"Skip the Orgasm"

Hey there :)  So glad to have your attention.  :P

I hope this finds you well.

I miss writing here on a regular basis, and
am wondering who might also be missing
my regular contributions.

Given what is going on in my life, there
are a number of things that are up in the
air.  At the same time, I have been doing
sessions with those who have the ability
to be flexible, and the desire to continue
with me.

So if that is you, and you have been
staying away or silent...you should get
in touch with me so we can see what
might be created.

At the same time, I should tell you that
I am looking at what is next.  As I don't
really know yet what that is, I can't tell
you.  At the same time, there is a turn in
the road that aligns with much of who I
am.  If you read my blog closely enough,
you are likely to have a hint of what that
could mean.

I am a great believer in what hypnosis
has to offer people.  At the same time,
I am saddened by what it can do in non-
productive ways, too.  I realize that
people need escapes, but what I am not
sure is that they always realize what they
are getting themselves into.

A temporary escape is one thing.  A
lifelong one is another.

I want to be able to work with people
who might be scared of erotic hypnosis
because of what they see from those who
are into it who are also dominant or
submissive.  There is a lot to enjoy
personally, or with a partner.

Just to be clear, this is in addition to those
I do work with, who consider themselves
submissive.  There is a lot of opportunity
with flexibility.  I believe that hypnosis
should never take away from who a person
is, but add to them.

I have never been one for humiliation or
degradation.  I have never been one to
be into pain (physical, or otherwise).
At the same time, life is about learning
and what better way than with contrasts?
(Which is to say that I am open to certain
types of things - depending on the person
and the circumstance.)

On top of everything, I do not consider
myself a Domme.  Rather, I play the role.
For some, that means they would rather
go elsewhere, and it is likely a good choice
on their part.

As for others, my gentle caring, leading
style that can be "dominant," or at the
very least controlling, can be the perfect
choice for a person looking to explore
without having to make a lifelong
commitment, or fearing the consequences
of their interest taking over their life.

I get how powerful pleasure can be.  I
get how wonderful the rush must be of
those wonderful hormones when those
buttons are pushed.  At the same time,
consider that there are other things in
your life that might be minimized or
affected by those diversions.

If you are OK with it, then it *might*
be OK.  I used to say if you were OK,
it was OK.  The problem can sometimes
be that one who is deeply affected can
not always see the forest for the trees.

From time to time it is likely a good
idea to get some perspective, to see
if where you are is where you want to
be headed.  I have known of people who
were not happy with where they were
hypnotically tell me how happy they
were about where they were hypnotically
before they were able to clearly see what
was going on.  The pleasure they felt,
and the suggestions they were given
were driving their "ship," and they
didn't even realize how affected they
were by what another said and wanted.

In some ways, I am a broken record on
this, and for those who don't appreciate
it, I am sorry.  But it is something that
I have seen way too many times.  I have
seen really good people get lost in the
pleasure so much that their relationships
lose out.  I have seen them distracted
from the things that matter most to them.
I have seen them lose sight of themselves,
and what they have to offer the world.

Of course what happens starts out as
your choice...which is why I always
say be careful.  But after choice sometimes
comes things that may look like your
choice, but actually be someone else's
choice for you.

Interestingly, one way that people use
to gain control, interest, desire of
another is through another is orgasm
control.  I saw something today that
explains why it can work.  You can
read it/see it here.

Sometimes knowing what is happening,
or what can happen, can be beneficial.
So many have no idea the power of those
things that look seemingly insignificant.

As always, I hope you are well and safe,
and that if what I say speaks to you, you
stay in touch.

Have a great day.

It has been a while...

Greetings.

I hope this finds you well.

It has been a while, and I know there may be a few of you
who are wondering what is going on.  While I am not yet
ready to share, I thought I would clarify something about
what you might expect from me during this time.

I would say there is nothing that you can "expect," except
perhaps the unexpected.  That is one reason why I haven't
been taking any live calls outside of the ones that are arranged
ahead of time.  Due to the nature of what is going on, I need
to have a good relationship with those that I have
communication with.

At the moment I am not fully able to be the role of Goddess
that you would want.  As a matter of fact, I am that for only
a few at the moment.  However I have decided that if there
is anyone who is reading this who isn't happy with their
erotic, hypnotic situation and wants to change it, I will do
my best to help you find a situation you want to be in.  It
does not mean me becoming your Domme, but you finding
your personal way and clarity around what you want and
who you are.

I have found that too many find themselves confused once
one or more hypnotic Dommes get into their head.   This
is something that I have addressed more than once, and in
varying ways.  Many times those affected will justify their
actions based on suggestions given - if they even remember
what they did.

I always think that it is best to be able to talk to the person
who is hypnotizing you, and see if they will work with you,
but the "problem" sometimes is that they will think you want
to be twisted.  Other times they just might be twisted enough
themselves not to care about you want (it is after all for some
the "nature of the game.").    However having said that, if
you are up for it, that might be something to consider before
doing anything else.  It is a judgment call on your behalf, and
you have to have trust in the person you speak with that they
will be willing to listen - and do - what you ask them to do.

There have been those I have helped who were at one
moment totally enamored by someone one moment, and then
the next in a "what was I thinking?" place.  The more that
you wonder about and the more that you question things
and the more concerned you are - the more you should be
paying attention to these things.  Issues that you are
potentially steamrolling are seldom resolved successfully.

Yes.  I know you likely feel good.  The hypnosis is
designed to do that.  But it doesn't mean that you can't
feel good without causing yourself other issues.  There are
other options.

I may not currently be able to be that person you are
obsessed with and can call and think about all of the time
right now...but that doesn't mean you can't get something
pretty wonderful by giving yourself freedom around what
you want, and the clarity to get it.

If you do not currently have some version of what you
want without conflict or feeling at odds with yourself or
your situation, odds are you may never find it.  It is very
rare the two roads will ever cross.

If this speaks to you, get in contact with me.  You can
reach me on Niteflirt, or you can email me at IsisWantsYou
at my Yahoo address if you aren't on Niteflirt.  I will see
what I  can do.  Please be patient, though, and if you do
not hear from me in a few days, feel free to email me again.
I WILL respond.  It just may take me longer than we both
would like.

Thanks for your patience and understanding.

I realize that this won't be for everyone, but I DO know
that it fits a number of those who will be reading this.
If I hadn't already spoken to a number of those like you,
I would never have written this.

Please be well...and play and stay safe!

An Update (of sorts)

There was a time that I wondered if I suddenly disappeared,
if anyone would notice.  Try as I may to show myself as
more than "just" someone you can get off with, it
would seem a majority of those I interact with are looking
for the quick "fix."

I can't say I blame those who want this, as most that I make
contact with are through a phone sex site, after all.  However,
I have consistently tried to show you more, and hope that the
parts of you that are more than just your cock respond.

I know some of you think that when I get quiet, I may want
to be left alone, and your lack of saying anything is a type of
respect for me.  At the same time, I have often said otherwise,
and am never sure how to convey things, except to say them.

There is more to me, as I expect that there is more to you.
I realize this is not the best forum for that to be expressed,
acknowledged, or acted upon, but the fact is that I have always
tried to remain true to myself as it gives the both of us the 
best possible experience.  That is why I never do things that
I perceive might be of more harm than good to you.  

My life took a turn recently.  The destination of the curve is
one that I do not yet know.  The irony is that in life we often
may think we know where we are headed, but often we are
surprised.  There is so much that is unknown...and yet we
play and act like we DO know.

I would like to think that there are those of you who I have
truly connected with.   I would like to think that no matter what
happens, you are interested in where I go and what I do next.
I would like to think we connected in more than just one way,
so I very much would like to think that.

At the same time, I realize that there are those of you who are
wanting something from me that you can't currently have, and
for that reason you will likely go (or already have gone) elsewhere. 
If that is the case, I wish you well.  I will, as always, tell you 
to stay safe.  

Read my blog.  Educate yourself.  Be careful.  There has been
a lot of shit I have seen over the years, and believe me when I
say you do NOT want to be a part of anything like what I have
been a witness to - even if your fantasy thinks it does.

Now...For anyone who is interested in sticking around -
and especially for those who care about and respect me...

Recent events are NOT ones that I have chosen.  As a result,
they are leaving me in an uncomfortable position in more than
one way.  For the few that I have told what is going on, they
have wanted to help financially.  I realize that if you don't know
what is going on, you may be uncertain as to whether you
want to help, or not.  It is completely understandable.  If you
would like to know, just email me and we will schedule some
time to talk, and I'll even send you some free minutes to do that
- provided you are on NF.

I have always wanted to really relate to those that I connect
with here, and this is a chance for us to potentially do that.
As far as calls and cams go, for now they are hit or miss.
If you can catch me and/or schedule with me, we can do a
session.  However, at the moment, I will tell you it is likely
to be a slim chance that it will happen.

In time, I will be explaining all.  If you are truly interested in
me, you will discover what has happened.  You will also learn
more about me.  This abrupt turn has turned things on their
head, and I am fairly certain my life will never be the same.
I know; it sounds so dramatic.  Well...in some ways, it IS.

I think this will be all for now...

Except if you want to be a good boy for me.  I am always
grateful for your clicks and your efforts, however, during this
time it is even MORE so.  If you would like to help, please
either click a button below, or send a payment of your choosing.
Want something for your money?  You can always choose to
buy a file. 

As always, thanks for being a part of my world.
Isis

Unexpected

I am writing this on Monday, as I do not yet know
what the week will bring.  If you see this, I have
had an unexpected situation arise (I know - how
can it be unexpected, when I plan for it?  I will
try to explain at a later time).

While I have been kind of quiet lately, I have been

out of touch the last few days because of circumstances

that have been beyond my ability to control, and I am

hoping to return shortly.

I am writing this because unexpected time off/away

isn't always a good thing, and I thought that those 

who support me would want to know that this is a
particularly good time to do something to please me.

While just tributes are always welcome/helpful, I
thought perhaps I would highlight my
Handled withPleasure Video.  You can get it here for $25.  

Of course, you could also contribute in another way

by buying any of my other files.

I don't often do things like this, and am never one
to demand (despite those of you who wish I would

be more so :p) because I believe it is much better for

both of us if you do what you do because you WANT

to do it.

As always, please know that I appreciate your efforts,

small and big, if you are doing what is right for you
and what you can.  I especially appreciate them now,

with the recent, unexpected events.

It will all be helpful.
And when you see me available, call!
I want to hear from you.

Be well, and be safe,

Isis

Some Humor

Lately life has gotten a bit on the serious side,
so I thought I would share a couple of smiles:

"Had a big mix-up at the store today.
Apparently when the woman said,
'strip down facing me,' she was
referring to my credit card."

"All guys hate the words DON'T and
STOP - unless you put them together."

Have a good night, and please feel free
to make a humorous addition below.

Sweet dreams.

Would like to be Wrong

Sometimes I think I am the only person in a boat
that is sailing in a certain direction.  So often
when I talk about the things that happen to people,
it is met with a certain amount of skepticism and
disbelief.  Apparently everyone knows better than
I do about what I think I "know."

I realize that there is a certain amount of "game
playing"when it comes to the fetish and the
players, but the problem is that there are either
some really good actors, or there really is a certain
amount of sh*t that happens to those who are
unaware.

I wrote a blog entry about someone who had been
hypnotized by someone and was headed down a
path that he did NOT want.  It wasn't like he came
to me to help him, but once he was hypnotized, it
was apparent that there had been things happening
that were NOT what he wanted.

I knew of the hypnotist involved, but knowing
that some think highly of her, I thought let me
check into her some.  When I did, I found something
that said she had a de-programming recording,
and that she would utilize it if she - or the person
she worked with - thought it was necessary.

I reconsidered my stance.  Perhaps I had been
unfair in my assessment.  Perhaps she really was
one of the "good guys" in this fetish.  So the
next time I spoke with the individual I was trying
to help, I asked how he felt about speaking with
her directly about what was happening and his
desires to stop things, and mentioned the recording.

He said he knew of no such recording.  In
addition, he had asked her more than once to
turn things off, and her response was to trigger
him and off and running he was even more.
He indicated concern about ever having any
additional contact with her.

Once again, my wheels turned.  Either the
hypnotist had misrepresented herself, or she
had changed.  Neither thing to me was - or is -
particularly appealing.

Well...to make matters now more interesting,
out of the blue I get a message from the individual
who tells me he spoke with her (based on our
conversations, NOT something he would have
initiated) and not only that, missed a day of work
so he could have 2 cam sessions with her, and
soon a 3rd, so she could make everything right.

Yeah.  Likely HER version of right.  He even
signed one of the repetitive, robotic responses
to my emails in a way that tells me she again
has him heading off in a direction that he had
no desire to go in.

The way he worded things it is fairly clear to
me that he is being "fixed" so that he will never
do this again.  While I want to give this person
the benefit of the doubt, given the tone and tenor
of conversations I had with the person involved,
I am fairly confident she is doing things that
fall in the range of "against his will."

People are NOT pawns to be played with.  I
realize in this fetish many people get power
off of their power plays...but doing cr*p like
this to someone is just despicable beyond
words.

I do not intend to name names.  After all, there
is more than one side to every story, and there
may be details that I do not know, and may
never know.  But what I do know are certain
characteristics and certain signs that mean
certain things.  And while he may tell me that
she has removed all programming, my guess
it is any other than hers.

If I am indeed in this boat alone, I may just
go down alone.  At the same time, it is my
hope that my words and the things I say have
value and provide a wake up call for people
who need it, or give a protective barrier for
those who didn't even know they needed one.

Others in this "profession" do not talk about
this, but I can't help but wonder if there are
things they have seen and just blinked and
perhaps kept going - or perhaps believe it to
be a non-problem, given the current culture.

I know no one wants to hear about them...
but given a choice between hearing and being
a person who is greatly (and perhaps adversely)
affected, believe me, you are likely to want to
be a person who listened.

By the way, one side note about deprogramming
recordings.  They may not do what they say,
if you even know/remember that they exist,
and you have to know that there is a problem
to want to deprogram to listen.

Apparently this guy was a hybrid.  He knew
some things were too much, and wanted to stop,
but he didn't even know about the more potentially
harmful things; so even if everything else
was fine and dandy, he wouldn't have known
that there was any reason to request the
recording to stop.

There was a time I would never have even
considered posting something like this.  There
is a myriad of reasons for that, but with seeing
so much of what I have seen lately, I feel I
cannot be silent.  Part of the problem that
the world faces in many ways today is too
much silent agreement.  There is even a term
for that "Sheeple."

I can not possibly take a stand in every regard
that I see a problem, but this is one that seems
best suited to me at this time.  I never want 
someone to rob you of who you are.  Whether
or not you choose to listen to, or believe, me I
invite you to consider standing up for something
you believe in with a PASSION.

It would be my hope that as a result the world
will be a better place, and someone, somewhere
will be better off for it. 

Have a good night.

Flashing Yellow: Proceed with Caution

So many times I take to my blog and talk about
being careful.  I am sure that there are some who
would wish that I wasn't always talking about
the things I do.

Quite frankly, I am one of them.

The problem is, I believe that there are way too
many people who have no idea what is possible
with hypnosis.  Some of the things are probably
not such "big" deals, but there are many that
can easily become one...especially when the
person affected has no clue that he is affected.

Recently someone casually called me and
wanted to experience my hypnosis.  It turns
out that there was someone else who had been
hypnotizing him.  That much he knew, but what
he didn't know was what was affecting him,
what the content of the recordings he was
listening to was, just how deeply affected by
this person he was...even to the point of
publicly embarrassing and humiliating him
in front of those he knew.

Of particular note is the fact that this person
never once told the hypnotist that he had
certain interests/desires, and yet he was
instructed to buy what could amount to life
changing MP3s.

I know for some they may wonder how this
could happen, and this person could join their
ranks.  There were things he did not know
about hypnosis when he ventured into the
waters, and likely thought it would be "fun."

Sadly, the hypnotist had other ideas.  I know
there are hypnotists that believe the adage that
a person will never do anything against their
will, but in this case, he did at some point try
to fight what was happening.

I am not clear on all of the details, but what I
am clear about is that the hypnotists you let
into your mind will potentially have their own
agenda, and if you get to the point that you
OBEY that person, then that, among other
things, is your WILL, and whatever you are
told to do, you likely will.

I am a little hesitant to suggest that if a hypnotist
is into something you aren't into, you may want
to stay away, as I do have a feminization listing,
and I know most would not be interested.

At the same time, I do not promote it, and will
ONLY do it on that line, and by request.

The particular hypnotist in question doesn't
come out and say that those who follow her
will be taken down the path this guy was, but
I somehow suspect many are.  I also know of
someone I spoke to at one point who was
hypnotized by this particular hypnotist, and
was quite troubled.

I never got to the core of the other situation,
but if he was or is going through anything
like this other person just did, I could see
why there would be such great distress.

I also know there are those who have been in
this situation and wind up being mad at
themselves.  How could it have happened?

If you never knew you had a food allergy,
but then ate something that gave you an
allergic reaction, would you be mad at
yourself?  If this is you, be kind to yourself,
and take the knowledge you now have and
use it to your benefit, and better still,  perhaps
to someone else's benefit.

And if you happen to be one of those most
skeptical, use this as a warning sign of things
that could possibly be ahead and proceed
with caution.
 

Maybe you didn't realize...

In recent conversations with those who call me,
I have been told that they are listening to my
recordings at times that truly aren't suited for
listening.

These times aren't suitable because of reasons
that apparently weren't obvious.  For that
reason, I wanted to talk about it more publicly.

At Work
So you want to listen to my recording in the
background as you work?

If the recording was designed for that, it would
be one thing.  However, if it was not (and none
of mine currently are) then a couple of things
can happen.

1.  Your mind doesn't relax as much as it can,
because it can't.  The next time you listen to
it you may not go as deeply because while
listening at work, you told it it was OK to
stay awake while listening.

2.  You might go into a trance.  Perhaps not a
deep one, but one none-the-less.  When your
mind is more open, it is more open to anything.
You could walk around in a more suggestible
state if a recording puts you there, and you do
not realize it.  (The same, by the way, holds
true if you are in mid-session and hang up the
phone.  If you do not fully come out of trance
you may be putting yourself in a less than
ideal situation).

3.  If a MP3 isn't designed to help you focus
on work, it might make you less effective.
Perhaps it is something to consider if you are
wanting to do a good job, at the job that
allows you to pay for my recordings/sessions.

In the Hot Tub
Ah....the hot tub.  It sounds like the perfect,
soothing combination, doesn't it?  Well, it's
not, not really.

Think about it.  You want to relax.  You listen
to a wonderful recording that makes you relax.
A part of your mind is probably going to be
on guard.  After all, you are in a hot tub.  What
if you were to get submerged?  How much could
you truly and completely relaxed with a part of
you being hypervigilant that way?

And...if by some chance, you were able to
completely relax, it might be a dangerous
situation to put yourself into.  Some deeply
hypnotized people can't feel changes in
temperature, and not to mention being
submerged in water is not necessarily going
to be a good thing.  Yes; you would likely
wake up if that was to happen, but why
take the chance?

While Driving
I know someone once who was so high strung
he could listen to me on a CD to bring him within
the "normal" range of someone else.  While I
didn't recommend he listen while driving, he
apparently thought otherwise.

Driving is something that is best done fully
aware.  Listening to a recording while driving
is possibly going to make you less than fully
aware.  In addition, you run the same risk as
#1 under the Work heading above.

Listening in the car at any time while in the
driver's seat is also not particularly advisable.
You never want to have your mind associate
the hypnotic state with driving.  When you
sit in the driver's seat, you want to associate
it with all of the things that have to do with
a safe driving experience.  (Interestingly,
pulling over and going to sleep in that seat
also is not necessarily the best option for
these reasons).

So these are less than ideal situations for
trancing.  One thing you might want to
consider is always trancing in an IDEAL
environment, especially if you are wanting
to enhance your trancing experience.

What ideal is might vary from person to
person, but some of the things you may
want to consider for your ideal environment
are:

consistency
comfortable temperature and/or cover
safe surface
preferred lighting
preferred environmental sounds
unlikely to be interrupted

Please consider these things when considering
your trancing habits.  The more consistent you
are, the more likely the things you do will even
set the stage for hypnosis, and even become
hypnotic themselves.

I want my good boys to stay safe, and even if
you aren't my good boy
(yet? LOL sorry couldn't resist :P)
I would like
for you to remain safe, too.

As discussed before,
ignorance is not
always bliss.

Please feel free to add your few cents,  and
have an awesome day!
 

Me, Scary?

From time to time I find out that people are scared
to call/make contact with me for various reasons.

Sometimes they think I will be mad about something.

Sometimes they think they have disappointed me.

Sometimes they think I am a certain way or will
react a certain way that is NOT me.

I do the best I can to put myself "out there" in a
way that will ring true.  Not as an act or facade,
but in a way that is genuine.

I don't always know where these ideas come from,
but they do not align with who and how I am.  Rest
assured that with me what you see is what you get.

Of course, for some that will mean good bye, as
there are those who want me to be more like "the
others."  The thing is, though, I am more than likely
very little like the others who do this kind of work.

I am not dominant in nature, however I can enjoy
playing that "role."  I respect those I speak with, and
tend to stay away from things that would purposely
intend to humilate or embarrass you.

I want you to have a good experience, one without
issues that certain other types of experiences might
create.  While I realize that some want to feel gullt
and shame, and even sometimes thrive on it, it
would never be my desire nor my intention to create
that kind of dynamic between us.

As far as I am concerned, our dynamic is only as
good and strong as your desire to be in it, and if
how I am doesn't work for you, you will always
have my respect and my support in terms of you
making other choices.  While it might be within
my "power" to try to coerce you otherwise, it is
not ever something I would do - unless it was
something a person wanted.  Even then, it would
most likely occur in a way that had nothing to do
with being forced.

I want those I affect to talk to me.  I want you to
tell me what you feel and what you think.  In
return we will take that information together and
create something that works for both of us, or
you will be on your way. 

Having said this...I also want to address the
recording that I released that suggests that you
do something for me every day.  I suggest that
as a way for you to get pleasure, as well as thank
me for the pleasure that you do get when we are
apart.  

In no way are you obligated to do anything, and
I even give you an out, if it is not something that
you would think in your best interest.  At the
same time, perhaps if you got to know me, and
were clearer about me and my intentions, you
would find that it could be a wonderful thing to
make a part of your day.  I also talk about us
being a "team" and I mean it.  I want you to get
something from everything that you do for me,
and want our interactions to only bring the best
for you.

If you ever do something, and it is something you
want to stop, and can't seem to, I am more than
happy to turn the suggestions off.  As a matter of
fact, I even have a recording that will do that...
but because it has been designed for those who
have been hypnotized "live" by me, it probably
wouldn't be as effective for someone who has
only listened to recordings.

However, I would still do whatever I could to
help you be however you wanted to be.  It is
important to me that you be taken care of. 
 
I have never appreciated the culture within erotic
hypnosis that seems to leave people hanging
out there, sinking or swimming on their own.

I have always valued the dynamic of interaction.
It is one of the reasons many of my recordings
have been designed to work primarily for those
previously in contact with me.

I invite you to get to know me better.  I invite
you to get to know me as more than "just" a
hypnotist.  There is much more to me, and for
those I really click with, that often only solidifies
the dynamic between us.

If I am not for you, I understand.  I am not for
everyone.  However, you may not yet even know
how much I can be for you...if you do not know
me that well, and think you know me by any
preconceived notions from labels I may seem to
wear.

If you haven't yet spent time here on my blog,
I invite you to.  There is a lot here, and you
will find all kinds of things to whet your appetite. 
I also invite you to check with me about the things
that prevent you from being in contact.  If it
relates to me, odds are pretty good you might
just be wrong.  

And there is nothing worse than acting on
something with wrong information, is there?


Have a great weekend!
 

More Life Changing Than I Thought

A while ago I posted about how I was beginning to
pay more attention to the foods I ate. I was just
beginning to discover the train wreck of ingredients
we put in food.

Part of my reasoning behind it was to get healthier.
If I lost a few pounds, it would be a great thing, but
I just wanted to do what was best for my body. I
didn't say it at the time, but I suspected I was at the
very least "gluten sensitive," given how my body
was reacting to things that were "bready" and
delicious.

I thought I would do what I could to begin to look
at gluten-free options. The "funny" thing was that
just because something was gluten-free did not
mean it was healthy. Many gluten-free products
had ingredients in them that I have come discover
are not healthy ones.

In addition, to compensate for the fact that there
is no gluten there is an ingredient that is used that
is a chemical, which it appears is also not so great
for you. Apparently there are a few, but all pretty
much with the same "review." In addition, it turns
out that it often creates the same reaction in a
person's body as gluten.

This was determined, by the way, after I plunged
into getting a whole bunch of things to try my hand
at gluten-free baking. It was also after I had a
whole bunch of things in my cabinet I determined
I was no longer going to eat.

In my discovery I decided to start eating gluten again.
I figured it was at least "natural" and not a chemical.
Interestingly, the weight I was losing leveled off. In
addition, it would now seem that if I was "sensitive"
before, I am REALLY sensitive now.

I did not realize that by stopping eating it I would
make matters worse. Apparently that is exactly what
can happen. So now I am really in a pickle.

Why?

Because for as much as I was so excited about making
changes, I tried to level off, but couldn't. It seems to me
I might have been smarter to do some deeper research
before being so enthusiastic.

At the same time, it seems that those who have the
sensitivity can also be/become lactose intolerant, and
can have much bigger health issues down the line. It
also seems that if the gluten issue gets resolved, so
does the dairy one. At least that is what one person
described, as a part of her journey.

Since this all started out as a way to get healthier, it
would seem that this is a good thing in the long run.
In the short run I am REALLY bummed. I really wasn't
wanting/ready to give up everything bread. It seems
my choices may have sped that up.

I share this for a number of reasons:

One, those of you who have issues like this might
find it helpful/of interest.

Two, when I think about all of the foods that will
now affect me and make me miserable and/or sick
I think about how society is really good at creating
itself around what we do around food.

I think about how we "reward" ourselves with things
that really aren't so great for us. I think about the
"hypnosis" that exists around these things, and I find
myself wondering how I will rewire myself in ways
that will likely seem odd and unusual to others, as
we often use food to "fit in."

Three, I find that my experience with this is similar
to how some approach hypnosis. They do a minimal
amount of research (if any) and proceed to act. As
they experience and research things, they may alter
their path, perhaps going from one perceived negative
thing to another, not realizing that it is "negative" at
the time though.

If they are lucky, they will come out of everything
just fine, and unscathed. If they aren't so lucky, their
"diet" may get fixed in ways they weren't prepared for,
and aren't so happy about. 

Often our choices in life have a way of changing us -
without, or without, our permission.  Please feel free
to comment if you have any of your own thoughts/
experiences to share.

Have a great night.
 

Please Read | An Important Word

It would seem that some are feeling affected by me,
and my recent emails.

While, for some, that could be a good thing, the only
way it truly is, is if YOU feel that way.

If you are uncomfortable in any way with what you
feel as a result of me or my work, please talk to me.

While some hypnotists wouldn't regard your dilemma
or concerns as issues, I am different. I only enjoy
what I do, when you enjoy what I do.

I mean this in all seriousness, which is why I have
recommended you get to know me via my blog. I
have a reputation for being too nice and caring.

I do what I do with a great fondness and responsibility,
and care about you, what you think, and your your
ultimate experience with me and hypnosis.

Isis
 

"Trippy Website"

Recently Guest721 wrote:

"This is a very trippy website.
I'm both enjoying it and a
little freaked out by it."

Guess, Guest721, my last blog
entry isn't going to help you
too much to be less freaked.

I am sorry to freak you out a
bit. However I would rather
freak you out a enough to have
you thoughtful about your
choices than to act like nothing
awry ever happens and have you
playing with a "gun" that you
didn't know was loaded.

I want you to have the BEST
possible experience if you
choose to indulge in hypnosis,
and having knowledge will
hopefully help the odds of that
happening.

Be safe...and STAY that way.
 

Really Sad Tonight

For as many times as I warn people about what can
happen when one indulges in hypnosis, people do
not always listen.

There was someone who I was erotically hypnotizing
who had been hypnotized, it turns out, by many more
than he realized. One day, after me warning him
to be careful on more than one occasion he decides
to go browsing the internet.

He finds an online hypnotist who ultimately does
some very heavy duty hypnosis on him, and has him
masturbating on cam, naked. However, he doesn't
remember any of it, and fights me when I tell him
things are off/not right.

I spent countless hours trying to help him sort
things out, only to have him turn around and tell
me that he doesn't want to take advantage of me,
since he isn't paying me. He says he wants to go
to a professional hypnotist, and once he sorts
things out he will be back, and make things right.

Out of respect for him, I agree. I am a little
bit reluctant, as there was another instance of
someone who needed help in which I suggested a
professional hypnotist in which the hypnotist
tried to have him believe that I was the one who
had given him the problems he had.

It probably does not come as a surprise I wasn't
terribly happy about that, either. I had spent
my time and energy trying to help someone, and
the "professional" tries to lay the blame on the
person looking to help. Eventually that situation
was rectified, but it was troubling to me then.

And even more troubling to me in light of the
recent events in regard to another "professional"
hypnotist. These are not the only times I have
heard of the "professionals" being less than
ethical with what their choices are. Actually
the first one may have been seeking to be ethical,
however there seemed to be a bias that they were
working toward in terms of how they interacted
in regard to me. Perhaps not a question of ethics,
but rather a question of bias that may not be
appropriate in a setting like that.

I really would like to be objective here. I
would really like to give people the benefit of
the doubt. There are erotic hypnotists who do
things that haven't been good for someone, and
I would like to give them the benefit of the
doubt that it was not intentional.

I would like to do all of these things. But
sometimes my humanity and anger kick in. I wish
I was as naive about things as the day I began
this journey. It would be so much easier.

Instead, I feel like I am fighting the tide.
Many of the stories I could tell you would sound
like an erotic tale that would be a turn on for
many. The problem is that I think it is more
the IDEA of the situation that is the turn on,
and that if those turned on by the "tale" were
to have lived the events, they would be just as
mortified by the results of what happened.

In this particular, and most recent, case the
hypnotist was highly recommended and credentialed.
She is even LICENSED. Now you can not be
licensed for hypnosis, there is no such thing.
However she is a licensed mental health professional
who went waaaaayyyy out of her ethics and scope
in regard to this person.

Of course there will be some that will question
the validity of anything I say, and I of course
was not there. But where I was in relation to
the individual I was trying to help was as a
witness to how he felt about what had transpired.
He was really upset and confused and hurt.

Whether or not she has done what I think she did,
she has most certainly done something inappropriate,
and now I am not even able to speak to this person,
even though he was very anxious to speak with me,
but unable to because of work, before he went
silent.

Given how he has said he felt about me, and how
he has interacted with me, I have every reason
to believe that he is in big trouble. And this
time I don't think there is anything more I can do.

I can only hope that something will happen one
day in which he will be able to become aware and
do something before it really is too late for him.

Believe what you will about what I have written,
but also believe me when I tell you that when
you get yourself into the hypnotic rabbit hole
you really don't know what is going to happen.

Sadly, while there would have been a time I
would have recommended a "professional" hypnotist
for someone's more local/immediate needs, the
fact is now I am even more hesitant. I was
hesitant before because of any perceived bias
of me (which I overlooked for the sake of the
individual), but now I see first hand how
despicable anyone can be. Not that I didn't
know that before, after all, you hear the
stories, but now I have first hand confirmation
of atrocious behavior.

The fact is this person became more than "just"
a caller. In a weird way we had in some way
become a type of friend. So not only has she
robbed me of a "customer" (who barely even was
paying me anything as it was) she has robbed me
of contact with someone I came to care about.

So listen, or don't listen. Do, or don't do.
It is up to you. However, perhaps my words
will give you something to consider before you
do anything that might take you down a path
undesired.

I hate talking like this. Hypnosis is a
wonderful tool for issues and for lots of
pleasure. I don't like to scare people off.
But the irony is for as much as I do say these
things people still go forward. I think it is
the "it will never happen to me" syndrome. For
as much as this recent guy had been through,
for as many warnings as I gave him, for as
suggestible as he was...he didn't listen, and
now sadly he is going to have to live with the
consequences.

It may never happen to you. But how will you
know until perhaps it is too late? And then,
whattcha gonna do?

If you're going to indulge, please indulge
wisely. You may not be in the same category
as this guy - in fact, we may never have even
spoken yet - but I guarantee you that if I knew
someone was f*cking with you I would be just as
pissed.

Ok. I am done now.
 

Mythbusters & Hypnosis: My Take | Video

I saw this Mythbuster Episode a while ago, and
have wanted to address it. It is an episode
about how hypnosis can't have you do anything
against your will. According to what they show,
they believe it proves that the statement is
"true."

Things like this trouble me because the validity
they give to the claim I believe gives people a
false sense of security. First of all, the
examples they give are one-offs. One attempt is
made, and it doesn't work. Second of all, those
that they do the hypnosis with are not necessarily
the "best" of all possible subjects. Third of
all, the suggestions are almost silly, and worded
in a no-nonsense, direct kind of way.

If someone was "likely" to do something against
his will, given a hypnotic suggestion, there are
variables that might give a different outcome.
First it would likely be more than one session,
maybe even many. Secondly, as all subjects are
not created equal, if a hypnotist had a deeply
suggestible subject, the odds of accepting a
suggestion plainly, or otherwise suggested, is
greater than one who is not. Third, give a
suggestion in a way that allows the mind to
accept it by it appearing to be something other
than it is will likely allow for greater acceptance.
In addition, there will be ways to make it difficult
not to have the person follow through. An ethical
hypnotist is not likely to do something like that,
(there are exceptions - for instance, when you ask
for/desire it by your own accord) therefore it
is not a true sampling of what would or would
not seem to be possible. Plus, if you were to
make it rewarding in some way for the person to
follow through it would also tend to skew the
possible end result.

Believe me when I tell you there are ways to
skew things when you are in trance. While it
may be "technically" true that you won't do
anything against your will, there are many ways
that things can be contorted and distorted...
and the only benefit there will be will be for
the other person.

If interested, view the episode for yourself,
and let me know what you think.

(You may also want to read this blog entry.)

Hypnosis and Weight Loss | Video

There was a time in my life that a relative of mine had lost
weight, and she had used hypnosis to do it. As a result,
long before I was ever a hypnotist, I got to experience
weight loss as a result of hypnotic suggestion.

The problem was, though, once I stopped the hypnosis, the
weight came back. What I now know as a hypnotist is that
when our unconscious has a plan, it seeks to fulfill it,
even if the actions are to our detriment. It is not that
we are seeking to hurt ourselves, it is quite the opposite.
We are seeking to give ourselves the familiarity that we
"need."

For instance, if food provides some sort of comfort, we
will seek it out when we need to be comforted. We can
change our habits - with or without hypnosis - but if we
do not change the piece of us that has a need that it
sees our old habit fulfilling, odds are we may at some
point find ourselves in the same predicament in the same,
or similar way.

I am reminded of this today because of a couple of news
items. You may remember Carnie Wilson had had gastric
bypass surgery several years ago. She lost so much weight,
she even posed for Playboy. After having two children she
gained much of her weight back, and is now wearing a band
and losing weight.

The other news item is about gastric bypass, hypnotic
style. People under hypnosis are given suggestions that
they are having the surgery. The news story shows two
women for whom this approach appears to be working. The
doctor in the story is skeptical about what hypnosis can
do.

Interestingly, I would say that if someone is suggestible
enough to lose weight via this method, s/he may have a
better chance of keeping it off, given that hypnosis is
working with changing what the mind believes unconsciously,
which the surgery (obviously) does not. Stories like
Carney's are "proof" that while it can work, there are
ways that it can also fail. Might it be due to the
unconscious mind?

Of course I wouldn't say that it is. However, it is an
important component, given that there are estimates that
90% of what we do is driven by our unconscious. So while
it may not be able to be determined to be everything, it
certainly is unlikely to be nothing.

At the same time, in the last several weeks as I have
changed the way I eat, I have lost 10 pounds myself, and
I am more convinced than ever that what is in our food
is certainly an issue. Certain foods, regardless of
calories, seem to affect my weight more than others.
So it would certainly seem reasonable to me that if one
was able to alter a person's diet and preferences alone
with hypnosis, it is quite possible their weight could
be affected.

In the end, gastric bypass whether hypnotic or real
ultimately affects a symptom, and unless the cause is
addressed, it seems to me possible that there will
continue to be an issue. Interestingly, the surgery
is many more times expensive than the hypnosis and
likely, by its nature, to be many more times dangerous
as well.

As with anything, we have choices to make and the best
ones we make come with as many levels of understanding
as we can get. Learn what you can before you do what
you do and you will be more likely to succeed at what
you are trying to do.

If interested, below are the videos I have been
referring to. Have a great night!

For Video/News regarding Carnie Wilson click here.

When Ignorance... | Video

is anything but bliss.

Tonight I went out to dinner. It is the first time
I have eaten food in the last two months that I
don't really know the contents or origin of, even
though I can guess, given what I have learned in
the last 60 days, or so.

It is no surprise to me tonight that I am not feeling
so great. But I am surprised because my mouth feels
"funny." I don't know if there is any correlation
between how it feels and what I ate, but it would
seem to me that there might be some.

I will go into more details in a future entry,
and explain a bit of what I have been finding out.
In the meantime, here is a video I HIGHLY SUGGEST
you watch - especially if you live in the US.

It will be a bummer if you take it at face value,
which might be all to easy to do. At the same
time, perhaps with knowledge comes other possibilities,
and other choices.

Watch it, and see what you think. Feel free to share
you thoughts, knowledge, and experiences below. If
you are willing, it can often be helpful for others.

Lingerie or...?

I was telling someone the other day that I
was looking at some wonderful lingerie, and
feeling a bit conflicted.

The reason for this conflict was that for
as much as I wanted to get some new lingerie
to tease my good boys with, I very much
wanted to get myself a bicycle.

I know it may seem like an odd thing to say.
But when one has resources, one can only get
what one can afford with those resources.

For as much as I would love to constantly
buy lingerie and create new and wonderful
opportunities for enjoyment for those who
enjoy my assets, it isn't always possible.

It just so happens this time a bicycle is
going to win out. The good news, however,
is that the person I was speaking with gave
me an interesting idea. When I told him of
my dilemma, he said he couldn't get me in
lingerie on a bicycle out of his head.

If I can manage to create an image of that
type (and I am certainly considering giving
it my best shot) perhaps it can be used as
a motivational tool for anyone who is looking
to be more active with working out...kinda
like the one I did with sneakers a while
back.

Unusual? Absolutely. Attractive? Oh, yes.
All me? Without any question. Desired?
Well you can answer that one.

Welcome to my world. :)

Have a great night!
 

Happy St Patrick's Day!

(More on) You'll Never Do Anything Against Your Will

In conversations that focus on this topic, there are 3 key components I can identify that are usually woven through the content are; the question of who is right, the question of who is responsible, and the question of what do we really "know."

Interestingly while these conversations go on, things happen within a context that includes hypnosis. How exactly a person gets to where he does might not matter as much as the fact that he does. Does it really matter if it is "his" fault? Does it really matter whose "fault" it is?

While we are so busy assigning fault, and having a need to be right as human beings (our egos so abhor being wrong), there are those who are going to be affected by hypnosis more strongly either by nature (their suggestibility) or nurture (the "coaxing" of a hypnotist/hypnosis) and maybe both.

I often tell people that while it is "technically' true a person can not be made to do something that s/he finds objectionable, there are many ways in which a person can be manipulated by the language used by the hypnotist, as well as their knowledge of how hypnosis works - which those who aren't as knowledgeable (many of those who seek to be hypnotized) can become susceptible to. One such extreme example is that of a man hypnotized by Derrin Brown to think he was shooting at a target at a range, but was instead "shooting" at a well known person - so while he may have found it objectionable to kill someone, that is not what he believed he was doing.

There is also the issue of suggestibility. Not all people have the same level of suggestibility. Those who are the least suggestible are likely to be the most skeptical - which of course, makes some sort of sense. If something isn't a part of a person's personal experience, it is frequently discounted, which often can be how human beings tend to be in matters they don't fully know or understand.

Conversations in which people will stick to the standard lines are difficult for me, as I have gone from a hypnotist trained (hypnotized?) to believe certain things about hypnosis to a hypnotist that has seen a myriad of ways that seem to counter what I should have "known." As a result, I believe the idea that people are always in some way "safe" when it comes to hypnosis could potentially lull someone into a false sense of security, if they happen into the "wrong" type of person/circumstance. (I think it also has the potential to cause other issues, which is a bit more than I think I want to discuss in this context.)

There is also the element of people not truly knowing themselves. We may think we know what we are capable of, and what we believe, but I have seen how those things can be contorted and distorted and expanded in ways that are not always welcome, but seem to become a part of the person's current experience, and when it can not be fully discerned, how is it able to be altered? And even if it happens to be a "true" part of the person, who is to say that it is going to be a welcomed one? Again, does it matter where it came from, or just that it arrived during the course of interaction with hypnosis?

I have, at times, seen how a person has some ability to pull back from things that might seem to be going awry, but I believe that there could be cases in which that might not be possible, if the person doing the manipulating had the ability to manipulate the bigger picture, and if the person being manipulated wasn't aware enough to know that s/he was being manipulated enough to question it or stop it.

In the end, it doesn't really matter who is "right," and if we get lost in an argument that focuses on who is right and who is wrong, I would suggest it takes away from the responsibility we have to ourselves and the others who may at some point be affected. Since there is much about the mind we don't know, what is the harm in having conversations that ask questions rather than ones that are full of potentially incorrect "absolutes?"

I don't know about you, but as I learn more about what goes into our products and foods, I find there is a myriad of "fact-based opinion" on the ingredients. Of course, everyone is right, and no one is wrong, and yet there are opinions that are in sharp contrast to one another. In the beginning, I was listening to one thing, only to be surprised by another opinion later. To say it was frustrating, is an understatement. At the same time, I would much rather know that the differences exist so that I can make up my own mind, rather than go down the path someone else believes is right, only later to find out how incredibly wrong it was - for me.

Despite the fact that we often desire absolutes, it might behoove us to realize that there really are very few things that are "one size fits all," and to be more tolerant of the experiences of others that don't seem to correlate to ours, and to ask more questions of their experience instead of judging them for varying from what we expect or think we "know."

Am I "right"? Of course my ego would like to think so. But, of course, it would be silly of me to say I am, given what I just wrote. I would think the point is for us to take life apart and put it together in a way that makes sense for us, taking the things that make sense, and disposing with those that don't. Trying to limit how things are seen probably isn't very helpful, as it is through the contrasts that we often learn the most. I know that is the contrasts that has made me the hypnotist I am today. (As of yesterday, it was 8 years, and counting!)

If I had stayed with what I "knew" and hadn't seen what I have in the course of doing erotic hypnosis, I would likely have turned out to be a very different hypnotist. So while I may vary with those who say otherwise, ultimately I welcome the conversation. It is through conversations like these that I become more clear about how I see things for myself and am better able to share my perspective.

If you read my "novel," thanks for taking the time!

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There is the good. There is the bad. And then...There is the ugly.

Tomorrow will be my 8 year anniversary of being
Isis The Enchantress. I remember when I first
started doing this erotic, hypnotic "thing" I
thought it would be an awesome blend of the
sensual and erotic with the hypnotic.

I thought it would be fun.

I never imagined what I would find out along the
way. I never imagined the things I would learn,
and te experiences I would be exposed to. I
never imagined how I would be as a version of me
that now it sitting here, writing this to you.

What I was taught as a hypnotist is nothing in
comparison to what I have been taught in the
real life experiences of those I interact with.
What I suspect - even though it might seem
controversial to say this - is that oftentimes
the hypnotists are hypnotized.

It is difficult for me to reconcile the elements
of experiences of those who have gone in undesirable
directions with the things I was told in the course
of my courses. It is difficult for me to discuss
the "ethics" of responsibility, as where does the
responsibility ultimately lie? I have attempted
to discuss this topic before, and it is not an
easy one.

I remember a lawyer once telling me that experts,
by law, can get into trouble if they do not use
their expertise properly...or something like that.
In other words, an expert often should not be able
to claim to be innocent if there is in some way
s/he was able to say or do otherwise. I remember
thinking I wasn't sure that was entirely fair.

We live in a society that likes to place the blame
for things - on someone else. We will do whatever
we can to blame another for our issues. Why take
on the responsibility when it is so much easier
to point the finger?

I saw an article about a woman in Michigan who won
a million dollars. She thought it would be "OK"
to have the state continue to pay for her food,
as she wasn't employed. After all, the state was
still giving it to her, so why shouldn't she
continue to collect on that benefit? It isn't
against the legal law, but I know that there are
some who certainly take moral issue with it.

Then there is the case of a woman who is a school
teacher who was "caught" by students who it has
been alleged has done porn, on the side. Apparently
that is not against the law either, but what may
ultimately happen if it is found to be her is that
she could get fired for "moral turpitude," which
essentially means (for those who don't know) she
would be deemed morally incorrect in her actions.

I think how morals are treated and received is often
quite relative. Of course in both of these cases,
it would seem the women involved likely thought that
what they were doing was OK. In both cases, people
with similar "opportunities" may have taken a step
back and questioned whether or not the possible choice
to be made was a good one.

In life it seems to me that we are constantly presented
with the question of what we should do. I often think
about how well I might be received in the world if
those who don't know what I do, knew. I have questions
and considerations about what I do because I believe
that we should always have questions and considerations
with what we do. If we didn't, we would likely stagnate,
and run rough-shod over those around us, and maybe even
sometimes ourselves. Sometimes there are consequences
to actions and personally, I am not sure they are all
warranted.

At the same time, I have yet to meet The Perfect Human
Being who knows exactly how ALL humans SHOULD be at all
times. I have met several who think they know how
humans should be, but they are far from "perfect"
themselves. Of course, they are perfectly themselves,
but that is slightly different than being able to be a
model for all others.

So why am I going into all of this? I am discussing it
because once again I have been a witness to some very
ugly things, things that I would tend to believe have
to do with hypnotic suggestion.

I tell people over and over and over and...that they
need to be careful about what they do. Some of them
have already entered the rabbit hole, and already having
difficulty making choices based on what they want, rather
than what someone else has told them they want. Others
come in all fresh-faced, and with a blank, open mind,
with the attitude, "You don't know me. That could never
happen to me."

They are right. I don't know them. But what I do know
is more than I ever wanted to about what can happen when
the mind is played with by those who know what they are
doing. What I do know is of a couple of instances in
which a potential suicide had some correlation to what
had transpired hypnotically. It wasn't everything, but
I am unwilling to let it off the hook totally.

I DO NOT like saying these things. Hypnosis is a wonderful
thing. It can be a wonderful, life changing tool. I
enjoy what it can do, and love to bear witness to the
magic it offers. The profession works so hard to maintain
its credibility and there is a weird dynamic for some outside
of it that hypnosis doesn't work any way, but we better be
careful who gets their hands on it. There are many
misconceptions and skeptics and all kinds of things that
come together in one pot that often can be problematic,
at best.

I don't really know what THE answer is to any of these
things. I often have many more questions than answers.
I think the biggest problems come from when we think we
know things, and stop asking the questions. Whether I
am right or wrong, and whether or not you want to take
issue with what I have said and believe, isn't really
what is important, as what it comes down to is how you
choose to live your life, and the degree to which you
are satisfied with the results. Sometimes knowing
that there are some things you can never amend can make
you stop and think long enough to better understand
something that you perhaps weren't aware of and avoid
something potentially unfortunate and regretable.

Your life is a valuable one. I highly recommend you
guard it unlike any valuable you ever have had, or ever
will have. I highly recommend you consider who you
allow to play with it, and ask questions about how it
will be treated. I highly recommend you get the best
caretakers.

These, of course, are just recommendations, and if you
are a skeptic it might seem like serious overkill.
However, I guarantee that if you were ever in a position
to lose your skepticism you might find yourself in a
situation that leaves you less than satisfied and maybe
a whole lot worse.

If you intend to try out hypnosis no matter what, you
might consider you have nothing to lose by taking my
approach versus an indifferent one. You might consider
that I know a thing or two after 8 years, and thousands
of calls and callers. Oddly enough, I wouldn't want to
call myself an expert, as there is so much I am still
likely to learn, but even without that "status," there
might be a thing or two you could learn from me.

Please play, and STAY, safe
Isis

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I'm here...

"I'm here not because I am supposed to be here
or, because I'm trapped here, but because
I'd rather be with you than anywhere else in the world."
~ Richard Bach

I love this quote. It could be said of any
person in any relationship. Don't we all
want those who want us? Don't we all want
to be with someone by choice, rather than
obligation?

If you are "with" me...I want it to be
because you want to be, not because I
have "trapped" you. Even if it is just
for a few moments of undivided attention,
what greater gift is there than your choice?

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What do you adore?

Worship means to revere and adore.
Adore means to deeply love and respect.
Respect means to admire and hold in esteem.
In esteem means to regard highly.

Why the linguistic lesson?

Because lately I have been thinking about
the idea of "worship" in the erotic context,
and I find myself wondering if others have
considered things the way that I have been
considering them.

There is so much talk about "worshipping"
a Domme/a Goddess/a beautiful woman,
especially when this person wants something
from the worshipper.

It seems to be a mechanism the person who
is worshipped can use to control the person
who worships (in this case) her. And it
seems to me that the term *might* be a tad
distorted, and if it isn't, then it makes
me wonder if the person doing the worshipping
realizes what he is putting up on a pedestal.

If worshipping someone means to highly
regard them, and that someone treats you
like sh*t, or like you are unworthy, you
are putting not only that person on the
pedestal, but what she stands for. Yes;
she may be beautiful and may be giving you
attention, but do you really want to give
respect to the idea that you are undeserving
of respect? Do you really want to revere
and adore poor treatment?

I wonder if sometimes the single-mindedness
of the "worship focus" can have a person
unaware of what he is creating. Even
without "official" hypnosis, the focus
can be quite hypnotic. It can be all
too easy to push things aside in the
pursuit of whatever worshipping represents
for you.

If it works for you, then it truly is all
that matters, and you might want to stop
reading. The rest of this blog is not
likely for you. If, however, you are left
confused or wanting or needing then odds
are you are worshipping the wrong type
of person and idea, and it won't matter
how much effort you make - it will never
be enough. In a case like that, what you
are doing is likely only a distraction from
what you really want.

As hard as it may be for some to consider,
it is my personal belief that we all deserve
to be respected, and no one is any better
than any other of us.

We are just different, and those differences
have reasons to be valued. I never want a
person who chooses to "worship" me to be any
less of a man because of it.

While some may come to me with the idea of
degrading themselves to elevate me, I always
point out that I am much stronger and better
if they are stronger and better. You never
have to be less than who you are to appreciate
the greatness of another. If it is something
you have believed, consider that it was just a
hypnotic suggestion that was given you at
some point in your life. If you can view it as
the illusion it is, you can begin to dispel
its magic and its hold over you, and then really
discover some of the incredible magic life
has to offer when there is mutual regard and
respect.

If you need help to do it...
you know where to
find me.

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About Me

Occasionally I like to tell you a thing, or two,
about myself and how I do things. I figure the
more you know about me, the better the chance
we will have to click, or the better the chance
you will have to find someone else you click
with.

Today I wanted to talk about a request that I
occasionally get: hypnosis so that the person
feels like he is having sex with me.

I realize this may be a common fantasy - given
the genre, and while I imagine it would be
awesome beyond words, I am willing to give
you sex with a fantasy woman, but not with
myself.

While I am often open to explaining the reasons
why or why not for things, in this case I am
going to refrain. I have my reasons, and I
will leave it at that.

The beauty is that even without that, thousands
of guys over the last several years have enjoyed
their time with me. They still have had
phenomenal experiences and incredible pleasures.

Now having said that, I should also add that
sometimes guys are embarrassed at being aroused
in regard to me, and even somewhat apologetic
about how they feel or what they think about.

There is never a reason for that to occur.
You are, after all, calling me for EROTIC
hypnosis. I realize that guys are attracted
to me, and that some of you may have some
fantasies about me, and that is all fine.
However, it is different when *I* encourage it
within our hypnotic session.

I will never do "falling in love" hypnosis
because I think it can create a problem for
some. It might cause an inner conflict if
there is already a partner, or it could get
in the way of finding a partner. Neither
of which do I want to be a party to. If it
is what you seek, might I suggest you
reconsider, as the effect it may have on
you might in some way be unexpectedly
detrimental?

As always, I believe information helps provide
perspective that can be helpful when making
choices. Hopefully being aware of these things
will help you decide if I am right for you.
If there is anything you want to better understand,
or have any questions, please ask.

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The Big Picture

I have been observing what has been happening
in the Republican Primaries, and have a thought
I wanted to share.

From what is being said, it would seem as though
the way the candidates are going about things
is weakening the party as a whole, and potentially
its ultimate candidate.

Now whether or not that is "true," I am not sure
there is a way to tell with absolute certainty.
But what is certain, at least on occasion, is
that the bigger picture trumps the smaller one.

For instance, if you know that a person and a
relationship is important to you you will let
the bigger picture of maintaining that relationship
guide you in how you deal with an issue within
the relationship.

I can't help but wonder if any of the candidates
was willing to step aside, if it would be helpful
to their greater cause, which I presume is to
win back The White House later this year.

Any time we address things in our life, it is
helpful for us to recognize what the most
important piece is for us, so that it can be
a steering mechanism for the things we ultimately
say and do. In some ways it is like a compass,
and without it, it is no wonder we sometimes
wind up feeling lost.

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Just because you can...

does it mean you should?

Previously I have written about how just
because I can give someone something,
doesn't mean I should.

This time I am turning it around. Just
because you can ask for, and get, something,
does it mean you should?

Lately there are some I have spoken with
who have admitted to asking for things
hypnotically that they knew weren't the
best for them. In some regards, the
reaction is like a shrug, but in others
there is concern, and even some disdain.

Logically people know things. Logically
a person knows if he stops putting
cigarettes up to his lips, he can stop
smoking. Logically most people know that
if they stop eating ice cream every night
they will likely lose weight.

Logically we know a lot of things, and
yet we still find ourselves indulging in
ways that aren't exactly the best for us.
It is likely the work of our subconscious
driving us. Since it seeks what is familiar,
in cases of the hypnotic edge, it may seek
out the excitement of something new (the
excitement being the familiar feeling) over
and over for the dopamine hit.

For some, the new, the edge is like a drug.
For some, the "drug" numbs what is going on
in one's life that one is not happy with.
Some look and look and look for something,
but never find it because what they are
looking for isn't what the think they are
looking for. What they say they are looking
for is only a "fix." And because it is a
fix, it is likely a new "hit" will be needed
at some point.

Life isn't always easy. Life can even really
suck at times. Unfortunately we have way too
many numbing options available to us, along
with an unwillingness sometimes to deal with
the "real" issues at hand. To be fair, we
don't always realize that our perceived
reality is nothing more than a ruse, so we
have no way to know that there might be something
else to consider.

Having said that, if you find yourself drawn to
things that aren't the best or healthiest for you,
and you find yourself conflicted, odds are there
is something else that is seeking expression or
some form of attention.

It might just be a good idea to step back and
start asking some questions before seeking out
that thing that you want to have, just because
you can. It may not be easy, but it might be
more rewarding than that path you are about to
go down.

Just my couple of cents. As always, your thoughts
are welcome, privately or publicly (I often think
it is helpful when others share publicly, as it
helps people to know they aren't alone in their
experience. So if you are willing, thank you!)

Be well.

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MMMarch is Here!

Memorable Magnificent March is finally here.

Sometimes things don't work out the way we want them to,
but we are just grateful that they do!

For some reason this month's event felt like more work
than usual, but maybe it was just because of how things
have been going lately. But hopefully you will find
my efforts more than worthwhile. :)

So here is what you need to know:

There are 23 new images, including several animated gifs.

There are several leprechauns that could show up.
If one does, he has "taken" your goodie.

There are also some 4 leaf clovers. One type will give
you an MP3 file of YOUR choice. The other type will
give you an MP3 of MY choice. You will need to reply
to the email to redeem.

Like last month, I will give you an image if you receive
3 duplicates of any of the original images of mine and/or
3 leprechauns. To redeem this option, you will need to
contact me at the end of the month to let me know what
your duplicates were so that I can confirm. You will
also need to let me know which images you already have.

As always, if you have any questions, just ask, and
of course, ENJOY ENJOY ENJOY!

To play, click here ->
http://listenandobey.com/march/mmm.html

PS Since Day 1 has come and gone for some of you, if
you want to play Day 1, let me know, and I will make
it so you don't miss out. :)
 

It's Coming!

A Word about Price

I saw someone post in my chat box about how
he(?) wishes he was wealthy, as he can't
imagine affording me. I realize that my
rate when extrapolated over an hour can be
a lot. However what many don't realize is
that I can't just get paid for my one-on-one
time, as there is a lot of other work that
goes into your experience of me. My rate
allows me to do what I do, and provide you
the experience of pleasure you enjoy so much.

At the same time, it is much less than many
others who do what I do.

In addition, I try to work with people and
their budgets and the only session that has
a specified time duration is the first one -
30 minutes.

After the first session I have been known
to even do 5 minute sessions with regulars,
or even throw in some free minutes to those
who have an interest and take the actions
to enjoy the interest.

I also offer special prices on my files
from time to time, and some really great,
new images tend to show up in my monthly
games at a steal for $2.00. One month,
even audio AND video files were in the mix.

So, yes...you could look superficially at
what I do, and do nothing because you aren't
rich, or you could contact me and see what
the possibilities are before you so quickly
give up on something you desire.

I may not always be able to accommodate.
After all, I do need to make a living. But
because there is more to me and what I do
than making a living, I am often willing
to be as flexible as possible.

Have a great night!