On Change and Letting Go

Someone I know wrote the following
in regard to his relationship:

"Our relationship is all about
appearance. We appear to care
about one another - but we don't
really. Because if we did, things
wouldn't be this way."

I am sharing this because I thought
it helpful for anyone who might be
struggling in a relationship.

He has had a myriad of issues with
his wife and relationship and has
continued to hang on, despite
realizing that really, truly caring
about his wife might actually mean
letting go.

It doesn't have to mean that, but
it does have to mean a death of
some sort, as things that go on as
they have will only create more of
the same.

This goes to show that being aware
of something consciously does not
always mean that you will be able
to resolve a situation.

All too often it is too easy to
ride on the wave of the familiar
(homeostasis) instead of doing
what you need to for the best
interest of all involved.

Your unconscious is already doing
what it thinks is best, and it
is likely what will keep you stuck
until you can find a way to unstick
yourself.

Nothing ever needs to change.
However, unhappiness, restlessness,
regret, fear of regret, and similar
feelings are usually a sign that
a change would be beneficial.

A change in a situation that doesn't
seem to be working will not only
benefit you, but those around you
as whatever you are experiencing
isn't confined to just you.

People don't always know what's
"wrong," but they know when something
is not right. The more you try to
bury your discontent, the more it
will grow. "What you resist, persists."

Of course I could be wrong. But
are you willing to bet on it? If
not, and you're in a tough and
uncomfortable situation, you
might want to sit down and take
a good look at things, and consider
making some tough decisions.

If you feel you need some help to
get past those blocks, let's talk.
Hypnosis can help.