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Have a great New Year's Eve!
Isis

Just because you can...

does it mean you SHOULD?

Many times I get calls from guys
who want a certain type of
experience hypnotically.

Maybe they want to
feel out of control,
feel feminized,
humiliated,
have an experience with someone
they have fantasized with...
and they want to know -
can I give them that experience?

It can be one thing,
or one experience
comprised of many things.

The short answer is YES.

The longer answer is MAYBE.

The still longer one is,
after I get done telling
you what I know about it,
will you still want it?

If you already know me,
you know that I am careful
about what I do, and
just because I can do
something, doesn't necessarily
mean that I will.

However, I would like to
pose this question to you,
just because someone can
make you feel a certain way,
does it mean that you should
let them?

In hypnosis, it isn't always
"in fun" or in the right
spirit. In a certain situation,
it isn't an unlikely
scenario to find your mind
"saying" one thing, while your
body responds another way.

Yes, I know, that could be
an invitation for some.
Remember, though, that when
fantasy meets reality, it isn't
always a welcome thing. The
hypnosis can become a type of
stalker, one that may be very
difficult to get rid of.

Hypnosis is fun to play with,
but it can have unintended
effects, and you should
always be careful about what
you seek out. Every hypnotist
will do things her own way,
and odds are that you will
find very few that will risk
pushing you away with these
types of details.

If you have questions about any
of this, as always, you are
welcome to write.

Have a great night!
Isis

I have been accused...

of being too caring. Sometimes how I am
seems to be a problem for some of those
that I speak with. I have even received
negative feedback in the past for the fact
that I am doing anything but jumping in
and hypnotizing someone.

However, occasionally, it is appreciated -
and better yet, in a public way. Why is
public better? Because I think it is
important that those who call me know what
they are "getting into." If someone
actually takes the time to spend time with
this blog, and the other things that I have
available, they should have a pretty good
sense of who I am before they ever call.

Today I had one such call. He was such a
pleasure to speak with, and wasn't jumping
into our call. He wanted to know what there
was to know, and obviously found the money
and time spent of value. The time spent
with him was more than with most, however
it was perfect for him.

Please note that every call and every
caller is unique. I will approach different
people different ways, however, at the core
is my commitment that everyone who calls me
gets the best and safest possible experience
with me AND with erotic hypnosis in general.

Here is what he wrote:
"In our first call Isis made me
feel very comfortable,
speaking at length about what
we would be doing,
what kind of session
I'd like to experience, etc.
Unfortunately we were cut off
before any actual hypnosis
took place, but it was still one of
the best experiences I've had.
While Isis' previews and recordings
certainly give you a good idea
of how hypnotic she can be
(as well as erotic) they don't
prepare you for how
caring and attentive she is.
She took the time to get to know me,
to familiarize herself with me and
then suggested what might be
the best path to explore.
A very classy lady. It was my pleasure
to speak with her and I look
forward to doing so again."
(to Cal-L: Thank you for your open
minded approach, and your feedback,
it is always appreciated - I look
forward to our next call)

To everyone else...thanks for reading,
and I look forward to our next call, too!
There is never any doubt in my mind
that I DO have the BEST callers.

Have a great weekend.
Isis

Merry Christmas!

PS I have been asked what
I would like for Christmas.
If you would like to
please me personally,
I would love a
gift certificate
from Amazon
(send it to IsisWantsYou at yahoo.com)
If you would like to
please me in some other way,
anything that you do for another
that makes their world a better
place works for me as well :-)
Have an AWESOME holiday!

PPS Here's an interesting
way to give a Christmas Jingle. :-)
Oh what fun!

A potentially controversial video...

This video, and the resulting comments
on YouTube hit me on so many levels.

First, and foremost, it appears that
"Mike" knew he was being hypnotized,
and why, and he went along with it.

Secondly, it looked as though he was
enjoying the results.

Third, as you do not see all that
happens, there are certain assumptions
that might be made about the nature
of what he was told hypnotically.

However, if you assume that he was
told pretty much what you see, then
it is pretty straight forward.

You also see his wife interacting with
it, in what seems to be a "responsible"
way. Yes, it is quite possible that
she could take advantage, if she wanted
to, and there might be those that would,
if given the opportunity.

The thing that got me the most, however,
were the judgments of Mike as a bad
father and husband. The fact that things
happened the way that they did, and the
fact that he seemed very much to care about
his family, to me, says that he likely
would have done things "better" and
differently,if he only knew how.

Our subconscious selves tune into the
things that give us what we know is safe.
It is that way for anyone living and
breathing. We go to where is comfortable.

Somewhere along the line Mike found that
the way he behaved worked for him on some
level, so that is the way he behaved. Just
because it is familiar/comfortable, doesn't
mean it's our "Best" choice. Often what
we do that is comfortable and familiar can
cause us problems. "Comfortable" here
(incidentally) is equivalent to familiar.
We find comfort in what we know, even when
it creates outcomes we would prefer not to
have.

It would seem that the situation that Mike
had with his family is one of those outcomes
that wasn't "preferred" on a conscious level.
However, with his unconscious running the
show, it is difficult (if impossible) for him
to do anything else.

One note that I would make about all of this,
too, has to do with the route that the hypnotist
took. On a superficial level, yes, it does
take care of the lack of action on Mike's part
that can have a positive influence on his life
and his family's lives.

However, I believe that it also invites the
comments of some, and ignites the fetishes of
others. Nothing inherently wrong (I suppose)
with that, however, I would have to wonder what
the hypnotist's intention was in creating this
video.

If the intention was to show how hypnosis can
make a difference, I would have to suggest that
perhaps he could have taken a different approach -
one in which he addressed the CORE of what made
Mike stand in his own way.

The beauty of an approach like that could have
Mike consciously choosing to do what the trigger
"wonderful" was having him do unconsciously. On
top of which, he would be able to remember what
he was doing, instead of having it be something
outside of himself.

His wife and family could provide reinforcement
of his new behaviors, and a new family dynamic
would naturally evolve.

My guess is that perhaps, if it has been going
on for a while, that might be happening any way.
However, when the core is addressed, things can
happen as quick as a flip of a switch.

It is a beautiful thing.

There is likely more I wanted to say, but this
is enough for now...:-)

Let me know what you think!
Isis

Movies creating unrealistic expectations?

Maybe it is just hypnosis.

Today I saw an article
about how romantic comedies
can create unrealistic
expectations of relationships.

It speaks to the assumptions of
how one's sex life is supposed to
be so great, or how a significant
other is supposed to know what we
need.

Did you know that most times when
you go to a movie, and get lost in
it, you are likely in a hypnotic
state? It would be no surprise to
me that people would wind up being
more suggestible to the unrealistic
message of the movie, if they have
entered a hypnotic state while
watching it.

Remembering that effective hypnosis
becomes who you are, instead of what
you do, you walk away from the movie
(after having been unconsciously
exposed to a similar message in
other movies over time)
with the idea that things can be
wrapped up so wonderfully and easily,
and (in this case) romantically.

However, having said that, what
makes things more difficult is
that we don't live in a culture of
people who know how to communicate
effectively. There is a lot of
assuming going on, and often to the
detriment of ourselves and those we
care about. There is also
a lack of an ability to know how to
effectively communicate. Somehow
people believe that because we talk,
we communicate.

Are the movies a result of our
inability to communicate, or does
our inabiiity to communicate
come from the societal input
(which includes movies). I think it
is likely that it is a cycle in which
they feed off of each other.

I think it would be wise to consider
these types of things before blaming
movies for our seeming unrealistic
expectations/faults/inadequacies.
Movies may reinforce them, but they
do come from where we are.

Things like this are good because
they call attention to what is
happening. However, if we're
putting our hand in the fire, it's
not the flame's fault if we get
burned.

Awareness is one thing, and taking
responsibility is another. Hand in
hand there is nothing better for
getting the results we want. However
if we have an awareness without
taking responsibility, then we are
likely limiting our options.

Maybe we can enjoy the romantic
comedies for what they are,
becoming aware (conscious) of
how we interact with their messages,
instead of blaming them for our problems.
I can already see a potential backlash
from those who think they are "bad."

They're not bad in and of themselves.
What is "bad" is that we are
allowing ourselves off the hook by
focusing on something outside of
ourselves. Even worse, is that by
having that focus, the situation will
likely never get better because we'll
always have someone else, or something
else, to blame.

Just for the record, I know the idea
of this, in some ways, sucks. It does
often seem easier to address the outside
"forces." However, as always, awareness
is the key, and the epitome of choice,
and once you have it, it's
yours to use - or not.

All the best to you.
Isis

Things you can only say at Christmas...

I got this in an email today,
and thought I would share a smile.
I hope you are having a
wonderful holiday season!

Isis
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1: I prefer breasts to legs.

2: Tying the legs together keeps the inside moist.

3: Smother the butter all over the breasts.

4: If I don't undo my trousers, I'll burst!

5: I've never seen a better spread!

6: I fancy a little dark meat for a change.

7: Are you ready for seconds yet?

8: It's a little dry, do you still want to eat it?

9: Just wait your turn, you'll get some!

10: Don't play with your meat!

11: Stuff it up between the legs as far as it will go.

12: Do you think you'll be able to handle all these people at once?

13: I didn't expect everyone to come at the same time!

14: You still have a little bit on your chin.

15: How long will it take after you put it in?

16: You'll know it's ready when it pops up.

17: Just pull the end and wait for the bang.

18: That's the biggest bird I've ever had!

19: I'm so full, I've been gobbling nuts all morning.

20: Wow, I didn't think I could handle all that and still want more

If you want to contact me personally...

Recently someone asked how to reach me to ask
a question. If you want to call, you can
reach me through Niteflirt. If you are interested
in emailing me, and are not a Niteflirt customer,
you can reach me at Isis at IsisTheEnchantress.com.

Have a GREAT weekend!
Isis

you are so much more...

than a horny boy.

Yes, most people call me because they are horny.
They call because they "know" what they need.
It is unlikely that anyone would ever call to
stop what they're doing, because they have a
track record and a need and/or desire to do
what they are doing.

However, occasionally it does happen. Most times
it is someone who is quite conflicted about what
they're doing, and why, and what it is costing
them in time, money, and their own well-being.

After a while, the thing that brings them pleasure
starts to cost more than it is worth in pleasure,
but it is difficult to know how to stop it.

Sometimes when I speak with someone I can pick it
up in what and how they are saying what is being
said. My observations are occasionally appreciated,
however, it is not what they are calling for.

Why do I tell you this?

Because I recently had a call with someone who has
been calling me for a while, and was in the midst
of this type of struggle. He had been self-hypnotized
by the experiences he had been having for years, in
addition to separate, actual hypnotic sessions.

There was a part of him that wanted out, but the
other parts of him were trying to keep him where he
felt he was getting what he needed. It was difficult
for him to see why he felt what he did and, as good
hypnosis becomes who you are instead of what you do,
he was speaking his truth by saying that he needed
what he needed. However, there was a bias that came
from all of the hypnosis (official and "otherwise")
he had had previously.

I am of the mind that if something works then there's
likely no reason to change it. The
dividing line for me is when it stops working.

Unfortunately, when you can't see the forest for the
trees, you also can't see any other way than what you
have been doing, and it can become an inner battle.

The great thing about hypnosis is that the battle can
be approached in a way that takes care of all of the
parts of you - including the hypnotic ones that drive
your actions. You might be surprised at the potential
of hypnosis to give you what you want and need in a way
that takes care of you, and that you choose, rather
than being driven ruthlessly by it.

I find that many of my callers are amazing people.
There is much more to them than just being horny.
Yes, there is a place for it. However, if it is
taking you away from the beauty of who you are meant
to be in this world, and keeping you from something
you perceive as important, perhaps it is time to
consider that there may be other options.

To truly take care of yourself is to realize that
you have done nothing "wrong" or "bad" as many people
might come to believe when they are struggling. You
are doing what you believe is in your best interest.

The only problem comes when those things that work
for us on one level (on the level that drives us)
come to destroy us on another one.

Nothing is ever what it appears to be. There is
a bigger picture, one that has nothing to do with
phone sex, sexy pictures, sex, pain, humiliation,
domination, submission, hypnosis, and/or...

It has to do with YOU taking care of you. It has
to do with what these things provide you in a more
global sense.

If you are driven by your desires, you have covered
up who you are. If you are choosing what you do
as a result of your desires, then you are likely
going to enjoy yourself so much more, and everything
that you do (erotic and otherwise) will be that much
more enjoyable for you.

Some people find it difficult to do something that
might resemble asking for help. Please realize that
what I am speaking about isn't so much help, as much
as it is a perspective. If you can change your
perspective, you can change your world.

Having said that, sometimes we need a little help.
If you have unconsciously made decisions, it might
be difficult to uncover what they are without someone
assisting.

You aren't any less of a person because of it.
You are just being human. There is a part of you
that truly thinks it is doing what is best, and
unfortunately it can make a mess of things in its
desire to give what it thinks is best. It can also
be exploited by those who know how to tap into it.
The good news is when you become aware of it, you
can alter it.

If you are reading this, I am certain there is much
more to you than meets the eye. If it seems to be
the predicament you are in, I invite you to contact
me, and let's talk about it. You, like others, may
be amazed and, better yet, find yourself.

Have a great weekend!
Isis