It seems to me that many Dommes and erotic hypnotists
seek to have those who serve them endlessly and
mindlessly, and they expect all that serve to serve
in a specific, identical manner.
I realize that it isn't universal, and that it doesn't
pertain to all, however, there are enough that the
approach stands out enough for me to want to comment
on it.
Personally, I like personality. I like the
individuality that is brought to me by each person
that I interact with. Quite frankly I'd be bored
by everyone I interact with yes-sing me all of the
time, or acting the same exact way as everyone
else does when I affect him.
In addition, I am unable to take any pleasure in the
idea that when someone does something for me that
they are in some way hurting or compromising themselves.
Some would say they must want it to do it, however if
you know me at all, you know that I would say that
isn't necessarily true. And, even if it turned out
to be "true," I don't feel comfortable personally
contributing to the minimalization of another human
being. Just because someone wants to wreak havoc on
their life doesn't mean I need to play a part in it.
There are many that aren't a good match for me,
my style, my approach, and I will never try to be
something that I am not...and it doesn't matter how
much someone is willing to pay me (yes, on occasion
I have been offered a "bribe," of sorts).
I am a person who believes in the idea of "to each
his own," however it doesn't mean that I have to
agree with it, or in some way reinforce it.
I am always looking out for those I speak with, and
sometimes it isn't always appreciated. When someone
wants to be my good boy it means that he takes care
of himself FIRST and then does something for me.
I never want someone to do something that could put
them in a bind (unless it is a pleasurable one, and
even then, it must never embarrass or compromise him).
I get zero pleasure from that. Being a good boy for
me means being the best that he can be in every regard.
When I am questioned about this approach, I respond
with the idea that I deserve the best a person has
to offer. Why would I want anything less?
Friday, May 28, 2010
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