Dean Chandler, a Tango Contributing Editor,
wrote about how men and women are supposed
to interact in regard to phone calls, text
messaging and instant messaging.
While he makes some interesting points,
I question the idea that there is a one
size fits all women and men approach.
The more we try to make absolute statements
to those things we have labeled, the more
likely we will to run up against something
that doesn't really work.
I would think an article like his could be
a good jumping off point for those in a
relationship (of any kind). As long as
those involved are as honest as they can
be about their preferences (refraining
from what they think "should" be said),
odds are good that they will find their
own balance, and what works for them as
a couple, instead of bowing to their
expected gender-based responses.
Just my couple of cents. What are yours?
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