I often warn those I speak with of the possible
perils of hypnosis. One of the warnings has to
do with being careful when in a vulnerable state.
I speak with guys at many vulnerable points in
their lives: after death of a loved one, after
a relationship crumbles, while in a bad
relationship, while stressed out from their work...
What can happen in cases like this (even if not
in an erotic, hypnotic context) is that the pain
of the moment can get buried, covered over by
whatever interaction is being had at the moment.
The interaction can be as simple as a diversion,
but it can also masquerade as attention and love
in a time when either or both are desperately
needed and/or desired.
Is there anything wrong with how it occurs?
Not necessarily. However without a mindfulness
of the possibilities, a person can go down a
path that can be more painful than the one
avoided.
Sometimes pain is hard to face. However, having
a willingness to allow it to process and heal
will be a lot less painful than covering it over
only to have to address it at some future point
after it has festered and grown. And, not only
that, there may be additional pains and
repercussions from what was done in the covering
over process.
And that doesn't include the often ensuing guilt
and kick in the butt that many give themselves
at that point because somehow they should have
known better, or somehow prevented it from
happening. Most times it happens so subtly that
the person doesn't even realize what has occurred.
Two things to consider going forward:
1. If this happens to you, be kind to yourself.
You were in pain, and dealing with it the best
way you knew how at the time.
2. Prevention is the best option. Now that you
know of the possibilities, if you suspect that
you could be vulnerable, allow yourself to find
options that can help you heal, rather than mask
your pain.
If you are in a place that isn't so great right
now, and you would like some hypnosis, consider
giving me a call. You would be amazed at how
some TLC could fit exactly what you need, and
can help you heal and move forward in a positive
and affirming way.
In addition, I have 3 recordings that you may
want to consider that could also be of some
assistance in a tough time, perhaps consider one
or all of them to help support you during your
rough patch.
Metamorphosis
Pure Love: The Gift
Release
Any questions? Just ask.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
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