A Glimpse into My World

Today I had a very good boy talk to me through IM. It was a conversation that lasted well over 2 hours. It wound up being a 23 page document in Word. I copied the conversation because it was one to remember, for the both of us, and now I want to share some of it with you.

This good boy did an amazing thing.

In the time that we spoke, the number of times that he sent me money was approximately 120, or so times. Now, before you think he sent me oodles of money, let me tell you that it was "only" $1 with each time. I say "only" in quotes, because to me, that is still money worth noting.

Any time someone wants to share their money with me, it is notable. The money game, for me, is a tricky one. I never want anyone to spend more than he can afford. I even checked in with him at one point, to make certain we were still good. I warn you to be very careful when indulging in this kind of "play." Depending on who you indulge with, you may not be so happy when you finish.

I asked him if I could share our conversation, and he agreed. I took out anything personal, and changed his "ID" to "My Good Boy."

I post some of it here (about 20 minutes worth) for you to see a little bit into my world. I have thought it might be interesting to share the whole thing at some point, as I am often asked about the types of things that happen. However, for the moment, I offer you a tidbit to enjoy.

**A word of warning: If you are suggestible, this conversation may have an effect on you, even if you just read it. If you proceed, proceed with caution.**

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Isis TheEnchantress: you've been a busy boy

My Good Boy: so very good

Isis TheEnchantress: a few more...

My Good Boy: yes

Isis TheEnchantress : and I'll have a whole transaction page from YOU

My Good Boy : mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Isis TheEnchantress : I don't think I've ever had that before

My Good Boy: omg

My Good Boy : such a busy boy

My Good Boy : love pleasing u

Isis TheEnchantress : you should see it, and the smile I have on my face

Isis TheEnchantress : it's pretty cool

My Good Boy: i would so love to see it

My Good Boy: and the smile

My Good Boy: mmmmmmmmmm

My Good Boy : and wish you could see how hard u have me

My Good Boy: mmmmmmm

My Good Boy: so sexy

My Good Boy : what u do to me

Isis TheEnchantress : 4 more...and the page will be all you but one

Isis TheEnchantress: very impressive

My Good Boy : yes Isis

My Good Boy : 4 more

Isis TheEnchantress : wow

Isis TheEnchantress: so cool

Isis TheEnchantress: wow

Isis TheEnchantress : 3 more and the page would be all you

Isis TheEnchantress : this is amazing

My Good Boy : yes

Isis TheEnchantress : I don't think I've ever seen anything like it

My Good Boy : mmmmmmmmmmm

Isis TheEnchantress: wow

Isis TheEnchantress : I just see what you did

Isis TheEnchantress : a whole page just from you

My Good Boy: o goddess

Isis TheEnchantress : you must be feeling so amazing right now

My Good Boy : so amazing

My Good Boy : so aroused

My Good Boy : so so aroused

My Good Boy : so submissive

My Good Boy : so much pleasure

Isis TheEnchantress : such a very good boy you are

My Good Boy: so much pleasure

Isis TheEnchantress : ty so much my good boy

My Good Boy : ur welcome Isis

My Good Boy : i love being ur good boy

Isis TheEnchantress : I love the pleasure you get

Isis TheEnchantress : from being my good boy

Isis TheEnchantress : being my very good boy

Isis TheEnchantress : is what allows you such pleasure

Isis TheEnchantress : again and again and...

My Good Boy : yesss

My Good Boy : again and again and again

Isis TheEnchantress : you are my good boy again and again...and I know it feels so good

Isis TheEnchantress : so pleasureable

Isis TheEnchantress : so amazing again and again

My Good Boy : ooohhhhhhhh

My Good Boy : yes

My Good Boy : such a rollercoaster

Isis TheEnchantress : I love how you ride the rollercoaster my good boy

My Good Boy : so turned on

My Good Boy : typing and touching.......and sending

Isis TheEnchantress : mmmmm

Isis TheEnchantress: typing and touching and sending

My Good Boy : yesssssss

Isis TheEnchantress : what a great combination

My Good Boy : yesssssss

Isis TheEnchantress : typing and touching and sending

My Good Boy : yes

Isis TheEnchantress: it has a good ring to it

My Good Boy: mmmmmmmm

My Good Boy : ring ring ring

Isis TheEnchantress : typing and touching and sending

Isis TheEnchantress : they go so well together

My Good Boy : yes

My Good Boy : so good together

Isis TheEnchantress : such a good boy you are

My Good Boy: i love the thrill when u say that

Isis TheEnchantress: typing and touching and sending

Isis TheEnchantress : giving me pleasure my good boy

Isis TheEnchantress : by giving yourself so much pleasure

My Good Boy : yes giving u pleasure

My Good Boy : giving myself so much pleasure

Isis TheEnchantress : by typing and touching and sending

My Good Boy: yesssss

Isis TheEnchantress: such a good boy you are

Isis TheEnchantress: so much pleasure in typing and touching and sending

My Good Boy : yessssssssss

Isis TheEnchantress: so much pleasure in being my good boy

My Good Boy : yesss

Isis TheEnchantress: so much pleasure

Isis TheEnchantress: again and again and again

My Good Boy: oooooooooo

My Good Boy : goddesss

Isis TheEnchantress : you 'sound' so delicious right now my good boy

My Good Boy : i almost came with those last few

My Good Boy : omg.........such a turn on

My Good Boy : stroking..........stroking

My Good Boy : reading

My Good Boy : typing

My Good Boy: sending

A few things about me...and the NF world

This post will be a few things about me and my Niteflirt world.

I have often thought that sharing some things about how the Niteflirt world works would be helpful and/or beneficial to know. Many people don't realize things about the site, and it can affect their experience of me as a result.

• I work as an Independent Contractor through Niteflirt. I never see any of your personal information. Only Niteflirt the company will know who you are, have your credit card information, phone number, etc.

• Sometimes the Niteflirt site/technology will have hiccups, and calls may have difficulty connecting, or not connect at all. In general, I try to only say I am available, when I am. So if it says I am available, and you don't get me, try using the Arrange A Call feature. There is no way I can call you back, unless you use that feature (actually it is the system that is calling you back). If it was one of those fluky moments, I should be able to get back to you fairly quickly, once I have ascertained what happened.
  
  If my availability says "Alert me of Calls," it means you may or may not get me. If you want me, though, it will certainly be worth a try. Sometimes people won't try me when they see this status, thinking that they will bother me. Let me assure you, that as long as I am showing myself available to take calls or in the "alert" status, I am very much interested in speaking with you.

• When you look at any of my listings, you will see stars. The stars indicate how I have been rated, in addition to some other measures that Niteflirt has determined. If you would like to understand how they work, please visit: www.listenandobey.com/ratings.htm.
  
  
• You will always have the opportunity to rate our call if you stay on for just a moment at the end. The system will ask you how many stars you would rate the call. It may also ask if you want to leave a Tribute (essentially a tip). The Tribute is optional (and always appreciated). If you hang up without leaving feedback, or a Tribute, and would like to, you can go online, and do it from within your account.
  
  
• Niteflirt provides you email. You have the ability to block anyone from sending you mail, and it is likely that anyone you have ever had contact with may email you. I would prefer that people who have contact with me ask to be removed from my mail list, rather than block me. Of course, the choice is up to you, but I will always respect your choice. Only those who have called me more than once will wind up on my regular email list, unless they choose to be removed.
  

• When you request a Payment email of some type to buy a picture, a recording, etc. (whether or not you pay for it), your name will automatically be placed in my customer list. Therefore you never need to speak with me on the phone to be contacted by me. However, if you never called, emailed, or requested a file from me, I would be unable to initiate contact with you.
  

• Niteflirt allows me to provide free minutes to US callers. I can give up to 5 minutes at a time, and you can only use one block of free minutes (from 1-5 minutes, depending on what you receive from me) per call. It needs to come via an email to you. When I say I will send free minutes, I will. However, it can not always be instantaneous. Sometimes, too, I might forget. Sorry, Goddess, or not, I have my human moments, so if that happens, please feel free to remind me.
  

• There are 3 types of pay emails that Niteflirt has:
  
  Pay to View: Once you have requested the email, you will need to make a Payment to receive the content.
  Payment Request: I can request money of you. It's a REQUEST. That means you can choose to accept (pay), or not. Either way, if there is content attached, you will have access to the content (for free, unless you decide to pay for it at some point) as soon as you receive the Payment Request email.
  Send Payment: If you want to send me any money, you just need to go to the "Send Mail" section of your account, and right under the "TO" section there is a box that says "Type of Mail." You would change the type of mail from "Regular" to "Send Payment." A new box will appear, and there you will enter the amount that you want to send me.
  
  Special note about rating the emails that involve payment: Any time you have made a payment, you are able to rate the email/file. Should you leave a comment, there will be no way for someone to know what you were referring to, unless you specify the name of the file along with your comment.
  
  
• Sometimes people want to know how much I make of the money I charge: Niteflirt takes 30% of any type of payment email. In regard to calls, they also take 30% , on top of connection charge of 20 cents, per minute of the call.

So...there are a few tidbits for you to be aware of. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I want you to have the best experience possible, and I will always do what I can within Niteflirt to make that happen.

Have a GREAT day!

Isis
http://www.isistheenchantress.com/

WOW!

I just calculated how many calls live calls I have taken as Isis on http://www.Niteflirt.com/isistheenchantress. I have been Isis
nearly 4 years. However, to be fair, Isis The Enchantress hasn't
always done hypnosis. Also every call hasn't always led to hypnosis.
Some calls have been disconnected, and other wonderful things
have happened on the way to me doing my "thing."

However, having said all of that, I still think "WOW" when I realized
today that I have taken 6000 calls during these 4 years, with the
majority being me as Isis The Enchantress, Erotic/Sensual Hypnotist.

Why do I share this? Well...

I share it in part, to thank you for the part you may have had in this
milestone. I have mostly enjoyed my time as Isis, and appreciate
all who have been a part of my experience. I have "met" some really
great people, and would at this point call some of them friends.

In addition, I was thinking about
why someone might
want to call me.
To you, it may speak to
the variety of people and erotic sessions
that I have been exposed to.
It may speak to my having the experience
that will make your experience
the best it can be.
It may tell you that
I have people like
you calling me again and again
(or again even after a long
time of silence) because
there is something that
they appreciate about
me/what I have to offer.

It may also tell you something totally different.
If so, I would love for you
to tell me what YOU think of my milestone.

Thanks for being a part of my world.
Have a great week.
Isis

I'll never do anything against my will...

When I first started to do hypnosis, I gave the party line, "you'll never do anything against your will." It is what you are taught in the training, and it is what you hear over and over and over from the professionals in the field.

So you hear that, and figure, "What the heck? Let me do it, it's safe."

Well...

What I am about to say I am fairly certain may be met with some disbelief (as I have received quite often from callers), or countering opinion.

Yes. It is true that you will never do anything against your will.

HOWEVER, who is to say what your will may be at any given moment?

Unfortunately, there are ways to manipulate someone in a hypnotic state into an impossible either/or situation. Neither option may be the option of choice, however, you would likely choose the one at the moment that was either the most pleasureable, or the one that caused the least amount of pain or discomfort - which could potentially be something that would normally fall under the heading of against your will.

Too many times I get calls from guys thinking that they're invincible. They know themselves, and have a strong will. Sometimes I show them that they don't know themselves as well as they think they do under a powerful hypnotic influence, as they are BEGGING me to do something that would normally be "against their will." Awake, they are astounded, and realize that just maybe there is something to what I say.

I would suggest that you consider who you speak with hypnotically quite carefully before indulging (the same would apply for recordings). I would suggest that you really have no idea of what you could potentially be in for. I would also suggest that even though it might seem quite erotic in the thought of it, the reality of it can be anything but pleasureable.

Yes. I know this can put a damper on things. Sometimes I do take what I do quite seriously and, for some, it can take all the fun out of it. However, I can assure you, in these types of situations, ignorance has the potential to be anything but bliss.

Happy Hypnotic Trails to you!
Isis

How did "Isis The Enchantress" Come to Be?

On several occasions, I have been asked how I got started, as well as why I picked the name I did, so I thought I would share a little bit about it here.

Once upon a time...

In a galaxy far, far away...

Ok. Let me get serious for a moment. It'll be a moment, and then it'll be gone - until the next one. So catch it while you can.

Around eight, or so, years ago I took a hypnosis course. The subject always interested me, so I decided to learn more. While taking the class, which discussed stopping smoking, stress relief, and losing weight, I remember thinking how it could be interesting to use hypnosis for more "interesting" things. I thought about how it could be, perhaps, in the context of a relationship.

I remember the thoughts, but then nothing happening with it. That is, until about 3-4 years ago. At that time, I was aware of Niteflirt, and saw listings with these women who used hypnosis for erotic means. I wondered if I could do it. Once someone had called me on a "regular" listing and asked if I did hypnosis. I explained to him that I did, but have never done it erotically.

He said he was willing to take a chance and, unfortunately, I bombed.

I used a script, and it was a non-erotic one, at that. That experience left me thinking that I might be better off staying away from doing what others seemed to be doing so well.

It seems that there were other things in store for me. Time and time again, my regulars would say how "hypnotic" I was. They would tell me that my voice was hypnotic. And this was all while I was just being "myself."

Once again, I revisited this erotic hypnosis idea, this time using my regular callers as my "guinea pigs." Anyone who was interested was given a really low per minute rate (much less than a dollar, I believe) and was told to expect to be on the phone with me for an hour. I sat down and I wrote a script.

The first call I read the script practically word for word. The second one, was more or less the same. By the third call, I was already winging it. I was making the stuff up as I went along. No one ever taught me how to do erotic hypnosis (who in the world would "teach" something like this any way??), so I just went with my sensual nature, and made stuff up along the way.

The hypnotist I am now is much different than the hypnotist that tentatively entered the erotic, hypnotic waters. It even morphed in the first six months, and has continued to morph. Anyone who would have called me back then, wouldn't recognize me now. I have also cut down the length of a first call considerably to a minimum of 30 minutes.

Odds are really good that that much time won't be needed, however, oftentimes it is time well spent for the caller. (A new caller often has no idea what to expect, and likely thinks 30 minutes can be overkill, or about the money. After the fact, if he is a willing subject, he is able to see otherwise, as he tries to compose himself - smile.)

I learned as I went along, changing, growing, adapting. Some of my callers presented different ideas and challenges (and still do). The ultimate experience that someone can have now is greatly enhanced by those who have come before. So you can, in a way, thank all of the horny boys that came before you. You can also thank all of those who have had a hypno-fetish for years. Their passion, interest, and excitement for the subject has many times inspired me.

As to why I use the name Isis, I think I'll leave that for another day. If you're interested, it'll give you something to look forward to.

Feel free to comment, and/or email me. I'd love to hear from you.

Have a great day!

Got Questions?

First, I want to thank the two,
who as of this moment,
commented on my first post.

I often debate with myself
about how open I want to be
with the world at large.

There are a few reasons for this.
I won't go into them. However,
I am a person who thinks that
being informed is a wonderful gift.

There was a slogan I've heard
that I have always remembered,
and I think it, in some degree,
speaks to how I look at, and
approach, things.

It comes from Syms.
Their tagline/slogan is:
"An educated consumer is
our best customer."

The more you know what to
expect and the clearer you are
about the potential pitfalls and problems,
the more likely you will be to make
better choices for yourself,
hypnotically, or in any other way.

I never mind when someone
uses me as a resource, and then
decides to go somewhere else.
If that happens,
I figure that someone else
is more suited to what he is looking for.
If he stayed with me,
then he would likely wind up dissatisfied.

The more you know about the subject,
or the more questions you have,
the better. You might be surprised to know
there are a number of people who
essentially call with a "Do Me" attitude.

While I appreciate the openness,
and willingness,
knowing something ahead of time
can be quite beneficial since
a generic request can wind up in disappointment.

There is a reason people call me back,
and I get good feedback, and
I believe that atleast part of it
is that I never willingly play a "role"
that isn't me,
and I am as clear as I can be
about myself and the process.

So...

I was thinking about this blog,
and thought that perhaps
it would be interesting if you
wanted to ask questions about me/
about what I do, and then I could
potentially answer them here.

I say "potentially" because
I always tell people they can ASK me
anything...the question really is, though,
will I answer? Smile.

I can tell you this: I may not answer
everything...however, when I DO give
an answer, you can take it to the bank.
I will always give you the best answer
I have to give at that time.

Does that mean it can change?

Absolutely!

I retain the right to change my mind
frequently and often.

Do I?

Not really. However, others would
have to be the judge of that.

I would suggest that you do the same.
Keeping in the same mind all of the time
can sometimes be limiting or destructive.
Nature changes, so why shouldn't we?

Thus ends entry number 2.

Have a wonderful day, and thanks again
for stopping by.

Isis

PS Do you know about my Yahoo Group?
You're welcome to join...just make sure your age
is in your PUBLIC profile (a requirement
of Yahoo's Adult Group members).

Thoughts on what I do...

Thanks for being interested in hearing what I think, and have to say.

First and foremost,
you should know...
I like men.

I know this isn't likely to be
what you expected, but
I really do like men.

In the time that I have been doing sexual/sensual hypnosis
in the last couple of years, I have come to really appreciate
the place that anyone who is male is in.

I actually find it to be a sad state of affairs
in the US that men and women both (in my opinion)
have no idea who they are supposed to be.

Women's Lib had women claiming that they needed to be
"equal" to men.
While I believe that people
(regardless of how one is packaged)
should have the opportunity to pursue what they would like to in life,
I think the ideas of the time also created the "myth"
that the only difference between men and women was the
differences in their body types.

Since that time,
there have been many "experts" who have explained
why men and women are different.
No where is it more clear,
than when men and women attempt to relate to each other.

While these differences
can be taken by some
and used to create chasms
between the sexes,
and reasons for discrimination,
they can also be harnessed
for the good of all.

(Just like anything, really.)

I have found through the extensive contact
I have had with many men of many types
in the last few years that there is a lot of confusion
about what is "OK" or "RIGHT" for a man to believe
and/or act on.
There seems to be a lot of guilt and shame.
There also seems to be a lot of silence
around the issues.

There also seems to be a climate
in which (some) men feel it is okay to be belittled,
to be used, to be taken advantage of,
to be put in impossible situations.

Men, it seems, like to do things for women.
They like to please them.
They like to solve problems.

The problem (it seems to me)
is that this desire to please
has taken a turn that,
instead of empowering a man,
has left him feeling disempowered.

To me,
there is nothing sexier than an empowered man,
even if that empowered man is
choosing for a moment to let me
tell him how things are,
and how they should be.

Why is that OK?
Because, the way I see it,
it is a CHOICE
that is made,
and it is for the moment.
Choices in the moment,
for me,
are quite empowering.

Beside which,
I believe we all have
two sides
(with lots of shades of grey)
and these sides need expression
from time to time.

I can totally understand
the pressure to have to perform all of the time,
and the resulting desire to have
a place that one can give oneself over to.

We all need balance.
We can deny it,
but denial has interesting effects
and consequences.

Somewhere in this mix
is also a culture of denial of oneself,
in many ways,
but in this case I refer primarily to
the sexual side of things.

Where is it safe to talk about oneself?

Where is it safe to be oneself?

I think these are two very good questions,
and when someone calls me,
I believe it has a lot to do
with safe self expression.

The call is an "exercise" for a man.
It's a place where he can be safe in
being true to himself.

The only thing is
that when one presents herself
as a "Domme"
there is an impression
that she is "above" men,
that she wants to humiliate men,
or cause pain,
or discomfort,
an impression that she is out for herself.

And, while there are some that
do believe they are above men,
want to humiliate men,
cause pain,
and discomfort,
and are very much out for themselves,
I learned a while ago that there are different types
of submissives and Dommes.
The type that appealed to me was the "sensual Domme."
For me, Domming is about creating pleasure,
guided by my caller's desires.

I realize that that is not likely
what is true for the Domme culture,
which is why I have never truly
immersed myself in it.

At the same time that I respect people's choices,
and desires, I will never use my abilities and knowledge
in a way that goes against who I am and what I believe in.
I will never use my abilities to cause harm to another,
and go out of my way to do whatever I can
to create a pleasureable (and rewarding)
experience for anyone who trusts me enough
to hypnotize them.

I take what I do seriously,
and will be very careful.
I have been even criticized on occasion
for my concern for those in my "care."

It may not be in my best interest
to care so much,
but I could never live with myself
if I ever stopped considering
the effect I could have on someone's life.

I could never have pleasure
at someone else's expense.
I have been given gifts and money,
but have always been clear
that pleasing me comes only
after someone takes care of what
he needs to, and what is done
can only be what one can reasonably afford.

Does this take some of the "charge"
out of the experience?
For some, absolutely.
Some will never call for that reason,
and for a few that do,
the call will end within moments.

I have found that many who call me
want to explore,
but don't want the extreme treatment.
I have found that many who call me
are sensual,
and appreciate a sensual experience.
I have found that many who call me
value the fact that I like men,
and care about those I interact with.

For those men, I am
a perfect fit,
and they will call me
many times.

There is more about me than
being a "hypno Domme,"
and occasionally,
a caller may find that part of me
appealing as well.
However,
unless the opportunity presents itself,
or the person expresses an interest in
me as a person, vs me as a Goddess,
that part of me is likely to
remained unrevealed.

Whenever I see ads on Niteflirt
that are mean to men,
I cringe.

I just typed that sentence,
and wonder if I should be so honest.

However, it says something to you
about who I am. If those ads
about being humiliated and taken
down appeal to you, you know
that I am not the right person
for you talk to. If you were
to call me, I might even suggest
that you consider what has you
thinking you deserve to be
treated that way.

Yup. I would.

Welcome to my world.
I mix "reality" with fantasy.

The concoction can be intoxicating.

You would be surprised at how
effective it can be with the
right approach and an open mind.

I know what people SAY they are calling me for.
After all,
they're calling through an adult site.
However,
having an open mind when speaking with me
would give you some amazing experiences
and surprises.

Ok...
So, I have been wanting to write about this for a while.

Now it's out there.

What happens next?

Hmmm. I don't know.

That, for me, is one of the best parts of truly living.

To be able to live for right now is one of the greatest
gifts we can give ourselves.

Thank you for taking the time to get to know me
a little better.

Isis