Are you feeling resigned?

Per Google's online dictionary, resigned
has (among others) the following definitions:

Give up (an office, power, privilege, etc.)
Accept that something undesirable cannot be avoided
Surrender oneself to another's guidance

As I look at those definitions, I see a potential
mixed bag of meaning. When one "gives up" it could
be because something else is more important. It
could also mean that the person who gives up feels
it futile to continue what s/he was doing.

There are some situations in life that are
undesirable, and yet there are very few of them
that "cannot be avoided." Many times we may feel
so trapped by our choices, that we thinking they
are unavoidable, and yet what they really are are
things that we have the ability to change -
if we are willing.

To "surrender ones' self" to another could be a
smart thing to do, or it could be a way of giving
away your personal power. Someone might know
better than you, but it's not because they say so.

It would be because you could recognize and
identify something within that matches how the
person approaches a situation. You may not totally
know or understand where the person comes from,
but there is an inner part of you that knows if
you might be taking the "easy" way out (which often
can become the more difficult way), or doing s
something that might "seem" to be a good thing
vs something that truly is.

An argument can be made that one person's
resignation is another's empowerment. On a
superficial level that is likely easier to
do than one that goes to the core and heart
of the matter. You know when you are doing
the right thing. There is an inner peace
that comes along with your choices. It
doesn't mean that everything around you will
be calm and peaceful, but there will be an
inner knowledge that what is being done is
being done for the best. You do know when
that happens. I am sure you've had moments
like that.

At the very least, you have had moments in
which you listened to another, and knew that
you hadn't done the right thing for yourself.

In the end, it is YOU who gets to decide
what is right for you, and what your
motivation is for your decisions. Interestingly,
we will make decisions with our emotions and
then back them up with our logic, so you could
probably make almost anything work for you -
for a time, at least.

One of the best keys for the best chance at
happiness and true satisfaction is to be as
aware as you can be of what you are doing
and why you are doing it. Another one would
be to recognize whether or not something is
truly working for you. At least then you
will be able to tell if you are doing something
because you want to do it, or because someone
else wants you to - or thinks you should -
do it. It likely will also help you to see
if you justifying actions only appear to
serve your interests.

It isn't always easy to look, but when you're
not happy, or feeling unsettled, and it is
more than on an occasional basis, odds are
something is going on that is telling you
to look closer. Perhaps it is time for a
change. You know when you are making a "fix"
and when you are actually doing something
that will work, and so does that part of
you that nags at you. Circumstances don't
always need to change for you to feel good
about things, sometimes a true change in
perspective will be effective.

What won't work? Settling and/or avoidance,
as sooner or later it will likely come back
to bite you in the butt

Someone once told me something about how
compromise is important to a relationship.
My response was that if a person in the
relationship feels compromised as a result,
I wouldn't necessarily agree. If, however,
both parties can agree that it is best to
make a compromise, and really feel good
about it, then yes.

A compromise between two people that leaves
either one of them feeling compromised is li
kely to eat away at the partner affected,
and ultimately the fabric of the relationship.

Fight to keep the relationship on those terms,
and you will likely only have a skeleton after
a while. The relationship will have no "meat"
left. You might be OK with that, but if you're
not, and you're feeling resigned, sounds like
you may have some work to do.

As always, I might be able to help. If you'd
like my help, just ask. Hypnosis can be great
for things like this.
 

Turmoil and Peace

Turmoil and peace often are related.

Sometimes you need some external
turmoil to bring some inner peace.

Sometimes external turmoil is
caused by a lack of inner peace.

There are times we don't want to make
waves, but at the same time, we need
to because it is time to make a change.

Change is uncomfortable, and even
more so when we fight it. You may
somehow think that you are doing
yourself (or perhaps even someone
you care about) a favor by not
making waves.

But if you are not at peace with your
life on the inside, you aren't doing
anyone any favors, and odds are sooner
or later things around you will change,
whether you want them to, or not.

It might be better to take a good,
long, hard look at things, and figure
out what it is that you do want, and
go about making changes. Things will
possibly be rocky, but I would bet
not as rocky as you might think.

However, however rocky it is, at the
other side is likely the inner peace
you've been wishing for. Life can be
challenging sometimes, but there are
times we seem to make things more
difficult for ourselves by fighting
what we already know.

In all of life there are cycles of
destruction followed by creation,
why would we ever think we were
exempt? What if we accepted that
sometimes things do - and need to -
change? Might we be happier and
better off for it?

I suspect the answer is yes, but
it doesn't really matter what the
answer is. If you are unhappy,
something has to change, if you
want to stop the unhappiness, and
there is a very good chance it
won't be any of the other people
involved.

There was a time in my life that
I knew something had to change,
but I just wanted things to work
out. I wanted the OTHER person
to see things my way. I wasn't
changing, the situation wasn't
changing, the other person wasn't
changing. I felt trapped, frustrated
and miserable - not to mention
scared - although at the time I
don't think I really acknowledged
my fears. Looking back, I'd say
my fears were a much bigger player
and decision-maker than I realized.

Eventually I took steps, as difficult
as they were, and backslid more than
once. Things finally came to a head,
and when the final step for lasting
change came, I couldn't have been
more relieved. What a difference.
As silly as it may sound, I felt like I
could breathe again. I had been holding
my breath for months, maybe even years.

That was a key time for me, and one I
often refer to. In looking back, I have
been able to move forward.

No one says you have to change, but if
you're unhappy, you may just want to.
Remember to be kind to yourself, odds
are you're doing the best you can.
While you're at it, consider looking at
turmoil as your friend, who's just
trying to help you get where you want
to be - whether you think you know where
that is, or not. :P
 

Would you go with me? | Video

I thought this video really sweet.

While I realize some men have
different sensibilities I figured
there might be some romantics
could and would appreciate the
sweetness of it.

Would love to know if I am right.
;)

Remembering who you are

I caught the end of a Twilight Zone
episode last night in which a woman
in a department store appeared to
be losing her mind.

She said she had spoken to a sales
woman who, when she saw her again,
was a mannequin.

She seemed to be scared and freaking
out as she found herself in store
after it closed.

She got in the elevator, and the
mannequin who now appeared as a
woman was assisting her to come
out of the elevator, telling her
how silly she was being.

As the two of them walked, a number
of other mannequins that seemed to
be alive joined them. The woman
who brought her from the elevator
asked her to see what she could
remember, that "they" would help
her to remember.

Slowly, and surely, the upset woman
began to recall that she has just
returned from her 30 days in the
"real" world. Apparently, the
mannequins took turns being real
for that period of time.

It made me think about what is our
reality. How do we define it? Is
the unreal so real that when we
return to who we truly are, it is
scary? Do we sometimes need help
to be reminded of who we are?

Interestingly, when she remembered
who she was, she was quite peaceful.
It also turned out that she was a
day late in her return. Could that
have added to her state? The more
we are lost and/or resist our true
selves, the more likely we are to
be anxious, upset, frustrated,
confused. The list goes on.

Consider what you have accepted as
your reality, and see how peaceful
you are about it. If you're not so
peaceful, maybe you just need some
help to remember who you are.

I could be wrong, but I suspect that
life for some is the opposite of that
episode with the wooden world of the
mannequin seeming to be the real one.

Need help? Peace?
Maybe I can be of assistance.
 

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On Changes, Focus and Belief | Video

This is a video well worth the few minutes
it will take to watch, especially if you
are contemplating change - or are in the
midst of changes.

The Taraval Tunnel

Let me know what you think.
 

Still here?

Apparently those who thought the world
was going to come to an end this week
were - in some cases - disappointed.

Apparently, for some it would have been
a relief. Those who gave up their jobs
and their possessions certainly had
their world transform, but not likely in
the way they anticipated.

It got me to thinking about what life
would be if we knew when the end would
come. What if we had some warning?
Would people act the way those who believed
did?

The fact of the matter is that we do, in
some way, have a situation just like that.

Most of us know that living to 100 is fairly
unlikely. Average life expectancy in the US
is 78.7 years, so we know the end is coming,
and barring any unforeseen circumstances,
we might anticipate that amount of time
before our world, as we know it, ceases to
exist.

It's just that we play this game that is
part denial. We act as though we have
forever, and as a child it certainly seems
that way. At the age of 5, we've lived
approx 1/15 of what might be the length of
our life. The rest of the time seems so
far away.

Many children know how best to be in the
moment, focusing on that one thing they must
have, or do, now. Their attention may
shift to "when I am older" when they realize
that they do not have the ability to do what
they want to do, thinking that being an adult
will change everything in the most magical
of ways.

I can't help but wonder if that way of
looking at things stays with us - that we
keep thinking that tomorrow will have the
answers we don't have today. So we wind up
living more for what is to come than in what
we have now. As a result, we don't truly
look at what is in front of us. We are
unwilling to see things as they are. After
all, if you don't feel like you have the
ability to change things, you have to find
a way to cope, don't you?

But the thing is...odds are you are not a
child reading this. Odds are you are an
adult who has the ability to discern things
and to make choices. The game is not over
until you take your last breath. Many things
in life may feel impossible to change, but
that is because you have yet to find an
option that you can live with better.

Sometimes it is difficult to see past where
you are because steps have to be taken for
you to be able to see other things. On the
east coast of the US, it is impossible to
see the Eiffel Tower, except in video or
image. It might as well just be a dream.

But get in your car, go to the airport, get
on a plane, fly to Paris, perhaps connect
through somewhere else, and you will be
steps closer to your target, and you will
see things you never saw before, and have
experiences impossible to have while standing
on the eastern shores of the US. When you
look back the things that looked like hurdles
will likely seem insignificant. You probably
had no idea what else was possible along the
way.

It'd be nice if we all had a genie in a bottle,
but since we don't, we have the next best
thing: our ability to make our own magic
through the choices we make.

Yeah. I know. Not the same, at all. One
takes no effort at all on your part.

I can only speculate why life is set up this
way, and there are many who have their own
ideas. But I'd say one key is to acknowledge
where you are, and get moving. Wherever you
are headed, it will take one step at a time
to get there, and I bet if you pay attention
there is some beautiful scenery along the way.

Better yet, the destination may very well be
even more beautiful than you imagined - and
it all began with that first scary step. So
good, in fact, you may even have to refrain
from kicking yourself in the butt, wondering
what took you so long to get there. :P
 

What if...?

What if...
you're not in a relationship because
you're not in a relationship?

What if...
you're not talking to your brother because
you're not talking to your brother?

What if...
you're not making more money because
you're not making more money?

What if...
you're taking the vacation because
you want to take the vacation?

What if...?

Some would believe there is something
"wrong" with you if you're not in a
relationship.

Some would give you a hard time if you're
not talking to your brother. What did
YOU do wrong?

Some would say you're not motivated,
or not working hard enough, if you're
not making more money.

Some would say it's not wise to take
that vacation for money reasons, or
maybe where you want to go is not where
you should go.

Sometimes those with the best of
intentions will tell us what to
do, when to do it, and how best to do
it, and if we don't listen - and things
aren't the way we think they should be -
then there has to be something wrong
with us.

If someone wants to be in a relationship,
and isn't, that is the only explanation
there is, isn't there? After all, we
always all get what we want, don't we,
and if we don't, we certainly have to
be standing in our own way, right?

What if...life just sometimes doesn't
seem to cooperate? What if...life has
other ideas? What if...the masterpiece
takes time to create?

I don't know about you, but I find it
very difficult to live in a world in
which our seeming ability or inability
to have something becomes a judgment
when all it might be is a "fact."

What if...we stopped to take people
where they were and just supported and
loved them instead of judging them?
I suspect then that those who don't
have something they want, and have
frustrations they don't want, would
then perhaps have a little more peace.

After all...if something isn't happening
the way they'd like it to, it doesn't
necessarily mean they're missing anything,
or need to be fixed, and your impressions
to the contrary may only add to the
unpleasant and uncomfortable mix.

This is not to say sometimes we might need
a kick in the butt, or need a change of
venue or scenery, but the person who is
in the best position to guage that is in
the life you might think you know how
best to live. Unfortunately, your life
and your desires and your circumstances
are not always going to be the same for
another, and your solution - as wonderful
as it may seem to be - may not be a
solution at all.

What if...we only sought to help when a
person sought our assistance?

What if...others allowed us to be responsible
to ourselves and our choices and allowed us
to be OK with our own disappointments, without
feeling in some way that WE were a disappointment,
too?

The fact is
sometimes things just happen.

The fact is
sometimes things don't happen.

The fact is
we may just have to be disappointed sometimes.

The fact is
we can't always have what we want,
how we want it,
with who we want it,
when we want it

and the fact is...
that odds are quite good that
despite other's judgments and
concerns, and intentions, if
who you are and what you do
works for you, then it might
just be where you need to be
right here, right now.

And, and another potential fact is...
It might just suck.

Where did we ever get the
idea that we as human beings
would know all the answers?
It seems it would be at the
same time that not knowing
all the answers, and/or not
being able to "fix" our
circumstances became a problem,
or made us one.

Maybe who you are is perfect.

Odds are good, too, that
you've been on both sides
of this fence. Perhaps this
conversation will have you
look at things a bit differently
going forward.

Most people would likely say
"love" is their motivation for
helping. If one truly loves
another, s/he will love in
spite of another's seeming
imperfections.

Of course there are extremes,
and there are exceptions,
however I'd say that there is
likely much more middle ground
than most are likely to give.

What do you think?
 

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This is another reason - by the way - that in general
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enhanced by our interactions.

Thanks as always for your interest.
 

Some Thoughts | Video

The above video is me talking about a few of the
past blog entries. Wondering what you think of
this idea. Hate it? Love it? I should do more?

Let me know what you think.
 

Doing Things Your Way

When I saw the following video, I was struck by
Adam Lambert's willingness to step into his own
personality. Given the choices he made, it was
an uncomfortable choice for many, and likely
many more who were not shown.

It made me think about those times that we have
a job to do, and it isn't always one we want to
do. How many of us can carve out a way that
suits us and get the job done? Adam made it to
the finals, so he had to be doing something right.

Those who are truest to themselves tend to stand
out and rock the boat. It isn't always being
"green," but when it's who you are, it is going
to be very difficult, if not impossible, to be
anyone else.

You're Amazing... | Video

just the way you are...

This is a cool looking video, but
more importantly the message - while
seeming to be romantic - is one that
many of us - male or female - yearn
to hear.

You are amazing. You have your quirks.
You also have your bugs. You have
your less than stellar moments. However,
in the midst of it all...

YOU are amazing.

Many Paths

Sometimes in life it is easy to think that
there should be one clear-cut path for
everyone to take. It certainly would
be much simpler, wouldn't it? We'd all
know what to expect, because everyone would
be following the same path, at the same
speed. Life would look very much like the
image on the left.


Fortunately, or unfortunately, life it much
more like the image on the right. There is
one point of origin that we all come from,
but we can go off on many divergent paths,
sometimes slower than others, and sometimes
crossing over others for a moment.

It is seemingly much more chaotic than the
simplicity of the image on the left. At
the same time, I would venture a guess that
the reason it seems so chaotic is because
instead of focusing on our own path and life,
we are often busy gauging what another is doing,
some even spending energy trying to get others
to conform.

What if we could all be more present in, and
focused on, our own lives? Might our lives
feel more like the image on the left?

What do you think?
 

Are you one of those asleep? | Quote

If you want to make your dreams come true,
the first thing you have to do is wake up.

~J.M. Power

Are you one of those asleep?
 

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Sometimes life doesn't smell like roses, or taste like cherries...

and sometimes it can be pretty darn bittersweet.

Often people talk a good game when desired
relationships don't materialize: "she wasn't
the right one for you," "next time will be
better," "he didn't appreciate you," on and
on and on. Sometimes we'll even tell ourselves
those refrains to make ourselves feel better.

We lead with our emotions, and then follow up
with the logic that makes us feel good about
what just happened.

I had an experience with someone recently
that was beautiful, sweet, and sad all
rolled into one. I got to see tremendous
beauty in what was given me - albeit for a
relatively short time. And because it was
so beautiful, the loss of it was painful.

The person involved didn't want to hurt me,
but it was in some way inevitable, I suppose,
given the circumstances, but it was something
I willingly, cautiously, and optimistically
walked into.

For a long time the person didn't want
to talk to me, afraid to hurt me more.
What they didn't realize was that -
for me - the silence was much more painful.
There is a sense of relief and freedom
that I now have that I didn't before
our conversation.

If you think you are doing a person a
favor by being silent, you may want
to think again. Not everyone will be
like me, but the opportunity to talk
provides something the silence does not.

I can't "blame" the person, or even get mad.
I care too much about the person to do that,
and that is what is so beautiful for me
about this situation. I am able to see the
beauty in the midst of the pain.

Would I rather be pain free? Absolutely!
But life is rarely without its bumps and
issues. It seems we too often want smooth
sailing and things to magically happen,
forgetting that things often have a mind
of their own - which doesn't correspond
with our timetable or desires.

Life is about choice, and we have countless
opportunities to make choices, even when
we don't acknowledge them. For many, a
natural reaction to my situation would
have been much more devastating. For me,
I choose to focus on the good, instead of
the sad, even though a part of me is indeed
sad. At the same time, I feel amazingly
empowered, and feel freer in regard to
this situation than I have in a long time.

If you are able to give a person their
space to be themselves, it is an incredible
gift that you give, and a most unselfish
one, if it happens to disagree with what
you want. It won't be easy, especially
if you care, but forcing the issue can be
detrimental to what you want any way.

I share this not so much to say, "look
at how great I am," but rather as a
testament to how life at times can
truly suck, but how much it sucks in
our experience truly is a choice we make.

It is a choice made much easier when it
has a foundation AND when there is a
clear intent and purpose. If you truly
love someone, and it's not about what
you get, choices, even if unpleasant, are
made easier.

My situation is made better by the
acknowledgment that we sometimes are
only handed the sampler, and that is
all we get.

My gratitude flows, and...

It still sucks. Wanting more that you
can have always does. But that is
part of the beauty - at least you had
something as great as your desire for more,
and THAT is where my focus will be -
most of the time, and when it's not,
*sigh* oh well.

I hope you never have to experience
what I did. At the same time, it is one
of the most beautiful experiences I have
had in my life.

 

Loving Unconditionally

I once lived with someone who believed
that in order for there to be love,
it had to look, feel, and be a certain
way.

I didn't agree.

I also didn't know how much I actually
knew at the time because at the time
I had more a "feeling" than anything
to really back up what I felt.

I used to tell him I loved him - and
it didn't matter what he did, or
didn't do. There was a lot that I
didn't like of what he did and he
didn't do, but I was as clear as I
could be at the time that I did,
indeed, love him.

While I was clear that he didn't have
the same way of looking at things,
as it seemed his "love" for me waivered
by how I was or wasn't, what I didn't
get for a long time was that I didn't
love myself in equal measure.

Why do I say this?

Because we were together much longer
than we should have been. If I had
loved myself more, I wouldn't have
let my love for him keep me in a
relationship that did not work.

Of course, there was more to it than
"just" the idea of love, and its
definition, but looking back I can
see it much more clearly.

Sometimes people can not be the way
we would like or need them to be,
and we can love them any way. But,
it does not mean we need to love
them in a relationship that denies
us of who we are, or what we need.

Sometimes the greatest gift of love
for ourselves and/or another is to
acknowledge the love and create a
new way to love, which may or may
not be a relationship (which,
incidentally, holds true for any
type of relationship, intimate, or not.)

Of course, opinions will vary on this,
and there will be a whole bunch of
"buts" and considerations. However,
consider that there may be a hallow
foundation in a relationship in which
either or both of its parties deny
themselves, and sooner or later -
depending on the overall picture -
you may feel the collapse, which could
a lot worse than walking away intentionally.
 

What do you Value?

Dave Elliott has a model of our needs
that includes the following:


I don't know about you, but it is
interesting to see human needs
in this way. I find there are
many things that go unnamed and
unidentified, and I think it's
cool when they can be recognized
because then we are less at the
effect of them.

Take a look at the list. Where
do you think your most important
needs stem from? You may notice
that the quality of the needs
change from the bottom to the top,
with the bottom being much more
restrictive and limited than what
is at the top.

When your need is to have
predictability, the focus is
much more on you. When your
need is for providing service
to another, as you can tell,
the focus is quite different,
and will have a different
effect.

When you are controlled by a
need, it is because somewhere
along the line you have
overvalued it.

As with most things, whether
or not something "works" for
you is key. There is no
inherent judgment in an
overvaluation, but rather
an observation. If you are
controlled by something, and
have an experience you don't
want to be having, then it is
worth considering making some
changes.

If you find that you value
Predictability, you may find
that the things you want will
be out of your reach. IF that
is the case, it may be time
to take different actions to
get different results.

Of course, we as human beings
just love our homeostasis, so
to say it is challenging to
do that might be an understatement.
However, when you let yourself
be aware of where you are in
relation to where you want to
be, you can begin to take actions
that will allow your value system
to shift, and allow for different
actions.

It may be obvious to point this
out, but going up or down the
list is possible. Who you are can
be altered by what you do, and
often we will find ourselves never
straying too far from who we
perceive ourselves to be. Stretches
take work, and those who want things
to be easy will find that the only
thing that is easy is treading water.

Although, having said that, when we
feel a need to make a change, and
we don't, the ability to tread water
without even thinking may be there,
but there may be a tendency to deny
a desire because it means getting
from here to there, and we don't
know how to make that happen. It
also may mean going in circles, in
frustration.

We may want to stay put, but the
irony is we have little patience
with ourselves when we do, and it
takes more and more to keep our
world intact, as we lose more and
more of ourselves, ironically
working quite hard to maintain
our illusions. "I don't really
want that any way."

The more you feel the need to fight
to keep what you know, the more
possible it is that you are due
for a change that you are resisting.
Should you choose to allow the change,
and lower your resistance, you may
find that you have so much more energy
and feel so much more free. The
inner battle can be exhausting -
mentally, physically, emotionally.

The best thing you can do for yourself
is love yourself, wherever you are
in regard to your values. You are
there for a reason, and unconsciously,
you think it's a good one. But...

That doesn't mean you need to stay
there. Don't know how to get where
you want to be? I might be able to
help. Sometimes it helps to have
another's perspective and input to
help clarify what we already suspect
or know, or to have another hold our
hand as we take that next step, not
as a sign of weakness, but rather
as an acknowledgment of what another
might bring to our experience of
ourselves and our life.

One last thing: Given what you know
of those you interact with, you
can tell by who they are, what THEY
value. Interact with them from that
place - without judgment - and you
will likely have better success
relating to them.

As always, curious to hear YOUR
thoughts.
 

True Blue | Hypnotic Imagery | Eyes

Yes Isis | Gif

Can Men & Women Be Friends?

I was speaking with someone today who
mentioned the film When Harry Met Sally.
In the film Harry, played by Billy
Crystal, tells Sally, played by Meg
Ryan, that it is impossible for men
and women to be friends because men
are always sexually interested in women.

I think it is an interesting question,
and also an interesting analysis and
conclusion. I say this because it
would seem that sexual attraction "has"
to have an inevitable conclusion/action,
at least according to some.

Does an attraction have to be acted
upon? I guess that depends on the
person you talk to, and what their
perspective is. And, if it is not
acted upon, where are the parties
involved left?

Some are unable to have a dynamic of
any type if the type that they want
is unavailable (all or nothing principle).
The fact is that if the two parties
are able and willing to be friends,
the possibility to be friends exists.
It may not be the easiest thing to do,
as nature may have other designs, but
it depends on what is at the core of the
relationship that is a friendship.

If the core is respect and love, a
friendship of any type is one that
will be rewarding no matter how you
slice it. Can it suck? Absolutely.
At one point Sally's feelings get
hurt, and she tells Harry she really
wants to hate him.

There is a fine line that can be
walked in any dynamic between two
people, some more tricky than others.
It all depends what is important to
you, and if you love and respect the
other person, you will allow for
the relationship to take shape in
any way that is supportive of both
of you.

If there is a lack of love and/or
respect, then it is a whole different
ballgame, likely with much different
expectations, actions, and results.

One thing does not necessarily mean
another thing. When we start to
make things mean something (attraction=
a necessity to act on it) is when we
will likely find ourselves in trouble.

I would think that lust is the biggest
troublemaker of all, as it has no
foundation on which to stand when there
is nothing else to support it.

Lusting after someone that you love
and respect, while having love and
respect for yourself is very different
than going after someone just because
your libido is speaking volumes.

Matters of the heart are never easy
to navigate, as they rarely are on
a straight and narrow path. That is
why knowing who you are at the core
will help to guide you in times of
difficulty. Just be sure that the
direction you take is your own, and
not those of society, family, friends.

In general, I'd say that when you
find your head and heart at odds,
it is the heart that speaks from
the core of who you are, and it
is the head that tells you things
as they should be - according to
what others believe.

Following your heart won't be the
easiest thing you'll ever do at
times - but it likely will be the
most rewarding. Some times the
challenge to be friends in the
midst of attraction is one worth
hurdling. If nothing else, it
might be more likely to withstand
the test of time and other challenges.

And, then again...who the heck knows
what's best for you - other than you?
:P
 

The Soul of Sex

"The person who knows only the compulsions
of sex has never experienced its soul."

- Thomas Moore
Soul Mates
Honoring the Mysteries of Love and Relationship

There have been times I have used hypnosis
erotically for someone I have been intimate
with. As wonderful as it was, there were
times I didn't want it to be a part of our
dynamic.

Some might wonder why that is, as for some
it would be a fantasy come true to be always,
ever wrapped up within a hypnotic, erotic
web of pleasure.

For me, it has something to do with what
Thomas Moore refers to. In some way, hypnotic
suggestion can remove a person from being
truly in touch with one's self, one's soul.

There is nothing - in my mind - that is more
beautiful, amazing or profound than connecting
with someone in an unfiltered way, and that
includes the effect of best hypnotic suggestion
you've ever felt.

For those who have had the experience, I am
sure you must know what I am talking about.
For those who haven't, consider that it might
be something beautiful to aspire to.

Just so you know, I am not saying that one should
be an absolute substitute for the other, but
rather that one complement the other, creating a
greater wealth of choices to choose from. As a
result it creates even more opportunity for
pleasure, as I would suggest that the pleasure of
compulsions can be rather one-sided, while the
pleasure of the soul is amplified because of the
connection it shares with another.

There is someone that I found out was going into
trance every time he masturbated. He thought it
was a good thing - until I stopped him from doing it.

He went from never remembering what was happening,
or the pleasure he felt to being fully aware, and
loved being able to know how good what he was doing
felt. He thanked me for making the change.

It can be similar when you get caught up in the
feelings of triggers. It is almost something that
is separate from you. If you take a step back,
you can be more aware of what is happening, and
make it even better as a result. Connection is
a pleasure key, even if it is "just" connecting
with yourself.

Don't believe me? Try it for yourself. For
anyone who sees sex as an escape, this might be
an intimidating suggestion. It will threaten
what appears to be a safety net. It is the
vulnerability of the approach that helps to bring
about the "reward." It might seem ironic that
out of trance you are more vulnerable, but if
you think about it, it will likely make sense.
You are much less vulnerable when it is perceived
that you are without a choice than when the choice
is yours to make.

If you aren't sure how to do this, feel free to
ask me about it. You really might be surprised
at just how amazing it could be.

Have a great night.
 

She Charms, Mesmerizes & Enchants | Wallpaper

This is very special wallpaper.
It is with a comic strip effect and
- more importantly - you get to see me
in a leather dress that laces up the front.
AND you get to see something you don't
usually get to see...my full torso.
That is why this is for "serious"
good boys ONLY.

1 Image JPG | $10.00

 

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You can be inspired by me regularly.

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Appreciation | Video

I wonder if southern women enjoy the accent of a
southern man. I find that oftentimes we are
fascinated by what we do not have immediate
access to. I know of someone in California who
just loves the accent of a New "Yawk" City area
woman.

There are two accents that I absolutely adore,
and if you want to know what they are, you'll
need to ask.

In the meantime, I just discovered this song
and video today, and I suspect that it can be
enjoyed on a few levels...especially if you
substitute "your man" with something else.

See what you think.


 

Accept NO Copycats

Recently I wrote about a Copycat, and
when Blogger had issues recently, it
seemed to disappear.

For anyone who isn't aware, there is
another hypnotist going by the name
of Isis, just slightly different than
what I use.

Some have been confused. I have even
been accused of doing some things I
would never do. It's not a good
thing, as she is very much the
antithesis of who I am. Please be
sure to never confuse her with the
AUTHENTIC and the ORIGINAL,
Isis The Enchantress.

For more info, please read here.
 

How I got started as an Erotic Hypnotist (Video Edition)

Previously I wrote about how I got started,
and today I decided to create a video version.


If you would like for me to answer a question this way,
ask it below in the comments section, and I'll give
you a free image file of your choice if I use your
question in a future video.

Curious about the image? YT has been giving me grief
with any even remotely erotic image I use, so I used
something that should be considered "safe." :P

I hope you're having a great weekend.
 

Storm Warning | Wallpaper

Corkscrew curls,
long hair,
crochet top,
cleavage,
hypnotic pendant

Storm's coming...
ready for it?

1024x768 | 1 Image JPG | $6.00

 

Feeling Wobbly?

If you are feeling wobbly, you might want to
consider that you don't have a firm foundation
in place to hold you up.


You could potentially look at the universe
of you as four circles, the first of which
is Self Awareness. Knowing yourself is an
important foundation piece for who you are
and who you want to be.

If there is a shaky self awareness, you
will have a shaky foundation on which you
are built. Self awareness is one of those
things that isn't always easy, and many
times is glossed over.

The only problem is that when you gloss
it over you can run into difficulties
as you don't know what you are building
upon.

After you have the self awareness, it
helps you to identify your needs, values,
and beliefs which further enhances your
foundation. If you don't know who you
are, others will define these for you -
family, friends, bosses, hypnotists...
and you might feel lost, as what you
think you should do is based on nothing
more than someone else's desires for you.

When you know what your beliefs, values,
and needs are, then you are better able
to explore options and take actions that
suit who you are. There is confidence
and conviction. You know what you are
doing, without confusion.

We take actions all of the time, but if
they're not based on our values and beliefs
which are based on a self awareness, the
actions, and our life in general may feel
quite hollow.

Once you know yourself, are clear about
your values and beliefs, know the best
actions to take, then you can even step
up your game by asking questions that
empower you, and help you decide what
best is next.

Often people wonder what is next, and don't
have a clue, or much of one, because the
foundation hasn't been set.

The clearer you are, the firmer the foundation,
the better the "build" of who you are. The
less you are willing to look at things
from the start, the more likely your world
will feel like it is imploding when something
seems to go wrong, and worse yet, you'll
wonder why. You may not even know what to do,
as you have nothing to go back to.

The best thing you can do for yourself is
take the steps to figure out who you are;
it will give you a place to refer to in a
time of need and help you get to wherever
it is you might like to go. We all want to
get somewhere, but you'd probably agree that
all maps don't take you to all places. The
best map to get you where you want to go
comes from within you, and it has a great
guidance system - if you follow its directions.
It'll also get you back on track, if you get
lost.

Without it, you might just feel like you are
going around in circles.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
Want help creating clarity? I can help.

Have a great night.
 

"Real" World Effect

Recently someone wrote me asking if I might
do something "unusual." It turned out he
was asking for something mainstreamy: he
wanted some assistance for something more
personal and non-erotic.

I wrote back to him and explained that
- despite what he may think - it is not
unusual at all. I also said with a wink
that he must not have read much of my blog.

I have often said that what makes hypnosis
good for the erotic is also what makes it
equally delicious in real world situations.

Not everyone wants it, and some see it only
in an erotic context, a context that doesn't
fit and isn't one to be messed with.

However, those who are open to the possibilities
often find that one can seamlessly bring the
two together. Well, at least THIS one can. ;)

I recently did something with one of my callers
that is having a profound effect in regard to
his work. At first it was so subtle, he didn't
even realize what was occurring. That is one
of the beautiful things about hypnosis (when
it isn't used in a way that hurts someone).

Good hypnosis becomes who you are and not what
you do. When it becomes who you are, you often
are unable to distinguish the difference.

Here is what this particular caller shared with me:

"I want to let you know how strongly the session you did with me to help me focus and be more confident in my decisions and leadership has impacted my life at work. I did not even realize how much you must have covered in our session but the difference is clear. I am more concise and definitive in my decision making. I can see among the others with whom I work an even higher level of confidence in what I suggest or direct that they do. I seem so confident that it makes them more confident and appreciative of the leadership I provide. I am now playing a more visible and influential role within the Senior Leadership Team. It's ironic but in surrendering to Isis, I am becoming a stronger leader.

Thank you for what you have done for me Isis. It is far more than I could have hoped for. Under your continued influence I have no doubt that I will only become a better and increasingly influential and successful leader."

For anyone wondering about the "surrender,"
get to know me better to know what that
means in my world. You might just be
surprised.

Have a great day!
 

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This is your chance to have more of me,
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As a result, you will likely feel
pretty darn awesome, and being
the best that you can be...
whether it's being my good boy
or "just" doing the right thing
for yourself.

For $35.00 per month,
you will receive the following:

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There may be other things as well,
and this offer can change from
month to month. I will advise
you of any changes in advance.

Membership for everyone begins
on the 20th of the month and
ends on the 19th of the following
month.

Want to join after the 20th?
You will need to wait til next month
to participate.

My intention for this program is to
reinforce the work we do, your triggers,
how you feel about me, what you do for
yourself, and who knows what else?

However, the "what else" will always
remain consistent and true to who I am.
So if you appreciate how I do things,
you will most certainly appreciate
what I am creating with this program.

Any questions? Please ask.
 

Does Judging Another Lead to Self Destructive Behavior?

I just read an article about how one
might be able to spot those who want
to do us harm by the type of watch
they wear. According to the article,
the reasoning has something to do
with certain connections made by
investigators.

It made me think about a Twilight
Zone episode that I just recently
watched. In the episode, a street
in America is going about their
business, when it seems an asteroid
flies over, although no one is sure
what it truly is.

Odd things start to happen. Cars
won't start, lights won't light,
phones won't work.

There is a kid on the street who
tells everyone what "they" - the
aliens - want, according to the
stories. "They" don't want anyone,
but those sent down previously who
look like humans, to leave.

At first, what he said is laughed
off. But then one of the neighbors
is trying to start his car. He
can't seem to, but then suddenly
it starts, when he is no where near
it. And, then, in a bit it shuts
off in an equally mysterious manner.

Everyone else begins to think that
he must be the alien. After all,
nothing works for anyone else, so
if it works for him, then he must
be the alien.

Watching it I couldn't help but
think why would an alien want to
draw attention to himself in such
an obvious way...but it is apparent
that no one is rationally considering
that possibility.

As the day goes by, those who are
affected seem to be more and more
willing to look for things in any
of those who live on the street
that would be a reason to believe
THEY are the alien.

The guy whose car wouldn't start
also seemed to have an insomnia
problem, so he would sometimes at
night come outside and stare at
the sky...of course THAT had to
mean something.

The situation keeps escalating,
as lights in different people's
homes flicker on and off, and
as it does, the camera pans
back, and you see two speaking.
One is explaining to the other
that the events that have just
occurred have happened every
time they have set up the same
conditions. Essentially, it is
explained, that humans will
ultimately destroy themselves.

We may not know if the type of
watch someone wears is a "sign"
of bad things, but what we do
know is that if we're not
careful, our fears will have
us be reactive to the point that
we won't have to worry about
someone else destroying us, we
will destroy ourselves first.

Nothing has any meaning, except
for the meaning we give it. It
can be both helpful (stove=hot=
burn) and detrimental, depending
on the circumstance.

This applies to all types of
things and situations, and to
something as simple as an
argument with a loved one.

How often do our assessments
and interpretations wind up
hurting us more than helping?

It may seem we are logically
protecting ourselves, but if
were not careful that protection
system will help us self destruct.

Consider that the next time you
judge someone a certain way by
the way they tie their shoelace
or, even worse, have shoes without
laces.

I realize I may be oversimplifying,
but it sadly may not be too far
from some of the scenarios that
are all too real.

As always, just a little
something to consider and,
interested in hearing your
thoughts.
 

Submit to the Pleasure of Isis | Video

So...once upon a time I had a grainy video
on YouTube that was loved by the thousands -
and it was banned.

It was short and sweet,
and perfect for full screen viewing and looping.
Even in its grainy form,
those who watched were
affected in ways that they enjoyed,
often beyond words.

I have always had a crystal clear,
high resolution file,
but never made it easily accessible - until now.



Now you can get it for yourself,
with just a click.
This is a MUST HAVE for anyone
who enjoys my work.

To help your decision,
I made a small version
for you to check out first.
If that is enough for you, great,
however, I promise you you really
should want more - and you
should definitely get the bigger one.

This is one case that
BIGGER is definitely better.

It will be so worth it. If it turns out
I am wrong, let me know, and we'll work
out something that makes it worth your while.

So...why wait? You know I am usually
right about these things...don't you?


 

This should be good for a laugh | Video

Let me know if it brings a smile to your face.

 

A Kissing Machine?

I just saw this news about a Kissing Machine.

While it seems to have practical application,
I still can't help but wonder if its a good
thing.

Want to feel a kiss? Want to kiss better?
I bet all you'd have to do is be hypnotized.

Hey...if you'd be willing to buy a machine,
it'd be worth a shot, don't you think?
 

Are you on Twitter?

I, myself, have been inconsistent with it.

However, I noticed today that @niteflirtcs
says they're going to be offering an
exclusive promotion to those who follow
them. Apparently it supposed to happen today.

Maybe it is worth checking out?
 

You're a Real Person? What a Coincidence...

So am I!

There is something about this virtual world that
we have created that seems to depersonalize
relationships and objectify people.

It is an odd thing, given that all of this stuff
we do has the ability to truly connect us in
ways never before possible.

There would have been a time that you and I
could never have "met." You would have been
in Wisconsin, and I would have been in Texas,
and the only way we might have even heard of
the other is if one of us made the news, and
the other was fortunate enough to have a
television on which to watch it, and that
is only in more recent history. Go back
further, and the odds of us even knowing that
the other existed, short of one of us being
an Alexander, were likely to be astronomical.

So why do I bring this up?

Lately I have told some people that even if
they decide not to call for hypnosis, I would
still welcome them saying "hey" once in a
while. I told them that I always think about
those I connect with.

I can practically guarantee you that if you
and I spoke once at length, or even just a
few times, odds are I remember something
about you and that conversation.

I suspect some think I am like the check out
person at the grocery store. What do they
care if they see you beyond today? Odds are
these days, they may even be barely aware
that you're there (another blog perhaps?),
and know nothing of you. They likely don't
know if you're married, have kids, are
travelling for business, just bought a new
car, have a pet...

I may not know all of those things, either,
but there is a good chance I may know a
couple, and if you tell me you're about to
go to Europe on business, I will likely
wonder at some point how the trip went.
If I hear news about something happening
in Europe, I will wonder if you are anywhere
near what is happening, and hope that wherever
it is, you are safe.

While it may sound like I could be caught up
in thoughts of you for hours, rest assured,
I am not, but that doesn't mean you won't
cross my mind.

It could be that I am just a different type
of person, as every job I have ever had in
a retail type of environment, I would have
regulars who I would speak to, and be
conversational with, as time allowed. I
even got gifts from a few.

I truly do care about those I interact with,
and speak to. I don't always know what to
do with it, and it isn't always in my best
interest to, but it just seems to be in the
nature of who I am.

This could be a really good thing for you,
as it means I won't treat you like a mindless
vessel waiting for me to fill you up.

At the same time, I know that the hypnotic
fetish world seems to thrive on the antithesis
of who I am, so it may just show you that I
am not the right person for you.

I would rather take what you got and tweak it,
and discover who you are than to empty you
out and make you into some mindless clone or
drone. Maybe you have something to offer me
that I could never have known about, and if
I take that away from you, then I would most
assuredly be missing out on something special.

Some see me as a Goddess. I'd like to think
that if that is the case, then I am the best
of what a Goddess has to offer. I'd like to
think that I can inspire someone to be the
best of who they are.

I might just be silly. But that's OK, as
I am more than used to it by now. It isn't
always easy to feel like I am going against
the predominant tide. However, the beauty
is that when you join me, neither one of
us will care what is going on "out there,"
and you'll be feeling really good "in there."
 

Let the Sun Shine In | Video

There used to be someone in my life that
I called "Sunshine."

That person did so much for me. Our
interactions were soul full, and
inspirational, and it was an amazing
connection that we shared.

I am reminded of this today, as this
song was going through my head.



The song reminds me of the bittersweet
feeling of the memories, as that is
all I now have, but it is also a
reminder to allow others to be my
sunshine, and to let them into my
heart and world as well.

Sometimes when things don't work out
as we would like, it is all too easy
to give up, abandon ship, and close
ourselves off. Let this song be a
reminder to you, as well.

I am certain that we can all have
lots of sun shining in our lives
through the gifts of those who are
in them - whether it is for a
moment, or a lifetime.

Have a great night.
 

Reflection of life in death

Today I was referred to the
blog of Derek K. Miller,
a man I had never even known.

From what I can tell,
he was likely a man to know.

He was dying of cancer, and
had written his last blog,
to be posted once he passed
away.

He said many things in that
post, but one that stood out
to me was:

"I haven't gone to a better place, or a worse one. I haven't gone anyplace, because Derek doesn't exist anymore. As soon as my body stopped functioning, and the neurons in my brain ceased firing, I made a remarkable transformation: from a living organism to a corpse, like a flower or a mouse that didn't make it through a particularly frosty night. The evidence is clear that once I died, it was over."

No matter what you believe
happens when we die, there
is one thing that is certain:
the body we used ceases to be
functional or available.

That means that the unique
expression of who you are
and what you have to offer
the world also ceases to
exist.

Sadly, I think there are some
who check out early - their
body is still here, but their
mind has gone elsewhere.

I see those who get lost in
the fetish of hypnosis
because it can be their
"happy place." It is easier
to be there than it is to be
in their body, living their
life.

Whether you want to recognize
it, or not, whether you want
to appreciate it, or not,
whether you believe it, or
not, there are things that
are perfect and special about
who you are.

This is a once in a lifetime
opportunity to utilize those
things that make you, you
and for you to have the best
possible life and experiences
with the rental you've been
given.

In times of difficulty, it
is hard to see how that might
be possible. You may be too
busy judging yourself, or
kicking yourself for things
you thought should have been
some other way.

Who knows what is "supposed"
to be? I don't know that
there is a guide book anywhere,
although there are times I wish
there was so I could take a peek,
even if I couldn't know everything.

But since there is none that is
universally known of (some may
say the Bible, or some other
religious book, but that still
has a air of mystery and the
unknown, so this is not the
type of guide book to which
I refer), the best we can do
is the best we can do at any
given moment with what we have
available. And - sometimes -
there may be some slim pickings.

At the same time, we have much
that is available to us, if
we are only willing to look
and be willing to jump into
the unknown, and be uncomfortable.

There is great wealth in the
person that is you. I know
there is. That is why you
will always find me respecting
the core of you, and find that
I am unwilling to "overwrite"
the person that you are.

You may think it a good idea,
but I guarantee you that a
better one is to discover how
the you that you've come to be
can find its best expression
in the world.

Given the way things are right
now...there truly is no better
time. The more people check out,
the less likely we are to get
ourselves out of this mess.

I know it can suck. I am right
there with you...but we can do
it together. Just say the word.

with Lots of Love,
Isis
 

The Difference Between Construction & Creation

“The whole difference between
construction and creation
is exactly this: that a thing
constructed can only be loved
after it is constructed; but
a thing created is loved
before it exists.”
- Charles Dickens

I love this quote. I think
it speaks to what is at the
core of a person. We can be
"made" to love things, but
what matters most are those
things that already are a
part of who we are.
 

Random Thought

Ever notice how easily
we focus on others and
judge their actions as
inferior when we doubt
and question the things
we believe and do?
 

Nothing is Set in Stone

Though no one can go back
and make a brand new start,
anyone can start from now
and make a brand new ending.
~Author Unknown

A reminder that nothing is
set in stone. Every moment
is an opportunity to create.

And...

Even if it is set in stone,
stone can crumble, it can
break.

It is not indestructible.

Sometimes destruction is a
necessary part of construction.
 

Quote on Problems & Dreams

"Don't be pushed by your problems,
be led by your dreams."
- Les Brown

(It's all about the focus you have).
 

Addendum

In case you already read my previous
blog entry, and are on to new and
exciting things, I wanted to let you
know that I edited it slightly.

It now ends with this:

(There's no "right" or "wrong"
answer, as there may be times you
want to please someone else, even
if it's not what you want. But by
choosing the answer over just going
with it by default will leave you
feeling better overall.

How you answer the question will
help you choose what to do next.)

Have a great week!
 

Why knowing what is important is important...

In what amounts to "old" news (abut 2 weeks
ancient, actually) is what happened with
Miss Maine 2011, Emily Johnson.

She apparently abdicated her crown and
responsibilities because she had previous
plans for the weekend that the Miss USA
pageant was rescheduled to: her sister's
wedding.

Apparently there are many who are "disappointed"
in her choice not to fulfill her obligation.

While I understand that there are times that
people will count on us for something, there
are times that we will be unable to fulfill
their expectations.

Sometimes it will be for reasons that might
seem less than positive, and other times it
might be a case where someone just knows that
what they are doing is the right thing for
them to do.

Any time someone is disappointed, there will
be judgment and reasons to do what you
committed to. However, in some cases when
things happen to change the dynamic of your
commitment, it would be important to know
what is important to you so you will know
how best to proceed, and how to act when
those around you want you to act in a
potentially different way than you want to.

In general, it is good to be clear about
what is at the core of who you and and what
you want. When you are aware, it becomes
your Guidance System. When you aren't aware,
look to others, or are unwilling to listen,
you will likely perceive disappointment,
but it will more likely come from that
voice inside. You will also be more likely
to feel confused and unclear about what to
do, as well as have the associated feelings
that go with that.

It isn't often (ever?) easy to take a
stand, but I give those of you who are
reading this and are willing to be clear,
and to act on your convictions, big time
credit. You may or may not know where
you want to go, but you'll always know
if the things you are doing are getting
you any closer to being there. You
will also always know where you don't
want to be, so actions can be guided
that way, as well.

Perhaps there was a compromise of some
sort to be struck here, but you can
bet that if she had chosen the pageant
over her sister/family, there would
have been different types of judgments.

You'll never please everyone around
you, and trying is usually an unfruitful
task. While you are busy trying to
please them, consider that if you
were to do what works best for you, odds
are good you would be of better benefit
to those around you than if you bent to
their desires and/or manipulations.

It may not always be the case, but
if in the end only one of you will
feel OK with the outcome, who would
you want it to be? You? Or them?

(There's no "right" or "wrong"
answer, as there may be times you
want to please someone else, even
if it's not what you want. But by
choosing the answer over just going
with it by default will leave you
feeling better overall.

How you answer the question will
help you choose what to do next.)
 

I have been accused...

of being too caring.

(Note: Prior to beginning this blog, I
had a false start with another one. This
is an entry that I wrote in 2008).

Sometimes how I am seems to be a problem
for some of those that I speak with. I
have even received negative feedback in
the past for the fact that I am doing
anything but jumping in and hypnotizing
someone.

However, occasionally, it is appreciated -
and better yet, in a public way. Why is
public better? Because I think it is
important that those who call me know what
they are "getting into." If someone
actually takes the time to spend time with
this blog, and the other things that I have
available, they should have a pretty good
sense of who I am before they ever call.

Today I had one such call. He was such a
pleasure to speak with, and wasn't jumping
into our call. He wanted to know what there
was to know, and obviously found the money
and time spent of value. The time spent
with him was more than with most, however
it was perfect for him.

Please note that every call and every
caller is unique. I will approach different
people different ways, however, at the core
is my commitment that everyone who calls me
gets the best and safest possible experience
with me AND with erotic hypnosis in general.

Here is what he wrote:
"In our first call Isis made me
feel very comfortable,
speaking at length about what
we would be doing,
what kind of session
I'd like to experience, etc.
Unfortunately we were cut off
before any actual hypnosis
took place, but it was still one of
the best experiences I've had.
While Isis' previews and recordings
certainly give you a good idea
of how hypnotic she can be
(as well as erotic) they don't
prepare you for how
caring and attentive she is.
She took the time to get to know me,
to familiarize herself with me and
then suggested what might be
the best path to explore.
A very classy lady. It was my pleasure
to speak with her and I look
forward to doing so again."
(to Cal-L: Thank you for your open
minded approach, and your feedback,
it is always appreciated - I look
forward to our next call)

To everyone else...thanks for reading,
and I look forward to our next call, too!
There is never any doubt in my mind
that I DO have the BEST callers.

--

Isis

Legs MMM | MP3

Almost 9 minute MP3 with bonus
complementary picture of my legs
and the bottom of a beautiful shiny/lacey slip
(see Lacey Pleasures for the top).

You'll love getting lost in my legs.
This MP3 is for those who would
love to be "mine."

It is a very soft MP3,
and one of my originals*:
one that is often appreciated,
especially by leg lovers.

You may enjoy this recording if
I have never hypno'd you, however
I HIGHLY recommend a live session
to enjoy what it has to offer
BEFORE purchase, as it was not
designed for those who have not
have had the pleasure of a session with me yet.

If you already own the MP3, and
would like the image, email me on
NF, and once I confirm purchase,
I will give you the file for free.

This a SPECIAL OFFER, as the MP3
itself is usually $10.50. It may
be limited. I haven't decided yet.
So...if
you want to take advantage of the offer,
no time like the present.

*as an "original" sound quality is
clear, but imperfect. However that
should never keep you from enjoying
the sound of my voice.

Almost 9 minutes long | 2 Files MP3 + Bonus JPG | $14.00 $10.50 $9.95

 

Come into the Light | Wallpaper

Black lacey top pulled up to
show cleavage with
lacey top of a silken slip.
You'll love this full screened.
(Same slip of Lacey Pleasures).

1024x768 | 1 Image JPG | $6.00