What do you deserve?

I see people in the phone sex and erotic hypnotic
world who get taken advantage of, and seem to
ask for it. I can't help but wonder what prompts
the openness to abuse.

I want to say they deserve better. However, when
I think about it, I wonder if they think they deserve
better. If they don't think they deserve better,
then perhaps they deserve what they get.

Frankly, I don't like the sound of abuse any which
way it is sliced, especially since I think there is a
lot that can go into it, mostly unconscious.

If you are a person who seeks that treatment, or
settles for it, perhaps you could be treated better
if you were willing to consider that you deserved
better. It will take a change of attitude to change
the atmosphere, and sometimes a change of
atmosphere will bring a change of attitude.

If you don't believe you deserve better, you will
find yourself with those people and circumstances
that reinforce your perceived position. On some
level it works for you, because it is where you are.

But it doesn't mean that it truly does work. If
you find yourself doubtful or regretful or angry
or frustrated, these are most certainly signs that
a change likely would be welcome...and, if that
is the case, know that you CAN change. It may
not be easy, but perhaps easier than you might
realize, and it most certainly IS possible.

As usual, this applies to other relationships and
experiences in other contexts within our world,
as well. The more discontented you are, the more
you might want to consider there is something
to address that you've been avoiding.

If it's time for a change, and you need a hand,
or a friendly voice, let's talk.