would have/could have given him that, but I'd
say it should give a reason to consider that other
possibilities than what have been established in
a relationship might exist.
Of course, that is where communication comes in -
effective communication, and that can often be the
tough part.
Any which way, to get back to where we started.
I'd say that blanket statements about anything
can be at times anything but helpful. I think
the best advice is to treat each person with
respect, and be willing and able to communicate
freely and to come to conversations with those
we care about without an expectation, and with
a desire to find a way to have an environment
in which both partners get the core of their
needs met.
Simple.
Yeah right. LOL.
Well. It is simple, really. We just make it
more complicated with the labels and the
expectations, and our inability to be able to
figure out what makes our core tick, and better
still be able to communicate it. I'd suggest
that it is our fear of being rejected, that can
often get in the way, among other things.
Open and honest and non-confrontational
communication is something to aspire to.
Even if it seems unattainable or unrealistic,
there is nothing more special that we can do
for ourselves or another. Labels and perspectives
can sometimes be helpful, but they can also get
in the way. Consider that your significant other
and you have a unique dynamic that deserves
unique communication.
The next time you read a "blanket" statement
about something, consider that it may only
cover part of the bed.
Until next time.
"The New Male Sex Need." In it, it suggests
that men who are stressed are less enthusiastic
in the bedroom, and that they need to have their
confidence built up, and their ego stroked. It
also goes as far as to say, "positions that put
him in physical control...help him feel superhuman."
Sex therapist Ian Kerner, author of She Comes
First is quoted as saying, "'Your man may be too
embarrassed to admit it, but he craves that sense
of power in bed, especially if he's struggling
with money or work issues in real life.'"
I won't necessarily disagree with these statements,
however, I think I might disagree to the fact that
they are used in what seems to be an "absolute"
kind of way.
In my experience, there are men who find the need to
be in control in most aspects of their life, and
like the idea that sometimes someone else can be in
control. I suspect it has a lot to do with wanting
to find balance in their lives.
The "need," though, isn't always something that
happens from within. The "need" comes from the
expectations and perceptions of others, and that
is where a problem can potentially be.
I say "potentially" because some men believe that
their significant other would never understand that
they want to sometimes be submissive (or at the
very least want the other person to make the
decisions occasionally in the bedroom and elsewhere),
however there may be cases where that isn't true.
I once dated a guy, and I "hinted" at certain things
with him because I was afraid of what he might think
if I came out with what I was thinking. Flash forward
several years, and I find out he was a bigger freak
than I was, and he was afraid to tell me about his
interests.
I also had a wife of a past caller email me once.
Not a situation I would like repeated, for sure.
What was interesting, though, was in her pissed off
state, she said she would have played with him in
regard to hypnosis, if he had only let her know his
interest.
Of course, who knows if that is really "true," as
hindsight is always 20/20, and who knows what the
guy was truly looking for, and if playing with his
wife would have/could have given him that, but I'd
say it should give a reason to consider that other
possibilities than what have been established in
a relationship might exist.
Of course, that is where communication comes in -
effective communication, and that can often be the
tough part.
Any which way, to get back to where we started.
I'd say that blanket statements about anything
can be at times anything but helpful. I think
the best advice is to treat each person with
respect, and be willing and able to communicate
freely and to come to conversations with those
we care about without an expectation, and with
a desire to find a way to have an environment
in which both partners get the core of their
needs met.
Simple.
Yeah right. LOL.
Well. It is simple, really. We just make it
more complicated with the labels and the
expectations, and our inability to be able to
figure out what makes our core tick, and better
still be able to communicate it. I'd suggest
that it is our fear of being rejected, that can
often get in the way, among other things.
Open and honest and non-confrontational
communication is something to aspire to.
Even if it seems unattainable or unrealistic,
there is nothing more special that we can do
for ourselves or another. Labels and perspectives
can sometimes be helpful, but they can also get
in the way. Consider that your significant other
and you have a unique dynamic that deserves
unique communication.
The next time you read a "blanket" statement
about something, consider that it may only
cover part of the bed.
Until next time.
On Being Yourself
"The easiest thing to be in the world is you.
The most difficult thing to be is what
other people want you to be."
- Leo Buscaglia, from his book Love
If you never heard of him, it would be no
surprise. The book I read is (c)1972. I
think the Amazon link goes to the same book,
but I am not certain.
This man was apparently, according to his
book and video (below) thought to be "crazy"
and ridiculed for his interest in, of all
things, LOVE: something so basic to being
human, and largely ignored.
He has some very wise words, and a few
things stuck out to me. One of those
things was the above quote. At some time
or another, I think I have likely said
something similar.
We try so hard to be like others, when
it is indeed so much easier to be ourselves.
I have spoken to so many people in the
last several years, and while much of it
may have been sexual, a lot of it has
been "human." I have gotten to hear about
the sadness of not being able to be oneself.
I have gotten to hear about the shame.
I have gotten to hear the frustrations
of having to hide.
I suppose if you're going to "come out"
it is best to come out with something
that seems somehow acceptable. However,
in Leo's case, he might as well have
come out and said he was into any kink,
as much as the reaction he had was
seemingly adverse and difficult, and
he had to be "OK" with being judged.
I love what he says in the video about
being judged as "crazy."
Not everything about us is going to be
perfect, or even work for us. However,
WE need to be the ones to decide for
ourselves what needs amending.
When there is a part of us that "nags"
at us, it is likely that it is a part
that wants to be fully embraced.
Is it easy to do that? Often the answer
is a resounding (and maybe even
deafening) "NO."
I can truly only speak for myself.
There are parts to me that I had an
issue with at other times in my life
which once the first steps to out myself
were taken in trepidation, I was able to
speak about it as freely
as yesterday's lunch.
However, life being that great journey,
there are always new ways to uncover
and discover oneself and I am ever
amazed at how life gives me new
opportunities to gift me with myself.
And...the more I have of myself, the
more I have to give to others.
If you are having questions, you
will find your way, if you are willing
to step into the uncomfortable territory
of the Unknown. Interestingly,
hypnosis can help you uncover the
things you believe, and why you
believe them, and help you move
forward if you're feeling stuck
and/or trapped (you knew I was
going to say that, didn't you?).
While hypnosis is a way, it is
hardly THE way. You are able to
discover (and truly be) yourself
as long as you have a willingness
to be open and explore.
There is much (in my opinion) to value
about the uniqueness of who you are...
and I hope you will allow it to shine
for those around you. The interesting
thing about those who step out - they
can be an incredible, shining star as
they can't help but stand out.
In the midst of it all it is difficult
to see other possibilities, as the
darkness of the room has them well
hidden, and the fearful part of us
would likely prefer they stay that way.
Fortunately, even if they're hidden -
the possibilities ARE there.
Want to learn more about Leo, or what
he has to say on Love?
Check out the video below. It's
part 1 of a talk he did. I think
other parts are on YouTube as well.
Enjoy!
with Love,
The most difficult thing to be is what
other people want you to be."
- Leo Buscaglia, from his book Love
If you never heard of him, it would be no
surprise. The book I read is (c)1972. I
think the Amazon link goes to the same book,
but I am not certain.
This man was apparently, according to his
book and video (below) thought to be "crazy"
and ridiculed for his interest in, of all
things, LOVE: something so basic to being
human, and largely ignored.
He has some very wise words, and a few
things stuck out to me. One of those
things was the above quote. At some time
or another, I think I have likely said
something similar.
We try so hard to be like others, when
it is indeed so much easier to be ourselves.
I have spoken to so many people in the
last several years, and while much of it
may have been sexual, a lot of it has
been "human." I have gotten to hear about
the sadness of not being able to be oneself.
I have gotten to hear about the shame.
I have gotten to hear the frustrations
of having to hide.
I suppose if you're going to "come out"
it is best to come out with something
that seems somehow acceptable. However,
in Leo's case, he might as well have
come out and said he was into any kink,
as much as the reaction he had was
seemingly adverse and difficult, and
he had to be "OK" with being judged.
I love what he says in the video about
being judged as "crazy."
Not everything about us is going to be
perfect, or even work for us. However,
WE need to be the ones to decide for
ourselves what needs amending.
When there is a part of us that "nags"
at us, it is likely that it is a part
that wants to be fully embraced.
Is it easy to do that? Often the answer
is a resounding (and maybe even
deafening) "NO."
I can truly only speak for myself.
There are parts to me that I had an
issue with at other times in my life
which once the first steps to out myself
were taken in trepidation, I was able to
speak about it as freely
as yesterday's lunch.
However, life being that great journey,
there are always new ways to uncover
and discover oneself and I am ever
amazed at how life gives me new
opportunities to gift me with myself.
And...the more I have of myself, the
more I have to give to others.
If you are having questions, you
will find your way, if you are willing
to step into the uncomfortable territory
of the Unknown. Interestingly,
hypnosis can help you uncover the
things you believe, and why you
believe them, and help you move
forward if you're feeling stuck
and/or trapped (you knew I was
going to say that, didn't you?).
While hypnosis is a way, it is
hardly THE way. You are able to
discover (and truly be) yourself
as long as you have a willingness
to be open and explore.
There is much (in my opinion) to value
about the uniqueness of who you are...
and I hope you will allow it to shine
for those around you. The interesting
thing about those who step out - they
can be an incredible, shining star as
they can't help but stand out.
In the midst of it all it is difficult
to see other possibilities, as the
darkness of the room has them well
hidden, and the fearful part of us
would likely prefer they stay that way.
Fortunately, even if they're hidden -
the possibilities ARE there.
Want to learn more about Leo, or what
he has to say on Love?
Check out the video below. It's
part 1 of a talk he did. I think
other parts are on YouTube as well.
Enjoy!
with Love,
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Red on Red | jpg & animated gif
stiletto boots with
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shows lower leg
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Thursday, May 13, 2010
"This isn't working..."
Approximately 5 minutes into the hypnotic part
of the call my caller says, "This isn't working.
Thank you for your time," and terminates our
session without giving me a chance to say anything.
When we began I asked if he had any questions,
and he said no. I also said a few other things,
however he seemed ready to go, so we did.
It is always difficult for me to know how much
to say prior to a session. I have received poor
feedback from those who think I say too much.
Some think they know what they need to know,
only to find out that they know something that
may or may not be true or sufficient.
There is a perception for some that hypnosis
can happen instantaneously, or without much
effort. The fact is, for some it can. For
others, it may be a process during a call, or
over several calls.
Part of what the process entails is feedback.
Honest feedback. Up until the point that this
caller hung up on me, he had given me feedback.
However, I have to wonder at this point if he
was just going along with me and telling me
what he thought I wanted to hear, or what he
thought he wanted to experience. The minute
a person "yes-es" me hypnotically is the
minute they're likely just giving me their
money. Some people want to get to the meat
of a session, without realizing that the meat
only comes with the seasoning and cooking
process.
Each piece of a session plays a role. Does
each session occur the same way for each person?
No. However, there are things that I look for.
Some I can hear, and some I need to ask for
feedback on.
If you're going to call me, you want to let me
do the driving. I have a good track record, and
odds are I can take you places you've never
imagined. However, you have to give me more
than just 5 minutes.
By the way, something else to consider...how
would you know that something isn't working,
especially if you haven't been hypnotized
before?
of the call my caller says, "This isn't working.
Thank you for your time," and terminates our
session without giving me a chance to say anything.
When we began I asked if he had any questions,
and he said no. I also said a few other things,
however he seemed ready to go, so we did.
It is always difficult for me to know how much
to say prior to a session. I have received poor
feedback from those who think I say too much.
Some think they know what they need to know,
only to find out that they know something that
may or may not be true or sufficient.
There is a perception for some that hypnosis
can happen instantaneously, or without much
effort. The fact is, for some it can. For
others, it may be a process during a call, or
over several calls.
Part of what the process entails is feedback.
Honest feedback. Up until the point that this
caller hung up on me, he had given me feedback.
However, I have to wonder at this point if he
was just going along with me and telling me
what he thought I wanted to hear, or what he
thought he wanted to experience. The minute
a person "yes-es" me hypnotically is the
minute they're likely just giving me their
money. Some people want to get to the meat
of a session, without realizing that the meat
only comes with the seasoning and cooking
process.
Each piece of a session plays a role. Does
each session occur the same way for each person?
No. However, there are things that I look for.
Some I can hear, and some I need to ask for
feedback on.
If you're going to call me, you want to let me
do the driving. I have a good track record, and
odds are I can take you places you've never
imagined. However, you have to give me more
than just 5 minutes.
By the way, something else to consider...how
would you know that something isn't working,
especially if you haven't been hypnotized
before?
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Betty White | Comic Genius | Video
You'd have to have been under a rock, or
perhaps out of the country to not be
hearing about Betty White Mania lately.
She is amazing. I love the way her mind
works (or at least anyone writing her
material). She is what I would aspire to
be, should I make it to her age. All I
can say is, "Go, Betty, go!!!"
Enjoy the clips.
Here's another - love what she says around 1:20 to 1:30
perhaps out of the country to not be
hearing about Betty White Mania lately.
She is amazing. I love the way her mind
works (or at least anyone writing her
material). She is what I would aspire to
be, should I make it to her age. All I
can say is, "Go, Betty, go!!!"
Enjoy the clips.
Here's another - love what she says around 1:20 to 1:30
A Faithful Gene? | article
I was just reading about The Science of a Happy Marriage,
(click to read what I read) and found the research
interesting, and the fact that the research was done,
even more interesting.
We are always trying to understand and fix things.
They're supposed to be a certain way, right? If so,
when they're not, something has to be wrong, and
if we can understand it, we can find the thing to
blame and/or fix it.
There are layers to everything, and our biology is
one of them. However, I think it is important to
consider what we base our investigations on. The
idea of being faithful is not one that everyone
would feel is integral to a happy relationship/
marriage. In addition, despite the vows of "to
death do us part," perhaps the idea that not all
relationships are meant to be forever is worth
consideration. Hanging on to a bad relationship
for the wrong reasons only adds to the suffering
of the partners, and those around them, which
can include the children - the ones that
(supposedly) they're trying to protect.
Communication and respect, to me, are the two
most important things in a relationship, with
everything else being a result of how these two
things are interacted with. The other pieces may
be interesting, but they're working with the
superficial aspects of a dynamic that most
people fear and/or want to control.
What if we learned to communicate, and knew
that we could do it safely with our loved ones,
and that we could always come to a place of
respect, even in disagreement...Might we feel
less of a need to research things this way?
Might we actually have a good relationship/
marriage instead of treating the symptoms
of an unhealthy one?
What do you think?
(click to read what I read) and found the research
interesting, and the fact that the research was done,
even more interesting.
We are always trying to understand and fix things.
They're supposed to be a certain way, right? If so,
when they're not, something has to be wrong, and
if we can understand it, we can find the thing to
blame and/or fix it.
There are layers to everything, and our biology is
one of them. However, I think it is important to
consider what we base our investigations on. The
idea of being faithful is not one that everyone
would feel is integral to a happy relationship/
marriage. In addition, despite the vows of "to
death do us part," perhaps the idea that not all
relationships are meant to be forever is worth
consideration. Hanging on to a bad relationship
for the wrong reasons only adds to the suffering
of the partners, and those around them, which
can include the children - the ones that
(supposedly) they're trying to protect.
Communication and respect, to me, are the two
most important things in a relationship, with
everything else being a result of how these two
things are interacted with. The other pieces may
be interesting, but they're working with the
superficial aspects of a dynamic that most
people fear and/or want to control.
What if we learned to communicate, and knew
that we could do it safely with our loved ones,
and that we could always come to a place of
respect, even in disagreement...Might we feel
less of a need to research things this way?
Might we actually have a good relationship/
marriage instead of treating the symptoms
of an unhealthy one?
What do you think?
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
A Vision of the Knight|A Fair Maiden's Cleavage|jpg
More of the fair maiden
who is Isis.
Most revealing picture yet
in the fair maiden dress.
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I.S.I.S.
Oh, I like this...
Just in, from a creative follower:
Irresistible
Sensual/Seductive
Inspirational
Safe
Thanks!
Just in, from a creative follower:
Irresistible
Sensual/Seductive
Inspirational
Safe
Thanks!
Monday, May 10, 2010
Black AND White | jpg image | Leg Lovers
when it comes to things.
Maybe this image can
change your perspective
(especially if you are
a leg lover,
even more especially if
you are a lover of my legs).
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Saturday, May 8, 2010
Be My Knight | jpg | SSS Rated
as the previous picture.
Cleavage in Fair Maiden Costume.
Long Nails.
Triple S Rated.
Sexy.
Seductive.
Sensual.
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velvety and red
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Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Soooo Sexy | DWTS | Video
I don't usually watch Dancing with the Stars,
however, I happened to catch the headline about
Evan's Argentine Tango, and checked it out.
I think it is soooo sexy. While I can love a man who
wants to please me, I can equally love a man who
can take charge. Yummy.
however, I happened to catch the headline about
Evan's Argentine Tango, and checked it out.
I think it is soooo sexy. While I can love a man who
wants to please me, I can equally love a man who
can take charge. Yummy.
Hypnosis and Pain Management
Sometimes people ask about how hypnosis can
help with pain management.
The one thing that I tell those who are
interested, you want to be careful about
using hypnosis to curb pain as pain could
be an indicator that something requires
attention. If that was to be the case,
and you ignored it by turning off the pain
with hypnosis, it could be potentially
fatal.
If you are going to consider using hypnosis
for pain management, it should be for cases
in which you experience some form of chronic
pain, pain that has been identified, and
known to be more of nuisance than anything
else.
Hypnosis may not be able to take the pain
away all together, however it would have a
reasonably good shot at moderating it.
Of course, there are things that you can
sometimes do to moderate discomfort without
the use of hypnosis, and if you have a
headache, you may want to consider this
article's practical suggestions.
When your life is a stake, it is wise to be
careful how you go about interacting with
your body's messages. If you have something
on-going that doesn't seem to be handling
itself, it might be time to at least rule
out anything that might require further
attention and/or treatment.
Once you do, if you'd like to find a greater
level of comfort, you might want to consider
the possibility that hypnosis could alter
your relationship to the pain you are
experiencing.
One final note, be careful with anyone who
might be willing to address your concerns
without addressing (or steps over) these
considerations. On top of the concern you
should have for your own well being, you
should also know that in many cases, hypnosis
to treat a physical ailment will be in
violation of a law, unless it is in conjunction
with a qualified medical professional.
Be well, and may you never have a need to
use this information. :) As always, any
questions, please feel free to ask!
help with pain management.
The one thing that I tell those who are
interested, you want to be careful about
using hypnosis to curb pain as pain could
be an indicator that something requires
attention. If that was to be the case,
and you ignored it by turning off the pain
with hypnosis, it could be potentially
fatal.
If you are going to consider using hypnosis
for pain management, it should be for cases
in which you experience some form of chronic
pain, pain that has been identified, and
known to be more of nuisance than anything
else.
Hypnosis may not be able to take the pain
away all together, however it would have a
reasonably good shot at moderating it.
Of course, there are things that you can
sometimes do to moderate discomfort without
the use of hypnosis, and if you have a
headache, you may want to consider this
article's practical suggestions.
When your life is a stake, it is wise to be
careful how you go about interacting with
your body's messages. If you have something
on-going that doesn't seem to be handling
itself, it might be time to at least rule
out anything that might require further
attention and/or treatment.
Once you do, if you'd like to find a greater
level of comfort, you might want to consider
the possibility that hypnosis could alter
your relationship to the pain you are
experiencing.
One final note, be careful with anyone who
might be willing to address your concerns
without addressing (or steps over) these
considerations. On top of the concern you
should have for your own well being, you
should also know that in many cases, hypnosis
to treat a physical ailment will be in
violation of a law, unless it is in conjunction
with a qualified medical professional.
Be well, and may you never have a need to
use this information. :) As always, any
questions, please feel free to ask!
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