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A Word about Price

I saw someone post in my chat box about how
he(?) wishes he was wealthy, as he can't
imagine affording me. I realize that my
rate when extrapolated over an hour can be
a lot. However what many don't realize is
that I can't just get paid for my one-on-one
time, as there is a lot of other work that
goes into your experience of me. My rate
allows me to do what I do, and provide you
the experience of pleasure you enjoy so much.

At the same time, it is much less than many
others who do what I do.

In addition, I try to work with people and
their budgets and the only session that has
a specified time duration is the first one -
30 minutes.

After the first session I have been known
to even do 5 minute sessions with regulars,
or even throw in some free minutes to those
who have an interest and take the actions
to enjoy the interest.

I also offer special prices on my files
from time to time, and some really great,
new images tend to show up in my monthly
games at a steal for $2.00. One month,
even audio AND video files were in the mix.

So, yes...you could look superficially at
what I do, and do nothing because you aren't
rich, or you could contact me and see what
the possibilities are before you so quickly
give up on something you desire.

I may not always be able to accommodate.
After all, I do need to make a living. But
because there is more to me and what I do
than making a living, I am often willing
to be as flexible as possible.

Have a great night!
 

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The Dance of the Minds

I have been thinking a lot lately about relationships.
Relationships that we have we others, intimate and
otherwise, as well as the one we have with ourself.

Relationships of any kind can be like walking a tight
rope. How do we best do wahat we need to for ourselves
as well as treat those we care about in a way that works
for them?

I have often said that compromise is one thing, but if
one feels compromised in the process of compromising,
then that usually spells more trouble for a relationship,
as it will come out in some way, at some point, and not
likely in a good one.

We have to respect where we are, and then figure out
where to go from there. That, in some way, is a problem
in that where we are isn't always the place that is
best for us. Many times the place we are has everything
to do with our unconscious choices.

Our unconscious strives for the comfortable. The
comfortable is familiar. So it seeks the familiar.
So if we have been unhappy in a relationship for a
long time we may say we want out, but we do not get
out because we have become accustomed to the familiarity
of the discomfort.

Logically it may seem odd, and we may like to think
that we have more to say about it logically than that,
but the ego can't admit that it has so little ability
to affect things, and so often does not realize how
infrequently it is in control, as the unconscious has
us act, as if we were in autopilot. For some it can
be like a good trance. Things happen before the
conscious mind has a chance for input. Then, when
things are already in place, the conscious mind
explains them being there as a matter of choice.
"I may not be happy, but I have to stay, for the kids."

And then it is forgotten until something else stirs
the pot, and the cycle repeats, in some way fortifying
the cycle and the particular outcome. Ever wonder
why something is so painful to change? In part it is
because we have fortified it so much that we have
much to work through to really break down what is
there and break through our patterns that really have
the best of intentions, but really are only standing
in our way.

The best way to be in regard to this is to have your
conscious mind as engaged in questioning as psssible.
It won't always know the answers and it might at times
be frustrating as hell. But when the unconscious mind
is left unquestioned, it is like a song on repeat.
It is not likekly to stop on its own. Something has
to interrupt it. Something has to affect it in a way
that will interrupt its pattern, and change it.

Of course your unconscious mind doesn't want this,
so it will likely fight you, at first. But, you
can win it over by helping it create a new pattern
and ultimately a new outcome that can become as
familiar as anything else that has come before.

You can settle for the limitations of your unonscious
mind's experience, or you can seek to find ways to
expand yourself. Making your unconscious mind your
ally will give you the best possible chance to truly
be in sync and to stop justifying those things that
tend to limit you further.

Realizing these things may help a bit when trying
to figure out what to do within a relationship.
Understanding yourself will help, and so will
understanding that your partner is having his or
her own dance with their unconscious, perhaps
fighting for something he or she doesn't really
want, but fighting to the death for it.

Left to its own devices, the unconscious mind
will never let you do "wrong" according to what
it believes to be true, and your ego always needs
to be right. Can you see how incredibly,
successfully dysfunctional that could wind up being?

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Cleaning Out

So tonight I cleaned out my Yahoo Messenger
contact list. I deleted many names. Odds
are if you stay in touch with me (and have
my ID), you are still on it. However, if
I accidentally deleted anyone I shouldn't
have, I apologize in advance.

I was just in the mood to "lighten" the
load...so many that do not stay in touch,
wasn't sure why they should remain there.

If you want to reconnect, you are always
welcome to. And, btw, I had an ID several
years ago that I no longer used, and haven't
in a long time. If you ever try to contact
me and I never respond, my guess is that you
are trying the wrong account.

Sweet dreams.
 

You don't want...

to do a session with me?

That's fine.

But don't you think it a
bit odd to tell me you are
going to do a session with
someone else, and expect me
to converse with you about it?

Call me silly, but I do. I
know I am approachable and
easy-going, but that just
seems a bit off to me. And...
maybe if I was in a different
head space when you told me,
I may have felt differently.

But...quite frankly, I am glad
I was not. Being a nice person
often means being taken advantage
of, and it isn't without my
"permission," but I think
sometimes it might serve me
better to be a bit bitchy on
occasion.

Session with whoever you like,
but don't expect me to chit-chat
with you like a friend when you
want to tell me about it with
my limited available time. I
think so few people realize how
much goes into what I do. I
have so few times I can just
idly chat - and even fewer in
which I would be happy to speak
to a virtual stranger about his
excitement regarding a session
with another hypnotist.

Can you tell this lioness is
not a happy camper? Roar.
LOL.

Have a good night.
 

It's Amazing...

how little patience I have for people and things.
and how low my tolerance level can be for things
when I am not happy.

Can you relate?
 

On the Subject of Love

I once asked an old man:
"Which is more important,
to love or be loved?"

He replied:
"Which is more important
to a bird, the left wing
or the right wing?"

Saw this today, and wanted
to share.

Hope your weekend is off
to a good start. :)
 

Where are we being "lead"?

Big news yesterday: Many lipsticks have lead in them.
Apparently, to the FDA and cosmetics companies it is
no big deal because the amounts have been determined
to be within "legal" limits.

Lead in any amount is not supposed to be good for
anyone...so why in the world would we say it is OK?
Because it is consumed in such a small amount?
What about the small amounts allowed other places,
might that add up?

I just don't know when I hear things like this. I
had already been questioning my use of cosmetics for
other chemical reasons. I actually find it interesting
that lead is getting attention, while companies can
hide all kinds of chemicals in a "fragrance" ingredient
of their product.

I am still at the beginning stages of learning about
all of this stuff...but am not happy about it. I
share it with you, as I know that it might be something
of interest as some of you guys like to wear lipstick,
some of the women you care about like to wear lipstick,
and that means that when you kiss these women, it
is something you, too, are exposed to.

Consider checking things out for yourself, and see
what you think.

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What is "Stuck"?

I started to think about all of the resistance
I have met with from those who know what I am
doing lately. I found myself thinking about
human being's resistance to change.

I started to think about how perhaps the times
we are the most stuck we are also the most
resistant to making a change. It doesn't mean
we aren't "stuck" even when things seem to be
going "right," but we are just the most aware
of it when we aren't happy with how something is.

It got me thinking about some of the things
that I have observed in regard to hypnosis.
When someone is under the effect of a suggestion,
there is an automatic response that precipitates
an action. If you think about it, odds are much
of your life is lived that way. Some would
estimate that 80% of our life comes from our
unconscious. 80!

I am all for supporting a person's choices, so
this is not about making the best choices that
someone else thinks you can make, but rather
about you taking the time to question yourself
and your life and your choices. You learned
to appreciate all that you do. You can learn
to appreciate other things too, and in the
process you may just have to work counter to
the societal programming/hypnosis in the process.

Is it worth it? I guess only time will tell.
But I suspect you already know.

If you want any help looking at things, just
ask. Some people would say that what hypnosis
really is is something that de-hypnotizes you
from the suggestions that your life experiences
have already given you - and I think they might
just be on to something.

As always - interested in hearing your thoughts!

Have a great day!

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The Odyssey Continues

So...

I have been paying A LOT closer attention to labels
of many things. Interestingly enough, and depressingly
enough (for me), there are things that are labelled
"Organic" that are in some ways better for you for its
labeling, but then they stick some ingredient in that
isn't so good.

For instance, I was looking at organic/gluten free
tortillas. They have canola oil in them which is not
one of the "good" oils, apparently. Of course, there
are those who would say otherwise, but I have yet to
see it in a positive light from someone who doesn't
seem to benefit in some way from its sales, and seems
to know what s/he is talking about.

I also found some organic cookies that were pretty
good; I was actually excited - until I discovered that
the sunflower/safflower oil that is in them is also
not a recommended oil.

Some would say why bother? I suppose if one felt
like s/he was in good health without any concerns,
and felt that there wasn't an issue, perhaps there
isn't one. At the same time, many of these things
can have a hormonal effect - especially in women -
that is disruptive in a "minor" sense, and ultimately
unhealthy in a grander sense. It isn't the thing
that usually happens "instantly," so I would have
to question the "in moderation" idea that things
can be OK.

I share these things with you because I believe that
many don't have this knowledge, and just continue on
their merry way, which can sometimes include a visit
to diseases and/or syndromes that wind up being
treated with drugs that might have been avoided, or
possibly even reversed (if the cause is addressed).

(I found out recently that some "diseases" are actually
"syndromes," and are being re-labeled by some to
acknowledge that some things that happen in the body
are reversible, if the cause is corrected.)

You may choose to do nothing with this information,
and then again, you may find yourself curious enough
to check things out for yourself. It is the kind of
information I couldda wouldda shouldda checked out for
myself previously, but chose to go on in ignorance.

But no more. I am being so strict with myself, as I
have seen some effect already, and would welcome more
of it. I, of course, would never suggest that you
take my word (or anyone's, for that matter) about
what seems to be right/best for you. At the same
time there is a wealth of information out there that
is a bit overwhelming, to be sure. I don't really
know what "the" answer is (never sure that there is
just one) but I do know that a lot of what I am
learning about the things we are ingesting via the
food we eat, and the products we use, that is - in
my mind - despicable, and I am going to make the
choices that make the most sense to me given the
new awareness I now have.

In some ways, it sucks. In other ways, I am excited.
New possibilities await. Perhaps you'll join me in
this venture? I welcome your thoughts and comments.
Even if you're not sure others would be interested,
if you have experiences to share, I welcome them
publicly, as you never know how what you say might
be of benefit to another.

Thanks for reading, and have a great day!

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Happy Valentine's Day!

Try Something Different

There is a saying that basically says if you always
do what you've always done you will always get the
same results.

It is an interesting thought that I am not certain
is entirely accurate. I say this because I have
been thinking a lot lately about what goes into our
foods and disposable things like shampoo and make up
and toothpaste.

Many people would say that anything "in moderation"
is OK. But...if something isn't likely to be a
"good" thing for you, is it really "OK" in any
proportion, at any time?

I have mentioned the fact that I am attempting a
"diet" based in some part in juicing. I have also
mentioned how I am also now looking to stop using
gluten products as much as possible, as well as
some other things. As a result, I am having to
consider alternatives which are things I have had
zero familiarity with - until recently.

Many will respond with "YUCK!" or something
similar. However, they are only "yucking" the
idea of it, as they would have no way of knowing
if it was truly "yuck" at all - unless they were
willing to try it.

I get it. I have been there myself. At the same
time, I have decided that I want to take control of
what goes into (and on - which also goes in) my
body, and my research into what goes into the
products we use has convinced me to reconsider
how I do things.

As odd as it may sound, one of the things that I
was most concerned with on a superficial level was
my hair. After all, a lioness must maintain her
mane. :P I have used a variety of products on my
hair, and was concerned about going "bare bones."

Surprisingly enough, I am loving what my hair is
doing with some very basic ingredients. I will
be saving a lot of money on hair care products now,
and I wish I had done this ALOT sooner!

I know the world in which we live only feeds into
us thinking we "need" so many things. But there
was a time in the world that much of what we have
never existed, and people got by just fine. Perhaps
it makes sense to reconsider the things we choose,
especially if we stop taking other people's (and
companies') word for the fact that it is "just
fine" in moderation.

As always, I am for people considering things for
themselves, and finding what works for THEM. I
do not believe in a "one-size fits all" mentality
when it comes to anything. The route I am taking
is one that I am piecing together as I go along.

The brilliant part for me is that as I do, I am
feeling better. It is also more important for me
to be healthier, than to strive for any particular
weight change, however, if that was to be a side
effect, I would most assuredly welcome it. (As a
side note that might be potentially interesting,
I have lost 7 pounds in just 2 weeks by doing
what I am doing - and it is with mostly just
walking as my "exercise.")

So...as usual, I am just looking to provide a few
questions and some food for thought (how particularly
appropos in this case (: ). Of course you can take
it, or leave it, but before leaving it consider you
might just be missing out on something pretty
incredible. I have found a few new things that if
I have stayed in the "YuckZone" I would have missed.

Our comfort zone is the familiar, even when it
doesn't really work for us, so sometimes it pays to
step out of it. Especially if you are feeling any
less than you want to be it might be worth researching
ingredients and see how they might be affecting you -
or could potentially affect you down the line.

If you experiment, I would love to hear your results.
Privately is fine, but would welcome it publicly below,
as I always think that we have something to learn from
each other's experience, as it may help to alter our
own.

As always, thanks for "listening," and
Have a great night.

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A Rant

Today I was referred to as a member of a "tribe," and
it was in a negative context. It was someone who took
the time to respond to my blog entry of yesterday. It
was someone who apparently had some significant issues
with a hypnotist and hypnosis that was done.

It was someone that, as far as I can tell, has never
had direct contact with me. This last bit is important
in that what perceptions there were about "things" were
overlayed with his perspective of me, as a member of the
"tribe."

In response, I mentioned while one may be familiar with
two Indians, they do not necessarily belong to ONE tribe.
Therefore, it is quite possible that I might be different
than those who are perceived to be similar.

These perceptions bother me no end. It is one thing to
be judged based on who I am, and something totally
different to be judged on an overlay of someone's
experience. (Of course, we do it all the time, don't we?)

At the same time, it is troubling to me on a few levels,
as there have been occasions that I have recommended that
someone who was having issues go to a "professional tribe"
hypnotist only to have the "professional" question my
ethics, and look to put doubt in the person's mind about
me and my motives. Never mind the fact that I extended
myself to help in ways that were not beneficial to myself.
Never mind the fact that I could have taken advantage,
and never did. Never mind the fact that I was caring
so much more for the person that the people who took
advantage of him got much more for their efforts than
I ever did. Never mind the fact that the professionals,
too, got more from him, as well.

I have recommended the "professional" route on occasion,
for a few reasons, and now that this type of thing has
happened more than once, it certainly is with just a
bit of reservation. In one case, the PROFESSIONAL
seemed to have taken advantage of the person as well.
Guess who wound up helping him, as a result?

I am not sure how this is coming off. At the same time
I mention it because these "wonderful labels" that we
love so much, that tell us what is "good" and/or "bad"
can sometimes be deceptive, as people are not their
labels.

It is quite possible one could find someone like me
amongst those who would take advantage and be careless
in their approach. It is quite possible that while
the trend may seem to go one way, there may be some -
like me - that might buck it. It is also possible
that someone who is supposed to be an accredited,
liscensed professional can be anything but responsible
to anyone but him/herself.

I ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS say
BE CAREFUL.
BE AWARE.
BE DILIGENT.

I always say you should trust your gut. If your gut
says run the other way - LISTEN. I laugh when I tell
someone that and they turn around and ask me if they
can trust me. To say anything other than "What does
your gut say?" would certainly run counter to what I
have said. Perhaps they're testing me, or perhaps
they don't see the irony. Who knows?

Any which way, if you are interested in erotic hypnosis
learn what you can, and take baby steps until you find
who and what you are looking for. If you don't,
someone else may soon have you doing things you never
did before, and loving every moment of it - if you
are "lucky." If you're not, you may still be doing
those things, but feeling quite unhappy, conflicted
and confused, and/or disconnected - finding it difficult
- if not impossible - to escape.

(By the way, it should perhaps be stated that some of
the "worst" stories and circumstances I could share
come from those who aren't presenting themselves as
part of the commercial fetish of erotic hypnosis.)

I would prefer to talk about how great hypnosis is,
and what wonderful things it can do. I would prefer
never to indulge in conversation about the controversial,
seemingly gray, areas. I would prefer that I never
knew many of the dubious things I have been exposed
to over the last several years.

But while I have my preferences, it would seem that
it is not in the best interest of those who might
be flirting with their desires in this regard. To
be aware of the possibilities is to have a chance
to be your own best protector and advocate. I
stand by the fact that I believe that oftentimes
people will get themselves into trouble (whether
it is hypnosis, or nutrition, or - take your pick...)
when someone else does their thinking for them.

Yes. I know that takes away the fun of it for
some. But odds are good that you'll have more
fun if you are smart about what you do and how
you do it. Don't believe me? Ask some of those
I have hypnotized.

Play (and Stay!) Safe,
Isis
 

Did you know...?

Just a few random facts for you...just in case you might like to get to know me better:

Did you know...
that I have been an erotic hypnotist, sensually hypnotizing on Niteflirt for nearly 8 years now?

Did you know...
that I usually charge $3.50 for jpg images and $6.00 for animated gifs?

Did you know...
that when I do my monthly events, you can usually get my files for significantly less than what I usually charge?

Did you know...
that while I can "play" the role of Domme...I am really "just" someone who enjoys another enjoying himself, and am happy to be in control, if that works for the other person. Who I am is never "One size fits all." Who am has everything to do with who you are.

Did you know...
that I put a great deal of time and effort into everything I do, a lot of which never correlates to a paid by the minute rate, or in many cases to any rate at all? And that is, in part, a reason why I send out Payment Requests like I do (and have teh various pay buttons here, on my blog). I feel that I want to share without everything having a cost, however, if there are those who appreciate my time and effort, it is invaluable to me to receive the efforts of those who take the time and effort to show their appreciation for my time spent. Among other things it allows me to be more creative. If you have spent any time here, on my blog you will likely note there have been many goodies - for FREE.

Did you know...
that there is much more to me than one might "characteristically" think of someone on a phone sex site? I will never compromise who I am in the process of interacting with you...at the same time, I will always respect where you come from, and where you want to go to.

Did you know...
that I do feminization and financial types of calls ONLY UPON REQUEST, and within reason? And that there are some types of calls and requests I will never do? I always am mindful - even if the person I speak to isn't yet aware - of the fact that when fantasy meets reality it isn't always a good thing. My "agenda" is to take care of you, and have you have the safest and best possible experience.

Did you know...
that the more you get to know me, and the more you session with me, the more you will be able to interact with me? My time is limited, and I will share it when I can, however those who have the greatest connection with me will receive the greatest "reward" of my time and attention, and other things.

Did you know...
that I will always make an effort to have you get your "money's worth" and then-some from our time together? Those who are willing and able to work with me, and within the context I create often value what they receive in greater amounts than money spent.

Did you know...
that often a first time caller will find himself wondering what took him so long to call me after we have had our first session together, and that often he will find something he didn't even know he was looking for, often leaving quite satisfied, sometimes looking forward to more, and other times headed on his merry way? I will always work with what someone wants - and if they don't know what it is - will never give them what they don't want. I have had some call me for help with something, and never to be heard from again. I usually take that as a great sign. :) In addition, there have been a number of callers who called once, headed off for other hypnotists, only to come back apologetically when they are either in trouble, or when they realized just how good they really had it with me.

Did you know...
Quest of Cupid is February's Event that is going on now. 22 NEW IMAGES. Images received at random. Get 3 of any one, and you can trade for a new image not yet received at the end of the month. Visit the Quest of Cupid Banner up top for Event Page.

As always, if you have any questions, please ask!
Have a great night/day!
 

Oh Gender!

O'Reilly was asking a guest about what the downside
of having a woman in the Oval Office would be. The
guest replied, "besides PMS and the mood swings."

HA!

I know some men who can have swings, too. Some men
who can run hot one minute, and cold the next. While
PMS may put a label on behavior and attitude, it is
not exclusive behavior of a gender.

I find it amusing when men say things authoritatively
about things they can't possibly know. I have noticed
on occasion that those who are most verbal about being
pro-life have been men. (This is not to say what they
think/feel/believe is to be discounted, just that I
am observing that there are gender based statements
made about the circumstances of a gender they can not
possibly be intimately aware of...which just strikes
me when there are things that are said and occur based
on some particular gender bias).

While that last statement was parenthetical, it occurs
to me that most gender biased statements come from
the opposite gender. While that may be obvious to
you, it just now occurs to me - at least in this
specific way. And being that they come from the
"other" gender, it is interesting to me because one
can truly never know the other gender, so we are making
statements on things we THINK we know as absolutes,
rather than things we truly DO know which often occur
much more organically, and a lot less predictably, than
we'd like to present/believe them to be.

No wonder we have so many problems sometimes. As always,
curious to hear your thoughts.

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It may be legal...it may be possible...

but is it "right?"

I was just reading a story about a Texas man who got to
live in a house that wasn't his for just $16 a month.
Apparently it rubs many the wrong way.

Someone named David Decosse said, "What may be legally
permissible is not necessarily ethically right." Reading
that made me think about much of what I do think about
on a regular basis - in regard to hypnosis, and other
things.

The difficult part of that statement is how does one
define "ethical?" After all, it would seem to me to
be a relative term. Some might think, given the current
climate, what he did is just fine.

One thing I often say is "Just because I can, doesn't
mean I should." In some ways these things are similar.
I am not always willing to do everything a person might
ask me to do. Some things I am unwilling to be a party
to - even if the other person is fine with it. It may
be "fine," but it is just not something that fits into
the framework of who I am.

Recently I referred to some things I was learning about
Xenoestrogens. It is something I would definitely say
is something for most to consider. While there may be
no issue for many, there are many that ARE affected, and
perhaps, if these chemicals are as bad as it seems they
are, then it might be something to consider combatting
on some level so it never becomes an issue. The likely
net result would likely leave you feeling better. In
some cases, the most simple of things will work. It
might take a bit of work, given the prolification of
chemicals in our foods and personal care products, but
in my personal experience so far - worthy of my time
and efforts.

In addition, I am surprisingly finding homemade green
juice to be quite delicious. People I know have turned
their noses up at the idea, but haven't even tried it.
You might be surprised at just how delicious a few
grapes, parsley, romaine lettuce, scallions, and spinach
is in juice form. I will be happy to share my "recipe"
and how I do it with anyone who is interested. It is
a lot of work, but I have found myself being diligent
in my efforts - so you gotta know there is a reason. :)

I also have learned a few other things in the process,
and if I can figure out how to share what I am learning,
and there is an interest in my publicly sharing, I
might just do that. In the meantime, if you want
something that might open your eyes WIDE to the
possibilities of the wonderful world of chemicals,
click here. They may be legal, they may be
possible, but are they "right" to be in our products,
and ultimately our system/body? Just something to
consider...as always.

(Another interesting, eye-opening article, about
some of the foods you may eat).

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What do you hear? | Video

Mitt Romney says he "doesn't care" about poor
people. Have you heard?


If you listen to what he really says, he is
saying that he wants to focus on those who
seem to need the most help. There are plans
in place to help the poor, and the rich - well,
they're rich.

Regardless of one's political leanings, there
is room to see his point, despite picking on
the words he chose to express it.

How often does that type of hearing get us into
trouble and arguments? How many times do we
hear something different than it was intended?

While there are considerations here, I would
suggest it is only a distraction to focus on
the delivery rather than the ultimate message,
and to create a cherry picked statement that
ultimately is no good to the greater cause.
I wanted to say no good to anyone, but it
would seem it might just help the cause of
anyone who is "anti"- Romney (which might just
be the point here?)

What would the world be like it we could focus
on the positives and the things we would like,
rather than on fear mongering, and the things
we want to stay away from? Some will say that
when voters go to the polls, they don't vote
FOR someone, but rather against someone else.

If you think about it...it isn't exactly an
empowering place to stand. It is so much
more powerful to make a choice than feel
defaulted into one. Is it no wonder that
some may be feeling a bit disillusioned
these days?

What would it take for us to come together?
We so desperately need to be looking out for
our commonalities than for arguing about to
handle our distinctions, and listening with
our heart more, instead of our head and ego.

I suspect that would be a start.

What do you think?

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Is it wise?

Is it wise to come to hypnosis with a "do me"
attitude?

I just had a call in which someone told me
he wanted to be taken against his will. He
said he had never been hypnotized before.

Now...it is possible and, I am guessing, even
probable that he wanted me to "just plow"
into the fantasy. I, though, asked him if
he had any questions about hypnosis (talk
about what will put out some people's fire).

I asked because I believe that people should
always know what they are getting into. I
asked because I don't do the "fantasy" of
hypnosis; I DO REAL hypnosis. I find that
those who want the fantasy are some of the
worst callers for me, as they seek to "do"
the call, rather than having someone else
be their guide for the session. Nothing
wrong with the approach - just doesn't
work for me.

It is quite possible that his perceived
lack of awareness was all part of the "show."
However, it may also be possible that he
really just wanted me to "do" him for real,
regardless of what the outcome may be...
thinking, somewhat unrealistically (especially
if he has never been hypnotized before), that
he may know what to expect.

The fact is that if someone has no idea what
they are getting into for "real," it is
likely to be unwise to go to a hypnotist
with a "do me" attitude. I have seen people
come away from sessions with interests in
things that they really don't have an
interest in. I know this because given the
chance to get some perspective/the ability
to remove the suggestion(s), they opt to
go back to before the suggestion was affecting
them. If never given that chance, one would
never know where an experience might wind up.

Often I tell people to be careful. There are
some who will disappear on me only to come
back and tell me about their disastrous, or
nearly disastrous, experience with (an)other/
hypnotist(s).

I have to hope that people will always do what
is best for themselves, but sometimes it takes
a detour that shows them what can happen that
maybe they won't always be in a position to
make the choices that are needed. It is all
too easy to be caught up in the web of a "good"
hypnotist and their ability to guide what happens
by the suggestions they give.

Some people will think talking to a hypnotist
is no different than talking to any "regular"
person, and yet there is likely the hope that
perhaps something could happen that might in
some way fulfill on an expectation nestled
within a fantasy. To those people I would say,
"Be careful what you wish for...you might just
get it." The problem can sometimes be that the
reality of the fantasy is unable to measure up
to the fantasy that you have crafted within the
safety of your own mind. In the "real" experience,
there will be someone else guiding things -
someone that you will not be able to craft
in the way you have the character of your mind
and scenario.

Yes. It can be a wet blanket. And I am sorry
about that. At the same time, consider that
it might be a better option than a wildfire
out of control.

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Quest of Cupid: Welcome to February!

Greetings!

I hope this finds you happy, well and safe.

I just posted my newest event: Quest of Cupid.
To see the details, you can click the banner
above and read them.

Alternatively, I can just tell you that the
month has 22 available COMPLETELY NEW IMAGES
that you might receive. In the spirit of
Trick or Treat and Turkey or Treat, there are
7 cupid images interdispersed amongst the
possible emails you will receive.

You can play only once a day. You will
receive emails at random, which means you
may receive the same image more than once.
If you receive the same image (Cupid, or
otherwise) 3 times you can "trade" it in
for an image not received at the end of
the month by sending me an email with the
dates of the repeat.

As always, if you have any questions, please
do ask! Oh, one other thing...there is a
"Santa's Bag" type option available (called
"Targeted for Pleasure") and those who have
yet to receive Pure Love: The Gift also have
the option during the month of February to
get it at a steal of a price.

I would also like to thank the special good
boy who has helped me coordinate these calendar
events...and I will ask that you do too...after
all, it is you who gets to enjoy the labors of
his love for all things Isis. :)

Here's to an incredible February!

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