Last night someone in a forum was
telling others in the forum to be
careful about hypnosis in the
erotic context.
In general, I am all for it. This
person I know has had some very bad
experiences with other hypnotists,
and he feels compelled to tell
others to be mindful now.
What I didn't appreciate, however,
was how he was telling these others
to be careful about working with ME,
a Domme. His claim was that they
would be however I wanted them to
be, should I hypnotize them. He
claimed that I would have them
begging me to do things.
I said that what he said was unfair,
and inaccurate. This was a person,
I thought, who had a clue about who I
was, given that we had spent time
chatting (for free) about his
situation. This is a person who,
when he wanted to go handle his
situation the way he felt best,
should have experienced me backing
off, and supporting him, and wishing
him a favorable outcome. This is a
person who, when he said that things
were better when we next spoke, got
a pleased version of me, happy to
know that he was getting his situation
handled in a way that worked for him.
I explained to him, and anyone listening,
that I am very interested in what those
I interact with say, and want - that I
want to know as clearly as possible what
the person feels, as I do not want to
bias him in a way that could ultimately
hurt him. If I even suspect that someone
is giving me an answer because of a
suggestion, I always investigate further.
I have seen instances where people have
been conflicted, and I never want to be
one who creates that type of conflict in
another.
Yes, I have a "job" to do when someone
calls me and yes, I sometimes DO affect
how someone feels about me via suggestions.
However, if I ever thought for one moment
that it was in any way detrimental or
uncomfortable or compromising for someone
I would want to change it - and likely
would - in a heartbeat!
There are so many ways to do things - some
not so pleasant or helpful - that the
beauty is that I can make the most amazing
and pleasurable changes when necessary.
There were some sweethearts who were sticking
up for me in this conversation, and he tried
to take away from what they said by the fact
that he felt I had influenced them. They
had been affected by me, however, they also
knew slightly more personally about what an
experience with me is like.
I even went as far as to say that in one case,
I had only done a couple of sessions with one
of them, and that his support wasn't as
concrete as it might have been (from a time
standpoint). I said that so that anyone there
who did not know me had some perspective of
the comments/situation.
I have a good reputation, and I'd like to think
it is with good reason. I sometimes have been
hesitant about the "Domme" label, as I am not
always so sure about how it fits me. I know
that there is a certain culture, and with that
culture comes expectations.
However, we as people DEMAND labels. We need to
know how someone fits into our boxes. I picked
Domme after some thought, and felt that I could
carve out a sensual style of my own. Apparently
I have done something right, and those who do not
seek the extremes of the BDSM world seem to enjoy
the web of pleasure I create.
I always suggest that anyone interested in me get
to know me via my Niteflirt pages as well as this
blog, and any other way they can find. It is
important to be aware, and to make the best
decisions from the information available to you.
You will likely find me remarkably consistent in
my views and the resulting expressions.
Until we meet (again).
Isis
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Monday, December 28, 2009
When average truly is good enough
I sometimes get guys calling me,
telling me how small their penis is,
and how they want me to humiliate
them for it.
I have even had guys with 5 inches
say that they're small. In actuality
5 inches might be a little on the
small side, as the average size
is 5.4"
Guys don't seem to know what the
average size is, so I thought I
would share this info.
In addition, it might interest you
to know that the most sensitive
part of a woman is only the first
2-3 inches of her vagina.
Maybe some women will prefer
longer, however, as you can see,
the average size is more than
enough to satisfy an average
woman (length-wise).
I once spoke with a guy that
was only about 3 inches, and
he came to appreciate the
advantages of being smaller.
You can have someone make you
feel inferior, however, I wanted
to give you a different perspective
to consider.
:-)
telling me how small their penis is,
and how they want me to humiliate
them for it.
I have even had guys with 5 inches
say that they're small. In actuality
5 inches might be a little on the
small side, as the average size
is 5.4"
Guys don't seem to know what the
average size is, so I thought I
would share this info.
In addition, it might interest you
to know that the most sensitive
part of a woman is only the first
2-3 inches of her vagina.
Maybe some women will prefer
longer, however, as you can see,
the average size is more than
enough to satisfy an average
woman (length-wise).
I once spoke with a guy that
was only about 3 inches, and
he came to appreciate the
advantages of being smaller.
You can have someone make you
feel inferior, however, I wanted
to give you a different perspective
to consider.
:-)
From A Satisfied Customer
(Perhaps you can relate?)
After a session with you I am always left
with a feeling of satisfaction. As a very
shy man, I have have always fantasized
about being taken by an erotic enchantress.
Since joining NF, I have contacted many
mistresses, but most of them have been
disappointments.
You, however, have never failed to meet my
expectations. Most of the others only seem
interested in phone sex. While I find the
erotic side of conversation important, I
always prefer a strong hypnotic induction
as teasing foreplay. Others are into
feminization and homosexuality. I am
completely turned off by just the thought
of that. While I know in contacting a
mistress I have to do as I am told, I hate
being put into a situation that makes me
uncomfortable.
In short, the reason I keep returning to
you is you listen to me and try to meet my
wants.
Thank you.
After a session with you I am always left
with a feeling of satisfaction. As a very
shy man, I have have always fantasized
about being taken by an erotic enchantress.
Since joining NF, I have contacted many
mistresses, but most of them have been
disappointments.
You, however, have never failed to meet my
expectations. Most of the others only seem
interested in phone sex. While I find the
erotic side of conversation important, I
always prefer a strong hypnotic induction
as teasing foreplay. Others are into
feminization and homosexuality. I am
completely turned off by just the thought
of that. While I know in contacting a
mistress I have to do as I am told, I hate
being put into a situation that makes me
uncomfortable.
In short, the reason I keep returning to
you is you listen to me and try to meet my
wants.
Thank you.
Friday, December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas!
Hope you and yours have a Special Day.
Merry Christmas!
Oh, and a bit of what looks like is good news:
the pay buttons from NF seem to be working now.
However, there may be some that are supposed
to have attachments that don't. If that happens
with something you buy, please contact me.
I apologize in advance. I'll be so happy when
they get these bugs out!
So...if you've been trying unsuccessfully to buy
anything from those buttons, please try now.
You can find where these buttons and files
are by visiting IsisTheEnchantress.com
All the BEST to you!
Isis
Monday, December 21, 2009
Sex Over the Phone
Wonder what kind of song could be
written and video could be made
about Sexual Hypnosis and the phone.
And to think at one time the look of these
guys and women was common. :-)
Anyone know if this song was popular/
a success?
written and video could be made
about Sexual Hypnosis and the phone.
And to think at one time the look of these
guys and women was common. :-)
Anyone know if this song was popular/
a success?
Saturday, December 19, 2009
It has come to my attention...
It has come to my attention that there is
another erotic hypnotist that is using the
name of Isis.
In general I don't say much about other
hypnotists because in general it doesn't
usually matter, and besides who knows
what is "true" and what is fantasy?
In this case, though, it is troubling to
me because she appears to be the antithesis
of me in so many ways, and I am concerned
that some people could potentially get
confused.
Please note that there is ONLY ONE
Isis THE Enchantress (IsisTheEnchantress),
and that is ME. That is my name, exactly.
I always suggest that you play safely,
and responsibly, and in cases like this
other person, I would guess that she feels
otherwise. I even had someone call and
accuse me of something, but hung up before
I could clarify what the details and
situation were. It was something that
I would never have done, and something
she might do. While I am uncertain as
to whether these things are connected,
it is troubling to me.
If you want to email me, you can reach me
at Isis@IsisTheEnchantress.com. If you
want the person who is the
truest to the spirit of the Goddess,
then it is me you want.
Have a great weekend.
Isis
IsisTheEnchantress.com
another erotic hypnotist that is using the
name of Isis.
In general I don't say much about other
hypnotists because in general it doesn't
usually matter, and besides who knows
what is "true" and what is fantasy?
In this case, though, it is troubling to
me because she appears to be the antithesis
of me in so many ways, and I am concerned
that some people could potentially get
confused.
Please note that there is ONLY ONE
Isis THE Enchantress (IsisTheEnchantress),
and that is ME. That is my name, exactly.
I always suggest that you play safely,
and responsibly, and in cases like this
other person, I would guess that she feels
otherwise. I even had someone call and
accuse me of something, but hung up before
I could clarify what the details and
situation were. It was something that
I would never have done, and something
she might do. While I am uncertain as
to whether these things are connected,
it is troubling to me.
If you want to email me, you can reach me
at Isis@IsisTheEnchantress.com. If you
want the person who is the
truest to the spirit of the Goddess,
then it is me you want.
Have a great weekend.
Isis
IsisTheEnchantress.com
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Some insight into my world...an IM conversation
At the risk of altering Isis Mystique,
I am about to share an IM conversation
I had today.
I find that it is difficult to convey
all of who I am in an identity that is
carved out of a stereotype and its
related expectations.
I also find that there are many that I
converse with who are mixes of desire
and disdain for who and what they are
and are becoming.
Some would continue to take you down
that road, in part, because it's what
you say you want. I, on the other hand,
approach things differently.
It doesn't work for everyone, and in
some ways it costs me in terms of "subs"
and potential income from mindless drones
and slaves, however, it is how I feel
best as Isis, and it is how I operate.
The beauty is you can take it or leave it.
People come to me demanding that I be a
different way, or interact with an
expectation of who I am.
You will do yourself a favor by coming to
me without those expectations, and
allowing yourself to be exposed to the
unfolding experience of what is Isis.
XXXXXX
8:37 AM
Nice subtle yahoo name
8:37 AM
But I do know how effective repeating and rereading phrases can be.
isis
8:38 AM
I never want people to feel something they don't want to feel
8:38 AM
and...
8:38 AM
at the same time
8:38 AM
I find that the people who need to find me for one reason or another do
XXXXXX
8:39 AM
They find you?
isis
8:39 AM
"find"
8:39 AM
or, if you prefer, "discover"
XXXXXX
8:40 AM
You do want people like me to obey you, though, hence your screen name, correct?
isis
8:40 AM
yes, and no
XXXXXX
8:41 AM
Your don't want me to become your good obedient little slave?
isis
8:42 AM
I am not your usual Domme
XXXXXX
8:42 AM
So the answer is no, you don't?
isis
8:42 AM
I want what you want, as long as what you want isn't going be harmful or detrimental to you
8:43 AM
I enjoy what I do,
8:43 AM
and I enjoy good boys
8:43 AM
but never at their expense
8:43 AM
not knowing you...I can't say if I do or I don't want that
XXXXXX
8:44 AM
You spent an hour with me last night
8:44 AM
or however long it was
8:44 AM
though you were more focused on XXXXX
isis
8:45 AM
He's fun to play with
8:45 AM
I ask you again...what do you want?
XXXXXX
8:46 AM
So why do your NF listings have little suggestions in the backgrounfd like, obey, call no one else, good boy?
isis
8:47 AM
because it catches the attention of those who want to be that
8:47 AM
or explore that
XXXXXX
8:47 AM
and that's what you enjoy and profit from
8:47 AM
so you want it
isis
8:48 AM
I am not sure what you are saying, or trying to get at
XXXXXX
8:48 AM
obviously someone who has no interest won't bother with you
isis
8:48 AM
and I HATE IM...
8:48 AM
it doesn't convey everything
8:48 AM
there is more to me than meets the eye
8:48 AM
and usually people discover that
8:49 AM
so again...I ask you...what do YOU want?
XXXXXX
8:49 AM
Ok
8:50 AM
Part of me wants to be seduced, brainwashed, mindfucked, erotically charged, kind of helpless to resist a woman
isis
8:51 AM
"a" woman or any woman?
8:51 AM
and what about other parts?
XXXXXX
8:52 AM
And part of me wants to get over my attraction to online women, pervy desires, and to be normal and faithful and to make my wife happier
8:53 AM
And I tend to often give in toward the first part, and then feel guilty because of the second part
isis
8:53 AM
This is why I present myself as I do
8:53 AM
I find many people like yourself
8:53 AM
AND
8:54 AM
I am the type of person who understands, and can help people experience things and help them find themselves and/or balance
XXXXXX
8:54 AM
A particular irresistible woman would be best for the first part, and not a bitchy, greedy one, though I am often attracted to that type
isis
8:54 AM
it's an odd dynamic I have...
8:55 AM
however, those who are willing to take the journey with me usually benefit
8:55 AM
If you were my good boy I would tell you
XXXXXX
8:55 AM
And i do get very turned on by a smart, manipulative woman who knows how to push my buttons
isis
8:56 AM
you need to be the best good boy you can be
8:56 AM
for you to feel as you do, likely there was some hypnosis (intentional or otherwise) that has affected you.
8:56 AM
hypnosis is more common than people realize
XXXXXX
8:56 AM
and i get very turned on being told what to feel and think and be excited by
isis
8:57 AM
have you been hypnotized?
XXXXXX
8:58 AM
i don't think so, though i've listened to some recordings, talked to some dommes and felt myself responding
isis
8:58 AM
well...then you HAVE been hypnotized
XXXXXX
8:58 AM
it might be more simple conditioning than hypnosis
isis
8:58 AM
conditioning often can be hypnosis
8:58 AM
hypnosis can often be conditioning
XXXXXX
8:59 AM
i used to chat occassionally to a woman online, who would always recite the same words about how i responded to her, maybe 30 times over several months
9:00 AM
and eventually, i started feeling those things automatically
isis
9:00 AM
that could definitely have an effect
XXXXXX
9:00 AM
though I think I might have originally given her the words...lol
isis
9:00 AM
you have to decide - CHOOSE - very soon what you want otherwise these suggestions WILL choose for you
9:01 AM
your words CAN be used against you
9:01 AM
and why do you think they can work so well?
XXXXXX
9:03 AM
and i have certain typical subbie feelings of wanting to feel humiliated, degraded, broken down to where i can no longer resist a stronger woman---but then i feel guilty and resentful sometimes about that too
9:03 AM
i know i am suggestable, because i want to be dominated and used
isis
9:03 AM
I run into this often
XXXXXX
9:04 AM
i'm sure you do
isis
9:04 AM
and guys sometimes think that I want to take away their pleasure by my approach
9:04 AM
the fact is that I want to replace it - often with something even more pleasureable
XXXXXX
9:05 AM
i'm not worried about you taking pleasure away
isis
9:05 AM
after all, they apparently care about their lives and their wives or gf
9:05 AM
and I want to help them find themselves and find balance
9:05 AM
I have no idea what that means for an individual - until he and I speak
XXXXXX
9:07 AM
in fact, i am sometimes turned on by bitchy women suggesting my wife is piggish and i should devote myself to them---that kind of overriding control is exciting to me---but then i realize that in reality, i nether do nor want to feel that
9:08 AM
i guess the idea of finding a supersexual woman who turns me into a foolish unresisting drone excites me
isis
9:08 AM
well...you have to decide what you want before it gets to the point that you really can't choose
9:09 AM
you're doing things apparently to reinforce the "negative"
9:09 AM
I am sure you've found the drive stronger
XXXXXX
9:10 AM
i kind of expected you to take the approach like others do of telling me straight up that i want to bey you and submit to you
isis
9:10 AM
LOL
9:10 AM
sorry if I disappointed you
XXXXXX
9:10 AM
you didn't
9:11 AM
it's just exciting to hear that...lol
isis
9:11 AM
I am VERY good at what I do
XXXXXX
9:11 AM
and to flirt with it
isis
9:11 AM
and it is VERY pleasureable
9:11 AM
you might be surprised should
9:11 AM
you decide to call
9:12 AM
I love the idea of exclusive GOOD BOYs
9:12 AM
especially when I know they are being the
9:12 AM
BEST GOOD BOY
9:12 AM
they can be
XXXXXX
9:13 AM
i want to say "Yes Maam" but that seems wrong
isis
9:13 AM
it can work here...why do you think it seems wrong?
9:14 AM
what would be right about serving and submitting to
9:14 AM
someone who is sensual and cares about you and your well being
XXXXXX
9:15 AM
i don't really sent you want that from me, even though writing Goodboy and best goodboy in caps is kind of pushing a button
9:15 AM
sense, not sent
isis
9:15 AM
Yes Maam works....
9:15 AM
although I prefer Yes Isis
9:15 AM
and I also prefer to talk vs IM
XXXXXX
9:15 AM
Yes, Isis
9:16 AM
i noticed Yes, Isis on your NF buttons
9:16 AM
and noticed that many of your old buttons don't seem to work anymore
isis
9:17 AM
if you want something I can get it to you personally
XXXXXX
9:17 AM
It is kind of nice to say Yes Isis
isis
9:17 AM
with their problems lately I haven't done anything to change anything...as it is a lot of work...
9:17 AM
LOL...you have no idea how good YES ISIS can feel
9:17 AM
just ask xxxxx
XXXXXX
9:18 AM
I believe you
XXXXXX
9:19 AM
Was I obnoxious last night?
isis
9:20 AM
you have an interesting way about you
9:20 AM
I suspect you are more angry about things that you are willing to admit, or perhaps even know....
XXXXXX
9:20 AM
I vacillate between arrogant, confident guy and submissive self-loathing dirtbag....lol
isis
9:21 AM
well...when you want to stop that rollercoaster...
9:21 AM
I can put you on a much more pleasureable one
XXXXXX
9:21 AM
Do you have formal training in hypnosis or are you self-taught?
isis
9:21 AM
I am a combo...some training/real experience/more training
9:22 AM
experience being the BEST teacher
XXXXXX
9:22 AM
So what about your personality likes dominating guys that way? Why did you pursue this?
9:23 AM
I am also very interested in dommes themselves
9:24 AM
About 30 years ago, I did join in an onstage demo of hypnosis
isis
9:24 AM
I am sorry...but my ability to "just chat" is somewhat limited these days...you are welcome to call...or we can talk more if we meet up in Inraptured
9:24 AM
I have to go for now...
XXXXXX
9:25 AM
OK
9:25 AM
Thanks for talking
isis
9:25 AM
have a good day
XXXXXX
9:25 AM
Why do I read that as be a good boy?
9:25 AM
You too
isis
9:26 AM
you know you want to be a GOOD BOY and call me, that's why...LOL
9:26 AM
you know the good boy in you probably needs someone like me
XXXXXX
9:27 AM
i know when a woman tells me something like that, it repeats over and over in my head
isis
9:28 AM
you do seem to be quite suggestible...I would be really careful who and what you listen to
-EDIT-
my dear...
9:37 AM
you have to decide what you want
9:37 AM
it goes back to my question
9:37 AM
what do you want
9:37 AM
and then you need to take action
9:38 AM
to make it happen
9:38 AM
stop playing games with your life
9:38 AM
your life is more valuable than these games
9:38 AM
and should you see that
9:38 AM
you will likely make the best choices for you
9:38 AM
I am here if you want my type of assistance
XXXXXX
9:38 AM
Can I ask one rational question?
isis
9:39 AM
sure
XXXXXX
9:39 AM
Don't be offended by this
isis
9:39 AM
love comments like that
XXXXXX
9:39 AM
But it's also regularly in my head
9:40 AM
Why the Hell would a well educated, high functioning person want to be dominated and pay to be made more subservient, and why would that be good for him?
isis
9:41 AM
are you asking because you are trying to understand yourself
9:42 AM
or some other reason?
XXXXXX
9:42 AM
That's what my second part asks, rebelling against the first part, and thinking, don't be a fool.
isis
9:42 AM
like I said before I HATE IM...this is no way to have a real conversation
XXXXXX
9:42 AM
lol
isis
9:42 AM
second of all...
XXXXXX
9:42 AM
ok
isis
9:43 AM
I am spending time I don't really have talking to someone who is going in circles,
9:43 AM
I am willing to help
9:43 AM
but not at my expense
9:43 AM
lastly...
9:43 AM
and to answer your question...
9:43 AM
there are all kinds of reasons which are not limited to any one thing
9:43 AM
you could be stressed, and want the release
9:44 AM
you could have been treated horribly while feeling aroused, and it stuck with you
9:44 AM
you could have had 1 instance of something and then proceeded to reinforce it over time
9:44 AM
it is all conditioning
9:44 AM
and you DO get something from it
9:44 AM
even if it is only unconsciously understood
9:44 AM
OK...
9:44 AM
I'm done
XXXXXX
9:45 AM
Yes, Isis
9:45 AM
Thank you
isis
9:45 AM
you're welcome
PS Interestingly, just as I posted this, I
saw the Thought for the Moment on the right
was: "Remember that you are a unique
individual with unique gifts and talents.
You may even have special talents you've
never discovered."
As a Goddess/As a Domme that is where I
come from. I believe that within everyone
is someone great, and when someone wants to
be my GOOD BOY and wants to serve me, I want
the BEST of those GOOD BOYs.
Can you imagine how good that feels?
I am about to share an IM conversation
I had today.
I find that it is difficult to convey
all of who I am in an identity that is
carved out of a stereotype and its
related expectations.
I also find that there are many that I
converse with who are mixes of desire
and disdain for who and what they are
and are becoming.
Some would continue to take you down
that road, in part, because it's what
you say you want. I, on the other hand,
approach things differently.
It doesn't work for everyone, and in
some ways it costs me in terms of "subs"
and potential income from mindless drones
and slaves, however, it is how I feel
best as Isis, and it is how I operate.
The beauty is you can take it or leave it.
People come to me demanding that I be a
different way, or interact with an
expectation of who I am.
You will do yourself a favor by coming to
me without those expectations, and
allowing yourself to be exposed to the
unfolding experience of what is Isis.
XXXXXX
8:37 AM
Nice subtle yahoo name
8:37 AM
But I do know how effective repeating and rereading phrases can be.
isis
8:38 AM
I never want people to feel something they don't want to feel
8:38 AM
and...
8:38 AM
at the same time
8:38 AM
I find that the people who need to find me for one reason or another do
XXXXXX
8:39 AM
They find you?
isis
8:39 AM
"find"
8:39 AM
or, if you prefer, "discover"
XXXXXX
8:40 AM
You do want people like me to obey you, though, hence your screen name, correct?
isis
8:40 AM
yes, and no
XXXXXX
8:41 AM
Your don't want me to become your good obedient little slave?
isis
8:42 AM
I am not your usual Domme
XXXXXX
8:42 AM
So the answer is no, you don't?
isis
8:42 AM
I want what you want, as long as what you want isn't going be harmful or detrimental to you
8:43 AM
I enjoy what I do,
8:43 AM
and I enjoy good boys
8:43 AM
but never at their expense
8:43 AM
not knowing you...I can't say if I do or I don't want that
XXXXXX
8:44 AM
You spent an hour with me last night
8:44 AM
or however long it was
8:44 AM
though you were more focused on XXXXX
isis
8:45 AM
He's fun to play with
8:45 AM
I ask you again...what do you want?
XXXXXX
8:46 AM
So why do your NF listings have little suggestions in the backgrounfd like, obey, call no one else, good boy?
isis
8:47 AM
because it catches the attention of those who want to be that
8:47 AM
or explore that
XXXXXX
8:47 AM
and that's what you enjoy and profit from
8:47 AM
so you want it
isis
8:48 AM
I am not sure what you are saying, or trying to get at
XXXXXX
8:48 AM
obviously someone who has no interest won't bother with you
isis
8:48 AM
and I HATE IM...
8:48 AM
it doesn't convey everything
8:48 AM
there is more to me than meets the eye
8:48 AM
and usually people discover that
8:49 AM
so again...I ask you...what do YOU want?
XXXXXX
8:49 AM
Ok
8:50 AM
Part of me wants to be seduced, brainwashed, mindfucked, erotically charged, kind of helpless to resist a woman
isis
8:51 AM
"a" woman or any woman?
8:51 AM
and what about other parts?
XXXXXX
8:52 AM
And part of me wants to get over my attraction to online women, pervy desires, and to be normal and faithful and to make my wife happier
8:53 AM
And I tend to often give in toward the first part, and then feel guilty because of the second part
isis
8:53 AM
This is why I present myself as I do
8:53 AM
I find many people like yourself
8:53 AM
AND
8:54 AM
I am the type of person who understands, and can help people experience things and help them find themselves and/or balance
XXXXXX
8:54 AM
A particular irresistible woman would be best for the first part, and not a bitchy, greedy one, though I am often attracted to that type
isis
8:54 AM
it's an odd dynamic I have...
8:55 AM
however, those who are willing to take the journey with me usually benefit
8:55 AM
If you were my good boy I would tell you
XXXXXX
8:55 AM
And i do get very turned on by a smart, manipulative woman who knows how to push my buttons
isis
8:56 AM
you need to be the best good boy you can be
8:56 AM
for you to feel as you do, likely there was some hypnosis (intentional or otherwise) that has affected you.
8:56 AM
hypnosis is more common than people realize
XXXXXX
8:56 AM
and i get very turned on being told what to feel and think and be excited by
isis
8:57 AM
have you been hypnotized?
XXXXXX
8:58 AM
i don't think so, though i've listened to some recordings, talked to some dommes and felt myself responding
isis
8:58 AM
well...then you HAVE been hypnotized
XXXXXX
8:58 AM
it might be more simple conditioning than hypnosis
isis
8:58 AM
conditioning often can be hypnosis
8:58 AM
hypnosis can often be conditioning
XXXXXX
8:59 AM
i used to chat occassionally to a woman online, who would always recite the same words about how i responded to her, maybe 30 times over several months
9:00 AM
and eventually, i started feeling those things automatically
isis
9:00 AM
that could definitely have an effect
XXXXXX
9:00 AM
though I think I might have originally given her the words...lol
isis
9:00 AM
you have to decide - CHOOSE - very soon what you want otherwise these suggestions WILL choose for you
9:01 AM
your words CAN be used against you
9:01 AM
and why do you think they can work so well?
XXXXXX
9:03 AM
and i have certain typical subbie feelings of wanting to feel humiliated, degraded, broken down to where i can no longer resist a stronger woman---but then i feel guilty and resentful sometimes about that too
9:03 AM
i know i am suggestable, because i want to be dominated and used
isis
9:03 AM
I run into this often
XXXXXX
9:04 AM
i'm sure you do
isis
9:04 AM
and guys sometimes think that I want to take away their pleasure by my approach
9:04 AM
the fact is that I want to replace it - often with something even more pleasureable
XXXXXX
9:05 AM
i'm not worried about you taking pleasure away
isis
9:05 AM
after all, they apparently care about their lives and their wives or gf
9:05 AM
and I want to help them find themselves and find balance
9:05 AM
I have no idea what that means for an individual - until he and I speak
XXXXXX
9:07 AM
in fact, i am sometimes turned on by bitchy women suggesting my wife is piggish and i should devote myself to them---that kind of overriding control is exciting to me---but then i realize that in reality, i nether do nor want to feel that
9:08 AM
i guess the idea of finding a supersexual woman who turns me into a foolish unresisting drone excites me
isis
9:08 AM
well...you have to decide what you want before it gets to the point that you really can't choose
9:09 AM
you're doing things apparently to reinforce the "negative"
9:09 AM
I am sure you've found the drive stronger
XXXXXX
9:10 AM
i kind of expected you to take the approach like others do of telling me straight up that i want to bey you and submit to you
isis
9:10 AM
LOL
9:10 AM
sorry if I disappointed you
XXXXXX
9:10 AM
you didn't
9:11 AM
it's just exciting to hear that...lol
isis
9:11 AM
I am VERY good at what I do
XXXXXX
9:11 AM
and to flirt with it
isis
9:11 AM
and it is VERY pleasureable
9:11 AM
you might be surprised should
9:11 AM
you decide to call
9:12 AM
I love the idea of exclusive GOOD BOYs
9:12 AM
especially when I know they are being the
9:12 AM
BEST GOOD BOY
9:12 AM
they can be
XXXXXX
9:13 AM
i want to say "Yes Maam" but that seems wrong
isis
9:13 AM
it can work here...why do you think it seems wrong?
9:14 AM
what would be right about serving and submitting to
9:14 AM
someone who is sensual and cares about you and your well being
XXXXXX
9:15 AM
i don't really sent you want that from me, even though writing Goodboy and best goodboy in caps is kind of pushing a button
9:15 AM
sense, not sent
isis
9:15 AM
Yes Maam works....
9:15 AM
although I prefer Yes Isis
9:15 AM
and I also prefer to talk vs IM
XXXXXX
9:15 AM
Yes, Isis
9:16 AM
i noticed Yes, Isis on your NF buttons
9:16 AM
and noticed that many of your old buttons don't seem to work anymore
isis
9:17 AM
if you want something I can get it to you personally
XXXXXX
9:17 AM
It is kind of nice to say Yes Isis
isis
9:17 AM
with their problems lately I haven't done anything to change anything...as it is a lot of work...
9:17 AM
LOL...you have no idea how good YES ISIS can feel
9:17 AM
just ask xxxxx
XXXXXX
9:18 AM
I believe you
XXXXXX
9:19 AM
Was I obnoxious last night?
isis
9:20 AM
you have an interesting way about you
9:20 AM
I suspect you are more angry about things that you are willing to admit, or perhaps even know....
XXXXXX
9:20 AM
I vacillate between arrogant, confident guy and submissive self-loathing dirtbag....lol
isis
9:21 AM
well...when you want to stop that rollercoaster...
9:21 AM
I can put you on a much more pleasureable one
XXXXXX
9:21 AM
Do you have formal training in hypnosis or are you self-taught?
isis
9:21 AM
I am a combo...some training/real experience/more training
9:22 AM
experience being the BEST teacher
XXXXXX
9:22 AM
So what about your personality likes dominating guys that way? Why did you pursue this?
9:23 AM
I am also very interested in dommes themselves
9:24 AM
About 30 years ago, I did join in an onstage demo of hypnosis
isis
9:24 AM
I am sorry...but my ability to "just chat" is somewhat limited these days...you are welcome to call...or we can talk more if we meet up in Inraptured
9:24 AM
I have to go for now...
XXXXXX
9:25 AM
OK
9:25 AM
Thanks for talking
isis
9:25 AM
have a good day
XXXXXX
9:25 AM
Why do I read that as be a good boy?
9:25 AM
You too
isis
9:26 AM
you know you want to be a GOOD BOY and call me, that's why...LOL
9:26 AM
you know the good boy in you probably needs someone like me
XXXXXX
9:27 AM
i know when a woman tells me something like that, it repeats over and over in my head
isis
9:28 AM
you do seem to be quite suggestible...I would be really careful who and what you listen to
-EDIT-
my dear...
9:37 AM
you have to decide what you want
9:37 AM
it goes back to my question
9:37 AM
what do you want
9:37 AM
and then you need to take action
9:38 AM
to make it happen
9:38 AM
stop playing games with your life
9:38 AM
your life is more valuable than these games
9:38 AM
and should you see that
9:38 AM
you will likely make the best choices for you
9:38 AM
I am here if you want my type of assistance
XXXXXX
9:38 AM
Can I ask one rational question?
isis
9:39 AM
sure
XXXXXX
9:39 AM
Don't be offended by this
isis
9:39 AM
love comments like that
XXXXXX
9:39 AM
But it's also regularly in my head
9:40 AM
Why the Hell would a well educated, high functioning person want to be dominated and pay to be made more subservient, and why would that be good for him?
isis
9:41 AM
are you asking because you are trying to understand yourself
9:42 AM
or some other reason?
XXXXXX
9:42 AM
That's what my second part asks, rebelling against the first part, and thinking, don't be a fool.
isis
9:42 AM
like I said before I HATE IM...this is no way to have a real conversation
XXXXXX
9:42 AM
lol
isis
9:42 AM
second of all...
XXXXXX
9:42 AM
ok
isis
9:43 AM
I am spending time I don't really have talking to someone who is going in circles,
9:43 AM
I am willing to help
9:43 AM
but not at my expense
9:43 AM
lastly...
9:43 AM
and to answer your question...
9:43 AM
there are all kinds of reasons which are not limited to any one thing
9:43 AM
you could be stressed, and want the release
9:44 AM
you could have been treated horribly while feeling aroused, and it stuck with you
9:44 AM
you could have had 1 instance of something and then proceeded to reinforce it over time
9:44 AM
it is all conditioning
9:44 AM
and you DO get something from it
9:44 AM
even if it is only unconsciously understood
9:44 AM
OK...
9:44 AM
I'm done
XXXXXX
9:45 AM
Yes, Isis
9:45 AM
Thank you
isis
9:45 AM
you're welcome
PS Interestingly, just as I posted this, I
saw the Thought for the Moment on the right
was: "Remember that you are a unique
individual with unique gifts and talents.
You may even have special talents you've
never discovered."
As a Goddess/As a Domme that is where I
come from. I believe that within everyone
is someone great, and when someone wants to
be my GOOD BOY and wants to serve me, I want
the BEST of those GOOD BOYs.
Can you imagine how good that feels?
Thursday, December 10, 2009
a few thoughts...
So...NF's call buttons now work again.
How wonderful is that?
Now when you click one of those buttons
to call me, you will be able to call me.
I hope you have been well. There are
many that I haven't heard from in recent
months, and I am uncertain as to why
that is - whether it is Niteflirt issues,
or the economy, or other things, or a
combination.
I am used to someone calling me at random
moments,and I learned a long time ago that
I should never get attached to my callers,
but it doesn't stop me from wondering what
happened to them.
Of course, I always hope for the best,
however, when someone quits me cold turkey
it is always a bummer. It is a bummer, too,
when someone says they're no longer going
to call because they can't, or have gotten
into a relationship.
Of course I am happy for them, but I am
bummed for me. For someone who doesn't get
attached, I get attached. I have never been
one to hypnotically try to keep someone
calling, buying files, thinking of me -
beyond where he wants to be. I know of
instances where that has happened, and
despite the "logic" of any prevailing
hypnotic suggestion, I can tell it makes
a person quite unhappy.
I really do care about those I speak with
and connect with. There is something very
special that occurs when someone lets you
play with them in the intimate way that I do.
So...if you happen to be reading this, but
haven't called in a while, know that it is
quite likely that you have been thought of,
and not forgotten.
I hope you are well, and should an occasion
arise when we can speak again, I hope that
I will again here you on the other end of
the line.
Isis
PS If you are on NF, and have been a caller
of mine, you should make sure to read your
emails. There have been some interesting
things there lately, including a new, free
recording which I was told today is
"beautiful."
How wonderful is that?
Now when you click one of those buttons
to call me, you will be able to call me.
I hope you have been well. There are
many that I haven't heard from in recent
months, and I am uncertain as to why
that is - whether it is Niteflirt issues,
or the economy, or other things, or a
combination.
I am used to someone calling me at random
moments,and I learned a long time ago that
I should never get attached to my callers,
but it doesn't stop me from wondering what
happened to them.
Of course, I always hope for the best,
however, when someone quits me cold turkey
it is always a bummer. It is a bummer, too,
when someone says they're no longer going
to call because they can't, or have gotten
into a relationship.
Of course I am happy for them, but I am
bummed for me. For someone who doesn't get
attached, I get attached. I have never been
one to hypnotically try to keep someone
calling, buying files, thinking of me -
beyond where he wants to be. I know of
instances where that has happened, and
despite the "logic" of any prevailing
hypnotic suggestion, I can tell it makes
a person quite unhappy.
I really do care about those I speak with
and connect with. There is something very
special that occurs when someone lets you
play with them in the intimate way that I do.
So...if you happen to be reading this, but
haven't called in a while, know that it is
quite likely that you have been thought of,
and not forgotten.
I hope you are well, and should an occasion
arise when we can speak again, I hope that
I will again here you on the other end of
the line.
Isis
PS If you are on NF, and have been a caller
of mine, you should make sure to read your
emails. There have been some interesting
things there lately, including a new, free
recording which I was told today is
"beautiful."
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