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Sunday, January 29, 2012

A Bit of Reflection | Video

Tonight I became aware of a speech that Jimmy Carter
gave in 1979
. When I read it, it was clear to me
that there were many facets about it that would
still apply today - almost 33 years later.

In some ways, it makes me consider how much a nation
is much like an individual. Carter outlined certain
things - like the "crucial goal" of having the US at
20% solar powered by the year 2000. I can not find
what it currently is, but in researching, I saw a
headline that said we could be 10% by 2025!

How many times do we say we will do something, only to
do something else? How many times do we say something
is important, only to look back and see how we never
did anything to implement something new, or at least
cease to do the "old" things that weren't working?

Of course there will be people who will explain with
great logic why things are as they are, and will spout
great intentions for the best, but how often does the
logic of the "best" actually equate to "the" best?

I heard recently how we have enough of a resource for
100 years. Well. That's wonderful. But...what happens
in year 101, provided the prediction holds?

Why are we so short minded sometimes? Possibly out of
our need to stay in territory that is comfortable and
familiar. Remember that familiar is only comfortable
because it is familiar, not because it is necessarily
truly comfortable in how it affects us.

Another thing Carter spoke of was how he was spending
time with US citizens, and he quoted some of them who
said, "We've got to stop crying and start sweating,
stop talking and start walking, stop cursing and start
praying. The strength we need will not come from the
White House, but from every house in America."

How many times are you aware of those - including,
gasp! yourself - who will look outside of themselves
for answers and/or to assign blame. While some are not
religious, and may find "praying" a difficult piece of
the above quote, consider that the word could stand for
whatever it is that one has faith or belief in. We all
have something, even if it is just the faith that we
will somehow get through the day.

Carter's speech is called Crisis of Confidence, and it
is the thing we need most to light our way as individuals,
as a city, a state, a country, a world. Without confidence,
there is nothing to draw on internally to help guide the
way. It is what can make the vulnerable even more so.

Someone also suggested that Carter was managing the
government, instead of leading it. It is something
that I think could hold true for many people in their
lives. How often do you "manage" what occurs to you
instead of leading the way to an outcome that you
would prefer?

I know I am guilty of this more often than I would
like to admit. It takes extra effort to be able to
move forward in a way that is ACTIVE and PROACTIVE
versus REACTIVE. Oddly enough, I think as I write
that, it only seems to take extra effort and energy,
as how often do we find ourselves in an uncomfortable
place - expending more of ourselves - as a result
of a reaction to our circumstances?

In the last few days I have been learning about
something called xenoestrogens. While I would like
to explain what it is to you - I am still learning.
At the same time, I can tell you that it is something
that it would seem we should all become aware of, in
the same way that we become aware of how other things
can potentially be detrimental to our well-being.

It seems to me that we need to be educating ourselves
in the things in life that we interact with, instead
of taking another's word for it. It seems to me that
the things we are educated in - including our belief
systems (religious, or otherwise) - aren't always
going to be "true" or "right" or "best." People were
once taught the limiting belief that the world was
flat, and it took those who were willing to interact
with that knowledge in a different way that allowed
us to see there was more to the world than what we
perceived, based on what was taught.

You may think you have learned many things, and maybe
some have been more than helpful. However, it seems
to me that sometimes progress comes from our ability
to un-learn, and to be willing to explore new horizons.

The only way that we can do that is to be willing to
make some noise, upset some people, and potentially
be willing to be uncomfortable. And in the process
we might just see the world in which we live make some
progress.

In the end, we were born and we will die. The only
part we seem to have any say in is the part that lies
in the middle, and if we want to spend those years
in some sort of repetitive place, then it would seem
almost too easy to do. At the same time, what might
the world - YOUR world - be like if we were willing
to be comfortable enough with the unfamiliar and be
willing to take the kind of chances that could actually
have the possibility of creating the kind of world
that more often than not lives only in the precipitation
of conversations about it.

I am not sure what I can personally do for the world-
at-large, except perhaps continue to work on myself and
ask questions and do what I can to shake up my own
environment in a way that works for me and reverberates
for others.

As I say that I think about the film, Fat, Sick, & Nearly
Dead
. In it, a man who takes his own journey in regard to
his health and well-being helps to make a difference for
another. What is a personal journey has bigger ramifications
as the person he helps winds up helping others.

It would seem the best way we can help the world (should
we have the desire to do so) is to do all that we can to
help ourselves. As I write that, it occurs to me that
it could be the recipe also for the problems we have.
So where does the line get drawn?

I think that might be a discussion for another day. However,
I would suggest that it may, in part, be due to one's intent.

Ok. Enough reflection for now. LOL.
Have a great day!

PS If you'd rather hear/see the speech than read it,
I found it on Youtube:


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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

At Least Be Clear...

about what you are upset about.

I recently heard a story about a shop
in Brooklyn, NY that had earrings that
some were upset about because they
thought they represented the Nazis
.

The symbol that Hitler chose was similar,
but not the same, as those represented
in the earrings. What Hitler chose to
alter was actually a symbol that was
quite positive and affirming.

Most people probably do not realize
that it isn't the same. It is just
similar enough for the mind to say
it is the same, when it really isn't.

I can see why people could be upset
at the symbol...but the symbol is not
the thing. It is a difficult distinction,
and while some may get it, there may
be others that won't, and will use the
symbol to incite its perceived meaning.

For that reason, a conversation about
the symbol - even if incorrect - is a
difficult one to have. Because of that
I mention this as an example of something
that has been misconstrued and upset a
lot of people - potentially needlessly.

At the same time, if we take a moment
to look at things and explore what is
happening in the background, rather
than reacting to what we think we know/
see, we may save ourselves some potential
heartache.

So the next time you think you know
something, realize that you may only
know what you THINK you know, and not
what is truly the case (which, by the
way, could be a good thing - but it
is not usually those times that we
remember or hear about).

Have a great night.

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Monday, January 23, 2012

7 days of sex? | Video

Someone asked me what I thought of this video,
and what the couple is recommending. Some
in the erotic world would say that abstinence
does a relationship good.

Personally I think that anything that is used
to manipulate another is not always in the
best interest of a relationship. Understanding
dynamics are helpful, and so is the ability to
truly communicate within a relationship.

I don't think that everyone is the same - even
if they are of the same gender, and I am not a
big fan of broad generalizations. As odd as
some may feel it is, some men wouldn't care if
they couldn't have sex for a week and others
wouldn't be interested, even if it would happen.

In watching the video, it seems the emphasis is
more on the relationship than it is on the
aspect of sex, and that I would agree with.
As far as the part about sex goes, well, the
exercise they propose seems to do what exercises
are supposed to do: show those who do it a
thing or two about themselves.

In relationships with others, it is an understanding
of ourselves that is often the most helpful. In
looking at others it might be easy to point, at
the same time, if we look we may find our reflection
in what we see - if we take the time to notice.

If you are having difficulties in a relationship,
it might be a good idea to take a step back and
look at yourself, and see what is truly bothering
you. If you are feeling unloved the things that
people (or don't do) will likely be things you
will fight over when, in actuality, they may not
be the issue at all and if you address the things
without addressing the real issue you will find
yourself rarely making any progress.

But I am getting off track a bit. In the end,
I would say that the best solution for any
dynamic isn't likely to be the "one-size-fits-
all" option that someone else offers, but
the one that those involved work through and
create on their own.

Dems my couple of cents.


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Sunday, January 22, 2012

Gratitude

Every now and again I have moments of awareness that
involve gratitude. The moments I feel grateful are
the moments that I am aware of the things that I could
so very easily take for granted.

There are times as I walk to my car late at night, I
am grateful to be living in a place that I feel safe
to do so.

There are times as I go about living my life, I am
grateful to be able to walk the street without a fear
of a bomb going off, or there being a shooting.

Interestingly, there was a time I lived in a nice
neighborhood that was so nice drug dealers moved in.
There were times you could hear what sounded like
shots being fired. It was pretty scary. I had to
sometimes think twice about what I did, and how and
when I did it.

So often we take the things that seem "natural" to
us for granted. We stop thinking about how great it
is that the sun shines often enough for us to have
the food we have and the beauty of nature.

Today I was thinking yet again about how grateful I
am for those who think so highly of me that they
treat me as they do, and treat me to the things they
do. I would hope that I express my gratitude at those
times, but sometimes I wonder if I could ever say it
enough, or convey how I feel sufficiently enough.

I am not a person who believes the world should bow
at her feet - or even its inhabitants. But I do
believe that it is nice to treat others with respect
and generosity and am appreciative when it is met
in the same way when it comes back in my direction.

So to anyone who has ever let me play in the playground
of their mind and has been kind and appreciative
of my efforts and has taken the time to express
yourself in any way - and particularly if you have
been particularly generous with presents given to me
I just want to take
this moment
to say...

THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.

Have a great day.
 

Tenker in America: Tale of an In-Person Session

After months of joyous anticipation, the day I would meet Isis finally
arrived. Flying into Baltimore, I'd been listening to Go Deeper and
Blissfully Blank, which made the flight a lot more relaxing and
pleasant than usual. Upon checking in to the hotel, I called Isis to
let her know I'd arrived. Time went by painstakingly slow while I was
waiting for Isis to arrive and the adventure to begin ;)

Finally I heard a knock on my door, and as I rushed to answer it I
suddenly felt a sudden jolt of nervousness. Amazingly, the nervousness
vanished before I even got to the door, knowing it was Isis just made
me feel so calm and relaxed, yet incredible excited.

I opened the door, and there she was: Isis, THE Enchantress, Queen of
Goddesses, Bearer of Joy and Pleasure. It really was one of those
Wow-moments :)

Isis and I had be talking a lot about the concept of walking around
while in trance, being able to be functioning out in public, while
still being in a deep hypnotic state. Thus, the plan was for Isis to
first take me as deep as needed so that we could go out for dinner,
me being in trance. Of course it didn't take her long to get me
deeply under, using one of the techniques I love the most: pulling
me in and out of trance, going a bit deeper for every iteration.
And it worked brilliantly, when Isis next woke me up, we had left
the hotel and were underway to the restaurant, a Dave & Busters.
It was such an incredible feeling completely trusting Isis, letting
her guide me safely wherever she wanted.

I have absolutely no recollection of arriving at the restaurant,
but when Isis woke me up I sat at the table with the menu in
front of me. Judging by her hearty laughter (which, believe it or
not, was even greater in person), I must have looked quite
bewildered. When I started looking through the menu, she was kind
enough to inform me that not only had I already looked at the menu,
but also decided what to have. It was a strange, yet pleasurable
moment :)

For those not familiar with Dave & Busters, they're not only a
restaurant but also a games arcade. After finishing the meal,
Isis and I spent some time playing the arcade games. I don't
remember much of it, being in trance most of the time. What I do
remember, though, is how good it felt when Isis did better at the
games than I did. I have a suspicion she may have taken pity on
me and use some triggers on me as a delightful compensation :D

Going back to the hotel, Isis brought me out of trance yet again.
I could tell Isis enjoyed my reaction to my confusion when I found
myself walking around with a funny-looking Thor the Viking kid's
toy. It turns out I'd picked it out myself when redeeming all the
coupons we'd won playing. I guess it must have been the obvious
choice for a visiting Norwegian ;)

Back at the hotel, Isis took me out of trance and we talked
about our trip to the restaurant, and how great walking around
in trance turned out to be. Isis stayed a while longer, I don't
remember much of it besides going very, very deep. It must have
been interesting though, because even though I can't remember
much, I get a warm, fuzzy feeling and a big smile on my face
when thinking about it :P

Interestingly, I don't even remember Isis leaving. She left me
with a surprise, though, such that when I finally awoke from
trance I was feeling like a very lucky boy ;) She also made sure
I did get a good night's sleep, and that I would wake up feeling
absolutely wonderful and deliciously excited.

As it turns out, I had a lot of spare time before leaving Baltimore,
and my only regret was not being wise enough to do another session
before I left. But well, you can't win them all ;)

Meeting Isis in-person has been a dream of mine, and I'm so
very happy and grateful for being given the opportunity to
make that dream reality. She truly is an amazing person, intelligent,
witty and sexy as . I think Isis may be the most genuine
good hearted person I know, and I considered myself blessed to be
her good boy :)
 

In Person Sessions

Yesterday I met with Tenker for an in-person session.

It was a lot of fun, and the longest one I have done yet.

It was amazing for a few reasons:

1. We have been speaking for months, and have regular sessions.

2. The rapport we have has allowed me to do things that would
rarely be possible with someone I just met.

3. I felt at ease, given I felt I "knew" him well enough to
meet for a private session.

4. We had a length of time that afforded lots of flexibility.

5. He came with an expectation of enjoying himself,and we
were on the same overall page when it came to how things
would be (which was actually mostly non-specific).

In the almost 8 years that I have been an erotic hypnotist,
I have only met with a few people live. It isn't something
I do easily, and it is always with someone I have some
experience with on the phone. I think the fact that I have
done it that way is beneficial in many ways, not the least
of which is a more successful and satisfying session.

While I may not always know what I will do, one thing I can
tell you is that it is never sexual, and there never is any
nudity. Each session has been unique, and depends on the
person. Just like my phone sessions. Of course there is
overlap in terms of triggers, but how things occur in the
overall scheme of things will likely vary from person to
person.

Of course I could have my own plan and agenda, and some
would pay for that. The thing is, though, that when fantasy
and reality meet, they don't always get along. The best way
for me to insure mutual satisfaction is by keeping the person
that I am with in mind. It is still possible he will leave
what happens up to me, but if he knows me, he will have an
idea of what to expect, and will likely come away much more
satisfied as a result.

If you would be interested in a live session, the best way
to start is to get to know me...and do sessions with me.
If you already have done sessions, and are interested in
meeting me in-person ask me for details on how that can
happen. If you are interested, you can write me at
IsisATIsisTheEnchantress.com. NF is a phone service, and
while they do not forbid me to meet with those I speak with,
they do not encourage it...so please keep your request
outside of their site (thanks!). (Please note that I
respect the site's other conditions, and will not work
outside of their framework for calls, so please respect
it, too. I appreciate your understanding).

Feel free to ask me any questions. The more you know,
the better the decisions are that you can make.

As a side note, I am contemplating a trip to the UK in
mid/late April/May. It will likely be in the London
area. I will need to make plans soon, and if I know
there is an interest, it will help me decide what plans
to make. If you are in the area, or could be, please
let me know ASAP.

Have a great one!

Here are a couple of links regarding
how an in-person session was:
me-chan
hypnoprogrammed
tenker
 

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

I Love Workouts (Look Closely)

Body Painting

I was introduced to the work of Craig Tracy
today. It is amazing.

He does incredible body painting art that
you can likely appreciate, and get lost in.

Check him out here (the link is to one of
my favorite of his images).

Let me know what you think.

(and thanks to the person who "introduced" us)
 

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Sexy Video Anyone?

Someone just shared this with me, and I
thought I would share it with you.

It stretches the limits a bit...see
what you think.

CafeGlow - The Trailer from CafeGlow on Vimeo.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Enhancing Your Life with Hypnosis?

In my Yahoo group I send out a message
every 2 weeks that reads as follows:


Hello!

Every two weeks you are going to be
receiving this message.

The idea behind it, to get you thinking
about what you are doing
to create a life you LOVE to live.

If you are not moving forward,
the saying goes,
you are moving backward.

What can you do TODAY to enhance your life?
What have you done lately to enhance your life?

Care to share?
If yes, I look forward to hearing from you.

If no, it's cool...as this is for YOU,
so it can be between you and your computer.

If you haven't done anything recently,
maybe it's time to do a little something...

What do YOU think?

The most recent message received this response:

Personally I don't find hypnosis or brainwashing
improving my life:

It takes my ability to think as an individual 
It alienates me from the groups that should be
improving my ability to love to live life 

To which, I replied:

How nice to see a response!

Thanks for your thoughts.

While I agree that hypnosis CAN get in the way of
life, I have also been a witness to how it can
contribute in positive ways.

It is sad for me to see something so wonderful be
used in ways that are detrimental to another.

Having said that...the original email is not intended
to be hypnosis specific...and, for that matter, responses
may have nothing to do with hypnosis at all.

There are many parts to a person, and I like to
keep that in mind when interacting with others,
hypnotically, or otherwise.

Have a great week.
Isis

I share this with you as fodder for thought.
If you find that hypnosis is not enhancing
your life (I would also add if anything
is not enhancing your life), you may want to
reconsider what you are doing. I realize it
may not be the easiest thing to change -
knowing is one thing - acting on it another...
but with desire comes possibility.

With, or without, hypnosis we can enhance our
life...the question is whether or not we
do and/or will.

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Saturday, January 7, 2012

Perspectives

While it might be easy to see what I am about
to point to as "political," I would like to
suggest in advance that you consider reading
what I write without a "political" tint.

Often things that appear as political are
instantly polarizing by the perceived label,
and I would dare say/suggest that that may be
part of the problem we face with the world
within the dynamics of "politics." After all,
behind the politics are living, breathing
individuals.

I have been noticing how people are reacting
to some of the things that are coming up in
regard to the Republican candidates. One of
those things was the reaction some had to
Romney offering to bet $10K on a fact that
another candidate disputed. Then there is
Gingrich who tells "black people" to get
work instead of food stamps, and then there
is Santorum who has made comments about gay
marriages as well as statements about those
who have pre-existing medical conditions.

What I find interesting about all of this is
that what they are saying isn't all that
unusual in the weave of life. It just so
happens, though, that because they are
candidates everything they say, do, and
believe is publicly scrutinized.

I am all for people having their varying
opinions, as it is what makes being in a
culture that can freely express itself so
great. However, in the process of expressing
opinions, often things will happen as a
result. Odds are the things that do happen
as a result of one person's choices will
hardly ever impact them or their loved ones.
Or so, it would seem to me, any way.

Why would someone want to encourage something
if it in some way wouldn't be in their favor?

So it might be easy for one who has great
health and great medical coverage to say
that those who aren't well should pay more,
as s/he (as the case may be) will likely
never be in the position to know what it is
like to need coverage, but not be able
to get it.

It might be easy to judge someone who has
millions for making a seemingly small
(relatively) bet because it means he
doesn't recognize the value that money
has to someone who can barely make ends
meet.

The fact is that in both cases, and many
more like them, there are judgments that
come into play that may, or may not, be
fair or accurate in another person's
experience because the circumstances and
relative world are different.

Does it make any of the parties inherently
bad or unrelatable? I'd say likely no
more than an average number of people we
interact with on an average day. There
can be no way that any one person can
relate to every other person in regard to
every thing.

There are many conversations that could
come out of this, but the one that I
would like to focus on is the one that
doesn't require a vote. It is the one
that has us look at others and do our
best to understand how another may be,
and to do the best to help them when
needed...even if it is "just" to understand
how we might do something in a different
way that could create a different, more
productive outcome as a whole. After all,
we may one day be in the shoes of someone
who needs to have some compassion and
understanding and help, too.

This is not to say that people aren't
responsible for themselves, but rather
that if we are going to have a world
that works, it might behoove us to be
a bit more responsible for how the
pieces of our world come together, and
our perceptions, and that might mean
moving out of our own personal, myopic
world - even if just temporarily.

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Prince Charming | Video

Neicey Nash has a web series that talks about
relationships. She has an episode about
"turning" men into a prince charmings
.

While I am not a fan of broad generalizations,
I think things like this can be good overall
if it gets conversations going.

Niecy also talks about how "true" it is that
words hurt. I strongly believe it is NOT
the words that hurt, but rather the meaning
behind them. And, because of that, I would
say the more we are of the things that affect
us, and why, the more ability we will have
to moderate our reactions to what another says.

What do you think of what she says? Would you
agree with me? As always curious to know what
you think.

Have a great night.
 

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Want to...?

Obey?
Please?
Belong?

Then you definitely want to get file for DAY 6.

Click above for your January Joy. Now. :)
 

What are you missing out on?

It may be cold outside, but it would seem
a few are getting all hot and bothered by
my January Joy:

Image - Luscious Lavender Curls and cleavage, yummy :)  

Isis is luscious in lavender and her images always provide pleasure!  

the January Joy PTV game is AMAZING and today (Jan 5) is one of my all-time favorite surprises from Isis....BUY IT....it will blow your mind.  

buy the day three picture now..its incredible  

Image: Puppy Love Cleavage and leather - yummy!!!

So Beautiful

Isis is pleasure! Thank you for today's surprise, Isis!

just when i thought isis couldnt get any better

Wow what a recording  

So good, I need more

Isis is joy...and pleasure...in January!

I enjoyed the gif file. It was well made and
fascinating to stare at. Thank you.

every picture, every phone call is incredibly erotic!!! LOVE HER.


Even though no file will be repeated during
the month, this should give you some indication
of what to expect when you click and pay.

Every day a new pleasure worth much more than
what your $2.50 will bring you.

What are you waiting for?
Click above, and enjoy!

Still more images, video, MP3s to come and 26 days to go!
 

Monday, January 2, 2012

I Know I Wasn't Going to Tell You...

what was in the January Joy files.

But...what the heck?

How about just this once?

Day 3 is an image of my cleavage
that you will NOT want to miss,
especially if you are a fan of my
cleavage.

There are also some shiny black
gloves and black leather to
complete the outfit.

Click on the banner above that
says January Joy and then you
can thank me later.

Remember, this month will be
a new file daily...and it can be
anything...for ONLY $2.50!

That, in case you don't know it,
is a STEAL! Lucky for you the
only time you will get from it
is a PLEASUREABLE LIFETIME
of enjoyment. :P

Have a great week!
 

Be True Blue | JPG

Hypnotic crystal
Beautiful cleavage
Silver nails
Blue, holiday themed lingerie

This image was a part of the
"Nice" collection from Naughty or Nice.
You may have missed
out on the game,
but here is your chance to
get one the images.
Enjoy!

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