who you begin to have a relationship with
isn't the person you are in a relationship
with after some time has passed?
Articles like this one from Cosmo How to
Reach Soul-Mate Status With any Man
can, in my opinion, be a contributor to that
type of dynamic.
What really sucks is that something artificially
created that way can have two potential outcomes
(at least) that aren't necessarily positive.
One is that the guy will feel misled when the
woman gets comfortable, and stops doing the
things she needed to to "get him."
The other is that the woman might feel compelled
to continue to be a way that isn't in her nature,
and as a result resent the fact that she can't
be herself in the relationship.
Our training as human beings leaves something to
be desired at times. Why would we want to be
with someone who couldn't appreciate us for who
we are? A few answers that spring to mind are
ones that build a false foundation, and false
foundations create shaky relationships.
Communication comes in many ways, and I would
think it difficult to communicate effectively
if one is communicating from an insincere place.
Songs and literature are full of relationships
gone wrong, and the sadness of the split. I
have to wonder if people were more genuine
and were more willing to be alone if the
relationships that were created would be
less turbulent and longer lasting.
Something to consider. Perhaps.
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